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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/13/2008 12:32:21 AM | I don't know what planet your from, but I have never seen a babe as you put it, with an ugly guy. It's attractiveness apartheid. We instinctively look for people on the same attractive level as ourselves. Also you assumed post writer, that because he was ugly, he must be rich to attract her, I can see were your coming from there, but not all people think that way. Money makes people arrogant, so I'd rather stay poor and be a nice person.
Instincts have it that attractive people date other attractive people to have healthy good looking babies, this is why it's most important for younger people to have good looking partners, and for their street cred and social standing too. As people get older, they realise that others actually have personalities and it is this that matters most. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/13/2008 12:57:33 PM |
It's looks that fade, the personality sticks around
Ok, ok…yes I like to think this is true, but I am not buying it at all. I personally do my best to think this way, but some times I find myself thinking superficial. Of all the people I know, or even talk to, stories on TV etc…the first thing women/men say about some one is not their personality!!!!! | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/13/2008 1:05:02 PM | | Besides that, if this is true…women wanting guys because of their personality then why are they posting picks of their tits, or posting revealing ones…it just goes to show that they are focused on the outward appearance. Be secure in yourself, you can look pretty but covering up, I am a facial person myself…eyes and smile, there does have to be some sort of physical attraction….but mainly its what’s on the inside and personality. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/13/2008 1:24:53 PM | | I agree, the looks can attract you, but I know that the guy I am seeing it was what he said that got me to go out with him. Outsides, if they care about themselves, exercise, etc., I find very attractive, but if there isn't anything inside, forget it. It is when you know a person you know how truly attractive they are. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/13/2008 1:41:42 PM | There is more to the story. One thing is for certain. If she was totally into that guy, she would not have made eye contact with you. This happens to me quite often when women are with their guys. Girls that are into their man, totally in love, are careful with their eye contact, to not encourage a confrontation or she is simply not interested in meeting you.
Things are not what they always appear to be. He may be a really good person that she trusts. That does not mean she has sexual chemistry with him. Some would rather take the safe road than risk getting their hearts broken to someone that they can fall for. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/13/2008 1:49:54 PM | If she was totally into that guy, she would not have made eye contact with you. I am scratching my head on this one. Is that some old fashioned rule or something? I make eye contact with men and women! She wasn't flirting with the man because she looked at him. I certainly would question anyone that says they don't notice other people. You do notice people, you do look. Looking someone directly in the eye means you are acknowledging the other person's existence, nothing more.
I still remember the saying married not dead. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/13/2008 2:44:10 PM | I have met alot of hot women in the past, some have been nice and i asked several out in the past, most have laughed and just said ' i wouldn't go out with a ugly fat minger like you' those were her exact words......though a simple 'no thanks' would have been acceptable.
Another woman that was very hot, i asked her out and she said, 'thanks for the offer, but i am seeing someone' which wasn't a line, cause he came up to her, asking who i was and when i realised that he was her boyfriend, i said sorry, i still talk to her and she said it herself, i am a nice guy and if she was single, she would have said yes and never regretted it.....though they are married now, it made me feel good about myself, such a nice gal and he is a nice guy too.
But i have noticed that 90% of all the women that i have met that have been VERY hot and single have been too arrogant, rude and all i can say is that their personality was disgusting.....crap...boring.....women like that would make good one time lays or sex only arrangements.
The other 10% were nice, knew how beautiful they were, but not stuckup about it, the less then hot women tend to be FAR more nicer since due to being insulted, rejected, they had to develop a good personality.
So, i am glad i am overweight and what the arrogant people call 'ugly' i personally think i look fine, due to health reasons, i am trying to lose weight.
Everyones' tastes for their dream romance is different, some find overweight people revolting, some find them hot, everyones' tastes are different, just cause you think they are ugly, doesn't they are.
I personally don't care what someone looks like, its all about who they are on the inside and i find a woman more attractive when she is polite to others, just to be nice. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/14/2008 8:18:29 AM | What a DUMB thread!! I can't believe how some people are so flipping RUDE!!!!!!
You don't MEAN to be shallow......pretty sickening when it just comes naturally to you......Now that is UGLY!! O and no sorry I can't understand someone's RUDNESS......
Haven't you ever heard the saying 'love is in the eyes of the beholder"??? And what is ugly dude?? Because the last time I checked it isn't just about what is on the outside that counts. I HATE superficial, and materialistic people I really do and you clearly showed with just a few words what kind of man you are and that to me if pretty ugly so when I look at your pic I can say you 're damn fugly because the heart you have inside of you makes you that way~
And I highly doubt she was checking you out. You THINK she was cuz you were the one googling at her and checking out her man, she prob thought you were gay...or he did that is why he had to grab his womans hand, get off your high horse and see it for what it is....
Unreal how rude and dumb people are..so sad... | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 12/14/2008 8:58:23 AM | | Who cares? If she's checking you out but she's with him, she obviously likes the guy for his non-aesthetic qualities, which will lead to her cheating and eventually leaving him. I could be wrong, but it seems the natural way. Wouldn't be the first time. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/8/2009 6:56:52 PM | | Most ugly guys arent ego-maniacs. Wish I could say the same about hot ones. And yes, i realize, thats a 2-way street. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/12/2009 8:49:53 PM |
Most ugly guys arent ego-maniacs.
True. I'm no maniac.
Ego? Got it.
And it CAN be inflated. But I think it's leashed pretty well.
Meaning, I can have a big ego. But I'm in full control of it and it's purely intentional when I let it out.
I don't think that my looks are that great, but think that I'm "all that" in other areas.
So, when someone strokes my ego??
LOOK OUT!!!  | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/12/2009 8:57:54 PM | | most "babes" i see dig the pretty boy or "bad boy" types and they usually get treated like dirt and love it for some ungodly reason. | |
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Sefra
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Joined: 9/8/2006
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/13/2009 1:34:33 AM | | Maybe he bought her from a Russian catalogue and she's appreciative until her Green Card becomes valid? | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/13/2009 3:55:53 AM | There are far more attractive women in this world than men. If pretty women only dated handsome men, there would be a lot of pretty women alone. Many women simply have to date down looks wise, just like many educated women have to date down education wise, or go solo through life.
Many women do have stringent requirements regarding height, but if a guy makes it past that he stands a good chance of dating. You see far more pretty women with ugly/average men than the other way around - men may "do" ugly women, but they won't be seen with them in public.
Blast away. LOL | |
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benzzo
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Joined: 12/2/2008
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/13/2009 10:36:55 PM | Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
haha! thats not surprising at all. I see a couple like that pretty often. I asked myself this question before too. And i thought that maybe love really is blind lol. Maybe she not shallow or stuck up like other women and she probably saw something in him that we can't see. Honestly it makes you a kinda a little bit jealous tho but hey if that "ugly" guy got a hot chick there's no reason for decent looking guys not to get any. It's all in the personality. | |
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tlm92
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Joined: 4/5/2008
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/14/2009 2:29:31 AM | I would have to say that Babes date them because a guy who isn't so attractive is pretty used to not getting the Babes to begin with and they've probably through life have been ridiculed about their looks or lack of.....
Hot guys may have more of a tendency to have a roving eye and cheat whereas a woman knows that and a guy that's not so great looking is all so glad to have this Babe and he appreciates her more, wants to hold onto her and show her off.
So, as not so good-looking guys have their downside --- so do the good-looking guys. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/14/2009 7:02:11 AM | Because attraction isn't a choice. There are certain things that trigger, create and build attraction and although the looks might seem on top of the list, believe me it's not. Self confidence, sense of humor, creativity, social skills, personality, tone of voice, way of speaking, gestures, chivalry etc. We all have certain types in our minds that we think we find attractive however this might completely change in a heart beat, without thinking twice. When we come across to someone different, all the criterias in our minds suddenly become worthless. Why? Because we realize that certain qualities of that person come forward and make what we have in mind unimportant. Maybe he is bald and has an average looking face but the way he speaks, the tone of his voice, his self confidence might make her feel attracted to him. Then, her brain changes her mind and comes up with this thought: "Bald is sexy". "So, i should shave my head?" Keep reading...
Scientific researchs say that women are ten times better than men at reading body language. Because women pay more attention to detail. They can understand if you are insecure, unsocial, uncomfortable in your skin even before you walk up to them and open your mouth. Well, how do they do that? By reading your body language and using their radar. "What the hell is radar and can i buy one?" No but if you want to learn more, keep reading...
Every person gives personality clues to the people around by sending subtle signs with the body language. Walking shoulders in front, hands in the pocket are known as the subtle signs for insecurity. Sweaty palms, low tone of voice might seem as nervousness and a sign of feeling uncomfortable in public and/or low self esteem. Shoulders and neck leaning slightly back and sitting straight arms and legs slightly wide is a dominant posture, signaling self confidence. Always sticking around and not leaving the social group is a sign for neediness. "I can't stop thinking about that radar, though". Then keep reading...
Attractive women are constantly hit on by men (bald men, tall men, short men, chubby men, good looking men, ugly men etc.) every single day. Usually around ten times a day. Coffee shop, grocery store, post office, side walk, bus stop, school, library, clubs, bars etc. etc. This usually starts at the age of 16 and continues for the entire life time. Let's be optimistic with the numbers and say 1 a day. This makes more than 300 guys a year. When she's at the age of 23, she rejected more than 2000 guys! Now think about a really desirable and attractive woman at the age of 28. And you were wondering why she didn't reply your email? :) The hit on becomes very overwhelming in time so they subconsciously develop an elimination mechanism, a radar to seperate the average guys from the interesting ones. They develop this skill and become so good at that, to understand who worths their time and who does not. After certain amount of time, we can say that they get used to almost every type of look, so looks criteria goes down from top of the list and other qualities become the prority. Of course being good looking helps but only to get the attention, NOT attraction. Because doesn't matter if you're good looking, as long as you don't prove the opposite you have no difference than the last hundred good looking jerks who already approached her and got rejected. "I can imitate cartman, do you think i have a chance to get hot girls?" You should keep reading...
Being a desirable guy is directly related with how you reflect yourself to the society, in other words, to the people around you. The more social value, the better. Have you ever wondered why you get more attention from women when you have a female company? Because that female company creates a social value and gives subtle signs to the women that you're a desirable man. The more beautiful she is, the higher value you create. Second reason is the challenge. Let's say you entered a random bar and you're an average looking guy. Because you have no social value yet, probably you won't get any attention. But, if you start talking to one of the hottest girls in the bar and things start going well for you two, you will immediately get the attention of other women in that bar. They will start thinking about why you didn't go and talk to them first and what's so special about you that you can keep up with that beautiful girl. Women love challenge. If you are interesting, desirable, funny, confident (women find confident yet not arrogant guys really sexy ) you'll get the attention.
All in all, every person has different qualities and characteristic traits to offer and different expactations from a partner. Neither it's wise to generalize it to come to a conclusion nor it's right to be insecure and make negative excuses for ourselves about our physical appearence or social value. Self confidence, personal development, intelligence, social skills play a big role in love life, i believe. Communication is the main key :) | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/14/2009 7:19:02 AM |
Because attraction isn't a choice. There are certain things that trigger, create and build attraction and although the looks might seem on top of the list, believe me it's not
thanks, did you copy & paste that from "David DeAngelo's" site?
or are you a devoted 'student' of his? | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/14/2009 9:34:04 AM | "Being a desirable guy is directly related with how you reflect yourself to the society, in other words, to the people around you."
thats all great and good for seduction...if you think your actual position in society is not going to come out in the wash pretty quick you are deluded.
As far as the OP, either the guy is really well off or they just haven't broken up, yet.
Really though, this whole idea is bogus, you need to take a bigger sample size than 1. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/14/2009 11:14:54 AM | | I think the site "Hot Chicks With Douchbags" might be of some interest to you, OP. I hope I'm not late in mentioning that one. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/14/2009 11:39:48 AM | | holy s hit briargate i thought you was at first just making up that website cause it sounded funny but couldn't be for real..however O my gawd i went there an this pure entertainment ..i can't belive or maybe i can there is a site for douchbag a ssholes an the women who stay with them..thanks for putting the link out there!! i'll have to put it in my blog. | |
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| Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 1/14/2009 11:54:38 AM | | Maybe this 'ugly' guy was able to give her what all the buff,macho guys couldn't. Just because someone's looks don't fit your standards doesn't mean they are ugly. Maybe the guy is really nice and she enjoys his company. I've gone out with both average looking guys and really attractive guys. I found the average guys were more into paying attention to me and having fun with me. The more attractive guys were more interested in looking at other woman and going on about themselves. Not saying all good looking guys are like that but most come with an ego, not confidence. I think the OP is just jealous that the pretty blonde was with an average joe instead of him. Score one for average joe! | |
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