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 jezebellpgh
Joined: 2/3/2010
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Has anybody seen how Seal treats Heidi Klum while being interviewed? He is totally into her and treats her like a respected princess, why wouldn't she want him?
 jezebellpgh
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 777
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/3/2010 4:51:48 AM
I'd also have to comment that a vast majority of men aren't that good looking (most men think they're really, really hot) so women traditionally have dated mostly average to unattractive men during their lifetimes that don't have megabucks.
 sweetest
Joined: 10/8/2007
Msg: 778
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Posted: 11/3/2010 5:12:39 AM

Another really pretty girl...seems really nice...her bf...not so attractive and not so nice...why is she with him bc it's that important for her to have a guy/bf then be single...at any cost...baffling...call it insecurity...needy...or just needs to have a guy/bf/be in a relationship...or all of the above..

^^^Could be true for some, but I'm thinking not for very many.

I won't be with any guy unless I'm attracted to him period and because that doesn't happen everyday; I've had lots of years between boyfriends, and am currently in another one of them.

When I'm with someone, I'm never thinking that the guy has to measure up to some attractive scale standard. Truthfully, I would say that most of the men that I've had relationships with were unconventional in looks and I was still quite wild about them; and that's all that really mattered... that "I" was wild over "them" . In large part their looks probably fed into the overall mix of what I find attractive; as it's always about the whole man...his thinking, mannerisms, ways of being, humor, sense of presence that either 'gets me' or it doesn't. I'm thinking that's probably how it is for most men too.

I'm not the hottest or most 'anything' out there, but I get and have always had a lot of interest here and IRL because of other facets. Conventional attractiveness has never once been something that I've either gone after or attained in a bf; and truly, most guys that have that going for them really have to have more going on for me to even break my stride to notice them. And really, trying to figure out what makes any couple 'tick' is always rather a futile exercise; they alone know the secret.

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 broncsbuff
Joined: 4/18/2008
Msg: 779
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/3/2010 6:29:15 AM

Has anybody seen how Seal treats Heidi Klum while being interviewed? He is totally into her and treats her like a respected princess, why wouldn't she want him?


everyone brings up this and the julia roberts and lyle lovitt argument...stop it...

Celebrities dont count.

Is there any female that reads this and thinks Donald Trump lands hott supermodels cause he has a great personality?

If Seal was not a national recording artist do you think Klum would seek him out?

Yes, I dont think ALL women date men for there money if they are unattractive. There are SOME women who will date ugly men who treat them like gold.

With all that said, money is a factor in dating. If your dating a guy who makes 100 grand and a guy who makes 30 grand, and you choose the 100 grand guy, all things being equal, it doesnt make you a gold digger, it just makes you human...money is a factor....
 MarriedMommy
Joined: 10/3/2010
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Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/3/2010 7:22:04 AM
Money was not a factor for me.
 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 781
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/3/2010 9:10:30 AM

Has anybody seen how Seal treats Heidi Klum while being interviewed? He is totally into her and treats her like a respected princess, why wouldn't she want him?

It's an INTERVIEW with public images at stake. Behind closed doors, who the hell knows how he treats her?

If a girl is dating an "ugly" guy, chances are she doesn't even think the guy is ugly. If there were zero physical attraction, I find it hard to believe a woman like Heidi, who is outrageously good looking and rich and could have ANY guys she wants, would choose someone she isn't at all physically attracted to.
"Looks" aren't everything in physical attraction, either.

Let's just quit with the celebrity examples, shall we?
 SouthBayNative
Joined: 10/15/2010
Msg: 782
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/3/2010 9:29:58 AM
Wow. Just wow. Appearance is subjective. There are thousands of gorgeous hot guys where I live and you can have them. My bf is the sweetest man I've ever met, he's 100% there for me and totally supportive. He's my reward for all the suffering I ever endured at the ends of other men. I don't care much about his looks (he takes fantastic care of himself-diet and exercise and that's what matters) but I do care about his character and his heart. I remember in middle school being attracted to boys for their looks but after high school it kinda died. I feel lucky he chose me.
 RushLuv
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 783
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/3/2010 9:32:10 AM

Is there any female that reads this and thinks Donald Trump lands hott supermodels cause he has a great personality?


It's funny how you keep stating that celebrities don't count, yet for the second or third time uses Donald Trump as an example.


If Seal was not a national recording artist do you think Klum would seek him out?


Yup. There it goes again.

Anyway. I prefer the term "unattractive" because ugly is too harsh. I've been called ugly several times, so I should know.

I've never dated men I'm not physically attracted to, and don't see the need to. Perhaps this has already been mentioned (I didn't read the whole thread,) but perhaps those women do indeed find those men attractive or their personalities were a major factor.
 _Icon_
Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 784
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/3/2010 9:35:28 AM
I just don't even believe in the concept of "Ugly Guys." It's just another urban legend.

If he's a Good Man, there's always something attractive about him. Period.

If you're not attracting women, then maybe you need to re-examine whether or not you're really a Good Man.

(P.S. Rush youre a beauty and you know it. So is your cute little mom. Don't let the bastards grind you down.)
 Consigliori
Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 785
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Posted: 11/3/2010 9:46:37 AM
My nubile wife of exotic extraction married me because I have panache, elan and style - and she was easily impressed by big words.


I've been called ugly several times, so I should know.


lol. Come on, that had to have been for not putting out Rush.
 scottey63
Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 786
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Posted: 11/3/2010 10:24:30 AM
Never mind why. Where are these babes?!?
 Minau
Joined: 9/2/2007
Msg: 787
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/3/2010 6:55:56 PM
As per my previous example with the hot girl and not so hot nor nice guy...it wasn't money...when we were out...he was the one that initiated getting shots...and then he left her with the bill...not until later for the second round she had to push him to pick up the tab...and you can see in her face she was a little frustrated...and why do not so attractive guys who were fortunate to land a hot babe...then think they can get any hot girl...evidently he started eyeing the attractive girl beside them while dancing with the gf...really really...just so disrespectful, ***hole move and no the other girl was not the least bit interested...he just really wasn't an attractive guy...he was below average but his personality probably amplified my negative opinion of him...she could have gotten a much better guy...not to mention much hotter..easy! Actually I find hot guys are better...they're secure and more confident with themselves...don't need the attention of women to fill their ego...they've had it all their life...it's no biggie and hence don't need it nor crave it. On another note...when guys eye another girl and are being very obvious about it when they're with their gf/wife...it shows poor character and a huge turn off and pretty much zero chance...why would I bother with a guy like that! Really?!?! I hope other women don't entertain these men...don't encourage them or maybe some attention needy women do..hence these men's bold behaviors...it's just embarrassing behavior.
 hereindixie
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 788
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/4/2010 6:12:44 AM
ugly is in the eye of the beholder. boy aren't we glad. i do look at looks we would be lying to say any less, buy for me if your not funny and sexy forget it. thats what it will that to set me on .
 _Icon_
Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 789
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/4/2010 6:50:57 AM
After thinking about this question some more, I have decided that it's all about the great sex.

Mystery solved.
 hereindixie
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 790
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/4/2010 7:18:42 AM
icon how could i have ever lelf that out. add that to my last post please!!!!!!!!!!!
 1eastshore
Joined: 11/3/2010
Msg: 791
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/7/2010 3:37:59 PM

I wouldn't date a man that I consider to be physically unattractive. Regardless of money, personality or any other traits.


Exactly.
 jezebellpgh
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 792
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/8/2010 10:02:05 PM
Specific:

Heidi Klum is loaded financially, she doesn't need Seal to make it. She could date a much more better looking guy and she hasn't there is a reason and its way more than the sex.
 broncsbuff
Joined: 4/18/2008
Msg: 793
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/9/2010 6:04:34 AM

It's funny how you keep stating that celebrities don't count, yet for the second or third time uses Donald Trump as an example.


rush...

I have seen your posts, your not dumb. Your pretty smart. Do you HONESTLY beleive that if Donald Trump was a manager at 7-11 making 20 grand a year he would be landing supermodels?

Part of why women are attracted to Donald Trump is the power factor. Im not gay, nor could I judge a good looking guy or not. I can (for example) put Tom Cruise next to Donald Trump and figure out which one women would go for looks wise.


Heidi Klum is loaded financially, she doesn't need Seal to make it. She could date a much more better looking guy and she hasn't there is a reason and its way more than the sex


Wow, do you know her? How do you know its not the sex? How do you know she doesnt need him to make it?...Hell, for all we know Seal could have a third leg hanging down there...
 1eastshore
Joined: 11/3/2010
Msg: 794
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Posted: 11/9/2010 7:05:55 AM
Heidi Klum is loaded financially, she doesn't need Seal to make it. She could date a much more better looking guy and she hasn't there is a reason and its way more than the sex.


Money may not be the only reason why she is dating him. But it could be a factor. Some people who are well off financially will not consider someone who has a significantly lower income or is from a lower social status. I personally know some women who are like this. They are doctors, lawyers, businesswomen etc who make more than 100K/yr. They told me that they woud not date any man that makes less than 100K/yr or doesn't have some type of social power / prestige.
 RushLuv
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 795
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Posted: 11/9/2010 7:33:37 AM
Donald T. is not even a bad looking guy, and he seems to have a good personality. I saw him in The Fresh Prince Of Bel-Air once, so I know he has a sense of humor.

He may not be able to land supermodels if he was just an average Joe, but that doesn't mean he wouldn't be able to land physically attractive women.

Donald T. isn't remotely ugly, but that is just my opinion.
 Ineedyounow35
Joined: 9/20/2010
Msg: 796
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Posted: 11/9/2010 7:36:06 AM
"Wow, do you know her? How do you know its not the sex? How do you know she doesnt need him to make it?...Hell, for all we know Seal could have a third leg hanging down there..."

According to her he does .... Per what one of my talk show junky neighbors stated after seeing an interview with her and talking about Seal. I asked my neighbor why Heidi would go after Seal and she said Heidi stated herself, because he has a large you know... Anyways I have lots of other useless info and advice for threads such as this one. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some women state the Rolling Stones are attractive afterall....
 sweetlikesugarcane
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 797
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/9/2010 4:03:54 PM
I have not read the other responses but I remember when I was a child hearing my aunt and mom talking about men. They stated that ugly men are good to have because they treat women very well. It was an observation that they made and they named a few people who experience those types of relationships. (Ugly guys also cannot help that they are ugly so it isn't fair to hold their looks against them if their personality and body are okay.

If you are uglier than your girlfriend you are more likely) to put up with any fault that she has whether physical or other. She knows that you have to do things to keep her and she takes advantage of that. This may sound bad but it is a fact of life. Like older men and younger women.

Look at all the gorgeous female celebrities who have been cheated on or abused by other attractive men. I don't want to be offensive and mention any couple by name but why else do you think there are so many mismatched pairs?

Unfortunately, ugly men are less likely to satisfy their women in bed (google for references) so the girl has to take a trade-off....
 broncsbuff
Joined: 4/18/2008
Msg: 798
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/9/2010 8:04:32 PM

If you are uglier than your girlfriend you are more likely) to put up with any fault that she has whether physical or other. She knows that you have to do things to keep her and she takes advantage of that. This may sound bad but it is a fact of life. Like older men and younger women.


Does this apply to fat chicks?...ugly men?...fat chicks?...same thing?
 jezebellpgh
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 799
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Posted: 11/10/2010 4:45:35 PM
Sweet:

Hmmm I agree with the first half of your response. My 1st ex-bf was good looking (6'3", 200 lbs) and he had plenty of sex partners before me, he was my 1st and even as a virgin I knew he stunk in bed. Get a guy who doesn't watch porn regularly.
 sweetlikesugarcane
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 800
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/10/2010 4:46:11 PM
Ugly men is what the article was about.

And obese women (which you call "fat chicks") is the complete opposite situation. Did you mean obese men?
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