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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:42:35 AM | | If you were FWB's Id say go for it, but youre not. This might make him really like you and you will then turn round and say 'no ta'. Stupid idea...You just want the men reading this to get off on it! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:43:28 AM | OMFG...... a pity suck!!!
Hon'.... seriously, if you want more attention on here, write a better profile. Broadcasting that you're thinking about deep throating and swallowing someone who you are not involved with is just... well... broadcasting.
Like the others have said.... not a good idea. While he may enjoy it, be prepared for the repurcussions of doing this. Also like you mentioned, if word gets around that you do this to someone you are not in a relationship with, be prepared to be labelled as such.
*shakes her head and mumbles.... a pity suck... who'd've thunk?*
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:49:22 AM | Well...as a lifetime member of the Birthday Blowjob Fan Club...
Don't do it. You wanting to do the wrong thing for the wrong reasons. As much as it pains me to type this, do not give him a pity/birthday blowjob.
Hard to believe I actually typed that... | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:50:21 AM | | I wish i had a friend like you lol on my birthday!! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 10:34:13 AM | You're not happy with the idea that he might think you wanna be his girlfriend,but you're quite ok with the idea of giving him a bj for his birthday?????
WTF???
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Posted: 7/16/2008 10:47:41 AM |
i don't want him to think I want to be his girlfriend or anything.
Oh but what about the herpes or hiv you give him? That will be a lovely present.
I think that your thought is disgusting! This act is supposed be done between adults that care about one another that know about each others medical history. Go crawl back under your bridge, I am sure you are getting tons of emails from men offering to help you practice. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 10:58:15 AM | Just em says what I am thinking on this subject. I would never give a man a bj with whom I was not romantically involved. Even then it would be something done only in the intimacy of lovemaking.
Sounds like you feel sorry for this young man. He deserves to experience such an intimate act with someone who genuinely cares for him. You will probably have shared this thought with many of your mutual friends. Do you not think that one of them might tell him that what you are planning - or did do - means nothing to you?!
How do you think he will react toward you when he finds that out? Not positively, I assure you!!
You do realize, dear OP, that the Sex and Dating forum is by far the most popular on this site?! Not only that, but that thousands of people look at it every day. This thread will be here for posterity, and will show in your history, unless the mods choose to delete it!!! You have just gained a reputation without even trying...or maybe that is what you wanted?! | |
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Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 33 | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 11:13:38 AM |
Oh but what about the herpes or hiv you give him? That will be a lovely present.
Herpes is possible. But the odds of getting HIV from oral sex are very low. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 11:33:06 AM | | I think it would be foolish, and you'd be opening a whole can of worms that's better left alone. Take him to lunch, and invite a female friend to introduce him to. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 11:34:22 AM | | MMMmmm...well, all I can say, is any man I am with will get a blow job ANY TIME ( it happens to turn me on more than sex itself) but I will include this, I would have to be involved with the person, NOT just to do as " a gift" . | |
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Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 36 | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 11:35:18 AM | | ...blowjob is cheaper than a gift...lol! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 11:52:15 AM | This is quoted from the CDC.
The likelihood of transmission of HIV from an infected person to an uninfected person varies significantly depending on the type of exposure or contact involved. The risk of becoming infected with HIV through unprotected (without a condom) oral sex is lower than that of unprotected anal or vaginal sex. However, even a lower risk activity can become an important way people get infected if it is done often enough. The Options Project found that 7.8% (8 of 102) of recently infected men who have sex with men in San Francisco were probably infected through oral sex. Most of these men believed that the risk was minimal or non-existent.
Granted this study was men with men, but mouths are mouths and 8 out of 102 is pretty darn high risk in my book.
I think anyone is in denial if they think any form of sex is safe without protection.
This woman's idea is unbelievable. I think it was a troll to get "dates," you know the kind that involves the exchange of money... | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 12:08:46 PM | o/p unless your a serious couple, find him something at wal-mart.
he's going to brag to every guy who will listen about his birthday bj. -guess who will be the popular gal... 
-wasn't this in one of those ABC afterschool specials? | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 12:16:23 PM | Well thats a gift you can't buy at Hallmark and I'm sure they don't have a matching card either  | |
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Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 40 | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 12:18:01 PM | According to this link, ( you need to scroll towards the bottom of the page to find this info ) the odds of getting HIV thru oral sex is 1 in 10,000 or 1 in 20, 000 depending on if you are the giver or the receiver.
http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/rr5402a1.htm#tab1 | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 12:22:33 PM | | Is this to bolster YOUR self esteem or his? If you don't think he has had a girlfriend before, why are you thinking about doing this? This WILL hurt him. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 12:26:24 PM | http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/factsheets/oralsexqa.htm
I know you aren't supposed to post outside links, so I quoted. But above is the link...
Any risk is too much in my book. Anyone that has unprotected sex is at risk period. I didn't mention Hep C as I haven't read about it lately, but seems that it could also be transmitted in this manner.
Not sure why anyone would want to minimize the fact that any std, infection, illness etc. could be transmitted to an unsuspecting person. I don't know if this woman has any of these things, and posting something like this makes me wonder if she is in denial and hasn't been tested for anything. Facts remain that one chance in hell is one chance too many. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 12:42:09 PM | I can see it now......
your friend with little to no experience with women, and you giving him his first blow job....if he has any idea what is about to happen, you won't have to worry about swallowing because he"ll have lost his load when you start to pull his zipper down.
Good luck! and remember, it's not a blow job unless you swallow anyway....if he makes it that far. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 2:42:07 PM | If you think giving him a present will falsely mean 'I want to date you', what do you think a surprise blow job will do to such a shy no-dating-experience guy?
He won't complain, don't get me wrong (or he shouldn't)... If you're going to go thru with it, let him know you have a surprise "present" (include quotes when speaking) for him that's kind of naughty, and that you just want to be friends, but it's something you feel he needs to experience and it's your way of saying thanks. If he's a little freaked out about the suggestion, don't go thru with it! But if he's like, "Yeah sure", then the next day or whatever go through with it. I think everyone will think you sort of have a mini-crush on him, though. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 3:43:51 PM | Wow!...um...I...WOW! Um...you...um...wow!
Wow.
So a wallet or toaster = Girlfriend but blowjob = just friends. Wow. I don't know what's in that London water but I think I'm going to move there. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 3:50:29 PM | if your wanting to give him a blowjob then dont do it on his birthday, if your attracted to him maby you should think about seeing if things work out....
everyone gets in drifts about things, some go into a solitary shell thinking that the less you talk to people the less you could get hurt. open him up a bit, you have to see his real personality, take him to the bar have a few drinks, bring your friends, he might accually have a better time then just a blowjob. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:57:40 PM | well i want to thank everyone for the responses, even the negative ones. I am just trying to get opinions to weigh the pros and cons and decide whether or not to do it. Being educated is a lot better than going out and doing something without thinking which i am sure tons of people have done. I don't "pity" him, I just thought it would be something nice to do instead of a real tangible present. It may encourage and motivate him to talk to more girls then hopefully get a girlfriend once he knows what a blow job feels like. I figure he is going to be super nervous the first time he gets sucked off so I didn't think it would be a big deal to help him out so he will be ready when he is in a relationship. Talking to him about first would ruin the surprise also.
I am not in any way trying to "advertise" anything about myself and if it comes across that way it is purely by accident. Many girls like to deep throat so I don't see what the big deal is.
I don't have any STDs and I am pretty sure he doesnt either. We hung out at the bar with a group of friends once and I saw him look a lot at some girls but I really dont think he has any experience with them because he did not make much effort to talk to them.
Although I see that I will not be able to control the outcome and I do not know how this will affect him psychologically so it looks like I probably won't go through with it after all. It may scar him emotionally | |
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Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 49 | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 5:16:07 PM | Y'know...if you seriously want to urge the guy along the path, why don't you invite him out for 3D (dinner, drinks, dancing) with a few of your friends. Same deal...just a "It's your birthday and I thought it would be fun to take you out and hang out with some cute girls for the evening..." And then encourage him to interact, ask him questions, pull questions out of him. Be his "practice girlfriend" so that he can learn to communicate.
In two years, when you tell him on this b'day you debated BJ versus what he got...he'll laugh...and know he got the better present.
OBTW...IMHO, good decision...Oh...and other people who won't be scarred have birthdays... | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 5:22:32 PM | well i like your style lol. The thing to do is to just ask him would he like one or say, look your a sweet guy i want to blow you lol, see what he says. And then say , don't read too much into this.... In other words don't set him up for a fall. As long as he's clear about your intention and what it means go for it!
Oh and, I will give you personal training lessons for nut n.  | |
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