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Posted: 7/18/2008 3:47:23 AM | Hey wishfulthinkin, loved the sarcasm in your post...well put, to say the least! And the young lady doesn't even seem to have considered that the recipient of her gift will tell his friends, and she will have a reputation that may take a long time to live down. Wait a minute...maybe that's what she wants!!    | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 3:48:06 AM |
Is this behavior normal in the US or what?
Oh PLEASE don't lump me in with behavior like this (the OP is from Canada, however).
I'm in the US and have better things to do with my time than 'gift' my friends with BJs.
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Posted: 7/18/2008 4:15:42 AM | | As has already been indicated in a previous post, please do not plan your vacation around visiting Canada looking for women who think the way the OP does. Your search will be fruitless and your money wasted. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 7:35:00 AM | Just because he didn't make much effort to talk to the women he was looking at doesn't mean anything. He may have more experience than you think. Before I met my GF, There were many nights when I would look at tons of women at singles dances and not approach any of them - and I have been with lots of women (Not bragging. Just making a point).
There can be many reasons that describe his actions. It may be as simple as none of them really appealed to him. Or maybe he likes to work quietly, when he's on his own. Don't assume it's because he is inexperienced.
If you're still intent on giving him a BJ, why don't you give him a coupon that says "good for one birthday blow job, with swallowing ........... " and let him collect it on his own terms. Then he won't feel pressured - and it may lead to a discussion between the two of you about what is really behind this offer. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 10:51:24 AM | This is hillarious
People, who discuss it seriously: would you ever imagine to do something like this?
I like comments like this though:
Are there any more at home like you?
Would you like to be my neighbor?  | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 12:07:57 PM | It sounds really hot the way you described it, but why would you want to stop at just giving him head. If you've thought about all that then why not have sex with him? Also, if you want to have sex with him then why not try dating him. You keep saying that you've known him awhile and that he's a really nice guy. He's obviously somewhat attractive so why not? Once again, this is where the nice guy finishs last.
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Posted: 7/18/2008 12:10:05 PM | It sounds like a great idea! Where do you work at again? Is it hiring? Would you like to get a job where I'm at? Will you be my friend too? LOL!
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Posted: 7/18/2008 5:12:25 PM |
Geez.. What are ya gonna give him for Christmas?? OMG!!!
Isn't it obvious? Christmas blowjob. I'm sure that's a gift he would not mind receiving two of. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 6:25:51 PM | Geez... I can't really believe the OP is serious...
I certainly have nothing against a good BJ... In fact when I was married, my birthday was about the only time I would get one, but...
This might be his first intimate encounter - so sure, go ahead - you'll give him a lasting impression of what women are like.
He should buy a lottery ticket on his birthday - ya never know... | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 6:34:22 PM | "Hes always been nice to me, he even fixed some things of my car for free."
Well, tell him pretty much just that. Tell him that you really appreciate that he has been nice and helped you out of a jam before and so you want to do something special just this once that you don't do for just anyone. But then ask him if it is okay if you give him a blowjob so he has time to maybe shower first or even say no if he wants to. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 4:43:29 PM | | Not "normal" behaviour for Canadians, either. I'm not sure if that's good or bad but I'll go with good for now, if only to be politick. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 5:03:09 PM | Dang................ And my birthday was just last monday .
I,m not out going and my self esteem needs a lil work too.
Seriously only you can make the determination on if this is good or bad. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 5:08:38 PM | | I don't think it's a good idea.You don't want to buy him a gift because you think he will think of you as a girlfriend.Yet you offer him a bj instead.I think he may think of you as girlfriend more if you gave him a bj than bought him a simple gift.At least I would. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 5:10:53 PM | | Can't think of a better birthday present..... | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 6:38:01 PM | super hot!!
if u wanna do it and think you'll get a good reaction do it up! | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 6:56:16 PM | I am just calculting all of the money that I could have saved over the years by giving out BJ's for holidays instead of gifts, also think of all the confusion that could have been avoided.
You are welcome for the christmas present, but I am your secret santa, not your girlfriend.
How is it even possible that you think a BJ could cause less confusion than a regular tangible gift.
My honest opinion is that if you are really asking for advice and not just seeking attention, then I think that this is just about the worst idea that I have ever heard. Also I wanted to point out that perhaps he doesn't have a girlfriend because he doesn't want one at this time. If he hasn't asked you for help in approaching women, then you should leave him alone and mind your own business. There are some people in the world that are content being by themselves and don't constantly need a girlfriend. Leave him alone and when he finds someone that he is interested in , he will make a move. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 7:25:50 PM | | You don't want to buy him a gift because you are afraid he will think you are his girl friend. But your willing to give him a BJ instead? I have seen some goofy questions asked on these forums in my time of being here but this is the best laugh at someone else's expense that i have gotten in a while. Please say you were drunk when you posted this question. Anyway, Just on the off chance that you are not seeking attention i will give you a straight answer. DON'T DO IT. You will just confuse him and prob' piss him off. I know it would me if a woman gave me a bj then told me that she was just doing that one time, For my self esteem or what ever. You can just about bet that he will think you are goofy to say the least. He prob' will never want to see you again and call you a prick tease to you face. (If your lucky). If your not lucky he might have a few choice things to say to you that you might not want to hear. If he is a friend to you and you like him then spit the idea of a BJ for him out of your mind. If your just trying to mess with the guys head, (The one between his ears) this is a good way of doing it. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 9:52:04 PM | I just realized that this may be a troll post. It's subtle enough for people to not realize it.
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Posted: 7/19/2008 9:53:37 PM | I have a slight interest in this shy guy I know....I had better find out when his birthday is.....
And yes, don't you guys waste your money coming to Canada on vacation....because Canadian women aren't all like this!!! | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 9:54:40 PM | LOL; just when you though you heard it all. My God, I think this is as classless as it gets. Getting oral sex to boost his self esteem; OMG.
Is this what the world has come down to? Sex is nothing more than a walk in the park. Come on, this isn't classy. Get him a gift card or something; and sorry; I dont think this is your first rodeo. I go by actions, now words. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2008 12:56:12 AM | WOW.. amazing all the different reactions and assumptions being made out here.
Well, perhaps you are interested in him more than a friend. Perhaps you have a fantasy to be the first woman (that you know of) to sahre that intimacy with him. I don't know..
What I do know is, keep the concept of safety first and foremost at hand.. and then do what you want while trying to ensure that the friendship remains and you don't hurt him.
Personally, I liked the idea of a BJ coupon.. but you can go one better.. you can give the coupon to him and let him either have the BJ or a nice dinner... or something... - let him choose.. lol. Just be sure to explain it correctly - - communication is the most important thing.
And I agree, going around giving BJ's is asking for trouble, but my goodness, you'd think it wasn't possible for a fully grown woman to want to give a guy a BJ as part of her own sexual desires or as a fantasy. I see men offering to go down on a woman all the time, just because they like it, never mind for a birthday or any such thing...and nobody says much about it!! | |
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Posted: 7/20/2008 1:13:33 AM |
He might tell other people though and eventually people at work could find out.What do girls and guys think about this, is this a good idea
Not really a problem...
People will figure out youre a slut even if he doesn't tell them....
Give your f&&king head a shake.... | |
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Posted: 7/20/2008 1:16:55 AM | Suggestion only! do not remove his cloths, just unzip. Put a blindfold on him and tell him, fun stops if he removes it. If he brags counter with you bought him a treat and she left before he recovered.
Some times shy just means needing directions, then both receive the rewards | |
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