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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 4:20:42 PM | I said this in a few threads.......
RUN FOREST RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN......
no good can out of it. Still married and a sex buddy on the side. Wanting to be with you in a real relationship. And to top it off be the meat inbetween a mansandwich.
If you did that, I bet you she will tie both of you together, take pictures and plaster them all over the net for a wierd, wacky site she has.
She isn't kinky, she's sick, twisted, tormented and just plain ol wacked out!!!
If you did that, you will be left from her, just like her husband. DO NOT DO IT!!!!
BEWARE OF THE CROTH-CRICKET, BEWARE!!!!!!
DANGER WILL ROBINSON, DANGER!!!!! | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 4:26:44 PM | | You get too attached too easily. You've never met her. You started talking to her over the Internet then went to the phone. You talked to her, you found out she's got some serious problems. Why didn't you just stop talking to her a long time ago? Forget about her. Where is your common sense? | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 4:55:27 PM | "You get too attached too easily. You've never met her. You started talking to her over the Internet then went to the phone. You talked to her, you found out she's got some serious problems. Why didn't you just stop talking to her a long time ago? Forget about her. Where is your common sense?"
Who says I'm attached to her? I posted this thread for the lulz, not BAWWWing. I really have no feelings for her, although I do find her ... "interesting" ... 
And I just found most of this stuff out last night, so why should I have stopped talking to her a long time ago?
Did you just skim through my post, or do you have some sort of problems with reading comprehension?  | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 5:50:23 PM | Each to their own thing..... she doesn't necessarily sound screwed up, just living a different story than some, I can see how temptation grabs a person for the instant rather than the long term, especially if a lack of physical contact is frustrating them. Plenty of times when I was younger my drive and promiscuity went untethered, some really valuable experience came from it, but also some fairly scary moments and more so a lot of regret.
Her story could be as real as it is unreal, like so many people I have chatted with so far, in effect it's unsubstantiated, therefore the real issue raised is not whats going through 'this chicks head' but rather whats going through your head and if your so unsure with your thought that you can't see a clear direction, are you really willing to compromise your integrity?
My advice, if offered to a friend (in passing), would be to take control of the situation and stay in control. Integrity is lost so quickly and very difficult to find again.
All the best
craig 8-) | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 6:08:26 PM | Trying to comprehend this has made me suddenly want a drink.  I'm positive that a good answer to this one can only come from getting drunk, so I suggest you do that first, and then go and meet her. Oh, and take a camera so we can all have a good laugh afterwards. I foresee rohypnol in your beer, and you being tied to a chair in back of a police station while being covered in peanut butter..... and a few donuts stuck to you. :-) :-) Oh, and he drugged her ex too and he's lying on the ground and she placed your picture in his hand with a note that says she's leaving him for you.
Really, just think of the absolute worst case scenario and if you can accept that happening. | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 6:11:21 PM |
You're underestimating yourself.
hollymackeral, on behalf of all of us, I would like to now award you todays, "Winner of the Internet" ... | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 6:11:42 PM |
No, she's real. Real WHAT though, is the question...
If you have to ASK the question, you shouldn't be putting your dipstick in that puddle of oil...you get my drift....
RUN...like the wind...RUN!!! | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 6:27:52 PM | Before you go out with this chick, update your profile to include the following :
WANTED : attractive psychologically whacked females who are currently being stalked by their physically abusive exes. Must be extremely forward, submissive-nymphomaniacs, possibly insane, and suffer from low self esteem, for noncommittal kinky rough sex with myself and another guy, which may develop into a "real relationship".
Since it is important to 'tell it like it is'.....how perfect is that?
OP, would you prefer to be a bun or the meat? Contrary to what you may believe, it may be you who gets stuffed...... ouch!
Enjoy your date and keep us posted as to how many emails you receive after updating your profile.
Best wishes ~ | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 6:30:21 PM | I think her honesty and openness is refreshing. She strikes me as someone that's in "explore" mode and is probably on a journey that is the very opposite of anything she's ever known. Perhaps you're supposed to be the solid, traditional force that might keep her grounded, while she safely explores the dark side? That says a lot about you, if it's true.
I dunno...I'm guessing, but my guess is based on my own past explorations and the wide open, adventurous way I felt. (I found, tho, that my feelings were more than I could allow my reality to encompass, which led me to invite more of a bite than I could chew.) But if you decide to venture on, you'll probably need to approach it in much the same way she does, less you get burned in the worst of ways. Maybe she's just flirting with new stuff, in an attempt to discover more of herself...it could be a disaster, it could be a slippery slope, it could be very cool. You'll have to decide ahead of time how much of a participant you can really be. | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 6:34:27 PM | See this is why I like to read old history books. Fiction stories are just so boring and you know this one reminds me of the story about the fish that guy caught that got away... | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 6:44:23 PM | if she's got a crazy bodybuilder hubby who she's not yet divorced from, who is stalking her, and if one time, she wants to goad him on, by parading you around........well, just asking, how much do like entertaining trouble? And, how good are you at whoop-ass for self-protection? In the art of war: know thy enemy. Do you know exactly how crazy the hubby is (informed guess would be extrapolating from her craziness)?
As soon as you engage, regardless of if its to placate the little head, the big head needs to know what kinda blow it can stand.......if you engage, you just entered HER psycho zone. So, it's up to you. Do you step willingly into the lion's den cuz you want that juicy meat? Or, decide to hunt for your meat elsewhere? | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 6:49:04 PM | You know how some people who are lucky enough to have decent,good friends tell them "What The H*LL Were You Thinking?!?" when they did/do something stupid? well, please!!! consider us your 'temporary' good friends and DON'T ACT ON THE THOUGHT of even going near her......     | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 7:53:23 PM | wow...u got yer..hands full !! lol.........run!
sounds like what's going - on in the "chicks" head is......trouble/
...guys???...shld he ..pursue her?? oh boy/
don't forget condom/ and rubber gloves??
RUN.
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 8:05:26 PM | Hello, ghiiiftw !
My advice for you would to be GET OUT now before it is to late or before something dangerous happends and all honesty you do not need an woman like that and there is to many STDs out in the world, whos to say you would not "catch" something from her IF you decided to sleep with her.
Good luck man! | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 9:23:42 PM | | Well, this is definitely one of the most interesting posts I've read in a while. I would venture to say, "NO." For all you know this woman could not be the woman you saw in the picture. She could look quite different in real life - kind of like a prostitute (?) Anyway there seem to be more cons than pros with this one. Oh, yeah. And do you really want to get badly hurt at the hands of her husband if what she is telling you is true. He sounds like he's as much as a sociopath and psychopath as she is. | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/16/2008 9:31:53 PM | Here's another thought, the FWB could actually be her hubby and you could very well end up in the middle of a jealous rage.
Even if it's not any of the other things mentioned, still sounds like you'd be the rebound relationship guy.
Personally, if I were you, I wouldn't go near that situation with a ten foot pole, let alone your...pole, even for a one night stand. Is it really worth the risk with this girl?
You're a good looking guy, sound nice enough. I'd say keep looking and move on. | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/17/2008 4:09:48 AM | even if just for one "date?"
She has already made it clear she's looking to you for a relationship so if your going to go ino this with sex at the forfront of your mind,just remember that isn't what she wants from you.
Personally i think the flags have gone up & you should trust your instincts but if you choose to pursue it be prepared for a hell of a fall out! | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/17/2008 4:27:51 AM | I read your whole post. No problem with comprehension here. Sorry to burst your bubble there. Perhaps I wasn't direct enough. Saying, "you should have stopped talking to her along time ago" I used too loosely. What you said you found out the other night was the sexual stuff. You mentioned her being married as if you found that out before the other stuff. You should have stopped talking to her after she told you she was married. Separated doesn't mean divorced.
She's definitely interesting. The reason I said you were attached to her is for the simple fact that you're even here asking this question. She's married, she's sleeping with a guy. She barely knows you yet is telling you all of her preferred sexual activities, etc. You even said she's possibly insane. Most females aren't like her so most of us aren't going to know why she is telling you this stuff. Some guys are like that too, lol.
You should move onto someone who doesn't have as many "issues".
I have to add, great post by Craig, so very true. | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/17/2008 4:48:59 AM | | Sounds like a nut case. I would not even call her if I were you. Sounds like more red flags than ever....why are you even asking this??? The good part about it is it is happening now, before you got involved. NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/17/2008 4:56:40 AM | I guess it depends on how desperate you are to have sex.
If you can ignore the stalking bodybuilder husband who beats her ...
If you can ignore her having sex with a 'friend' and using him for it ...
If you can ignore her wanting to be in a small gangbang ...
If you can ignore she wants to be controlled ...
(Be sure to get it in writing that she wants to be controlled. Otherwise a rape charge could be pending) | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/17/2008 5:08:20 AM | OP The minute you said she has an ex, who was violent in the past, who is a body builder; the writing was on the wall. Would you really welcome all the trouble that this detail implies?
The man is not out of her life and he's stalking her. She has another guy who is a FWB. I'd say there are too many cooks in the kitchen. Take your spatula somewhere else. | |
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| Odd behavior from a girl I met on PoF...
Posted: 7/17/2008 6:47:02 AM | | This girl has no idea what she wants, she is looking for anything and anyone to make herself feel better and fill the void. As far as saying all of these things to you, I guess she thinks that would be a turn on to a man. She is nothing but trouble, mess with her and set yourself up for disappoint and trouble. | |
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