| Psycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 8/23/2005 10:34:47 AM | Yeah been there, knife throwing, telling me that she was not afraid to kill me while driving and just being a jerk! I guess misery really love company! | |
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| Psycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 8/23/2005 11:17:05 AM | Many of you guys have my story beat to he11, but I will share just the same.
I have always liked assertive women. I didn’t know that could sometimes be bundled in a package with flaws such as manipulative, aggressive, irritating, possessive, controlling, overpowering, and extreme stubbornness.
Had a girl once who was sexy, charming, very attractive, and a real go-getter. We cohabitated for 11 months in which she found plenty of opportunities to make my life almost completely miserable. I was too much in love or in lust with her to end it. When she left me, I spent most of the next two days with a tear in my eye, and then for the next two weeks I was so relieved that I felt on top of the world. So glad most women are nothing like her. Now I want to get to know someone as well as I can before I give her any contact info besides what’s available here on pof. I’ve done a pretty good job at staying away from that type for the last 18 years.
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| Phsycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 8/30/2005 6:32:55 PM | I don't think gender makes any difference.. There r plenty of physcho guys in this world, also.
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| Psycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 8/30/2005 6:50:25 PM | | Iv had a few girl friends like that. iv had one try to run me over when we werent going out for a few months!! | |
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Celyne
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| Phsycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 8/30/2005 10:40:14 PM | | I had one guy that went psycho...needed to be on the phone over 12 hrs a day, if I had to go out he thought i was out f*cking a guy, which wasn't any of his business anyways. Got jealous when i spent time with my kids. i told him i couldn't talk to him anymore, and he went totally nuts saying i hope you and your kids die and that i'm such a b!tch and he says that no one likes me blah blah...he would call my house every 30 seconds...i eventually had to block his number because it was getting really bad. =/ totally psycho!!!!! He's calmed down now and exchange emails once every 2 weeks or so now, but NEVER again will I allow him to call me... | |
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| Phsycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 8/31/2005 10:42:05 AM | | Nothing too serious. The worst I had was one that promised to cut the toes out of the socks I left at her place after we broke up. Then there was the one that would show up at my door anytime she pleased. No big deal (irritating but not really crazy behaviour) usually except that she'd ring the buzzer and then pound on my door forever until somebody in the apartment would finally get fed up and tell her to take a hike (yeah, I know what you're thinking but can you blame me for not answering the door ? lol ) Then there was the girl who insisted that we had once been married (back when I was fifteen)....you know, come to think of it, there were many. Based on some of the stories in here it sounds like I got away unscathed though. Good enough for me. Guess I'll just have to keep on looking for my future stalking psycho-chick. | |
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| Phsycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 9/19/2005 11:57:08 PM | i love this thread its so funny and i can relate unfortunately...i had met many psycho guys... they are out there.... and i have met psycho gals... especially here where i live now..... girls starting fights over guys that they are not even dating...and this happens on a weekly basis... how much can u sweat a guy.. i have never seen that kind of stuff wher i used to live before
some guys get psycho with time...i hate that...u think things ae going well..all of a sudden ur guy goes psycho on u. he's jakyl and hide...after all that wasted time..it must have been a good lie all before. i dated a guy...all was fine for many months...then slowly he started telling me what to do and not to do...then he became paranoid and possesive. (i heard that happens when men start cheating..lol...they feel that if they did it and got away with it...the othr person must be doing it too) either that or when i started telling him..he's not the one...lol...
or psycho guys that don't get the message that u are not intersted...i guess its my fault..i gave him my number...in a moment of loneliness..when he said he wants to just be friends...and i thought...well that can't hurt..and then many many annoying phone calls after i already said..u know tis is not gonna work out..i'm not into u...forgt the friend thing...what is ur problem ..(actually i wish i was that forward) but now i'm learnign to be more forward faster..and not fall for the just friend trap...heehe | |
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| Phsycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 9/20/2005 6:22:03 PM | I have had a relationship where the guy was like that. His aggressiveness was more the passive type, but still he was mental!! He liked to control me and manipulate me often by what he DOESNT do (like return back at a normal time or answer the phone) as much as what he does do.
Psst - hey mud!! its lilac from SPM!!! | |
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| Phsycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 9/20/2005 7:08:56 PM | The worst I had was one that promised to cut the toes out of the socks I left at her place after we broke up.
I'm sorry, pulse, but that one CRACKS ME THE HELL UP!!! Either she was really dumb, or she was effing brilliant!  | |
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| Phsycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 9/20/2005 8:23:53 PM | | I dated one but to be honest I was no treat either. We were both young and did stupid things that to this day I wish we had not. | |
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| Psycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 9/22/2005 12:08:06 AM | | ...one? they're all a bunch of nutcases buddy, thus the saying "women: can't live with em, can't live without em", they're all nuts but it won't stop me from wanting to go out with 'em even if it means having to put up with a little psychosis now and then... here's just hoping that no more are as crazy as the last 3 that I went out with nor as crazy as the chick that actually stabbed a friend of mine with a freakin' knife... crazies! | |
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| Psycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 9/26/2005 5:22:07 PM | | I have had atleast two that i could think of, the last one was earlier this summer, i had met her in a bar, everything was cool, until i had to cancel plans too go to a job interview. She responded "if you couldnt tell them you had plans, since you did with me first!!" That did it for me, she called me atleast 15 times a day, she texted message me one night following being at the bar and told me she loved me, by this point we just hung out once. She continued too call me and almost demanded that i go to her house and talk too her, mind you. . .her house was an hour and ten minutes away from me. Finally, she told me that if i didnt come by, or call her, she would never call again. . .i told her that i would take my chances and she has not called me again. . .i guess she feels that i lost out. . .but she did me a favor. . .the other one a few years ago, (too make a long story short) i tried too get rid of her, after telling her a hundred times politley that our friendship was just going to be that, on her birthday, which i told her that i could not do anything with her, mainly to get the point across, i ignored her calls, she had a 3 yr old little girl, that she got a babysitter for and walked in the snow about 45 minutes too my house at 1230 at night and knocked on the door, i hid in my bed,while she knocked on the door till after 1am , i was getting scared by this point, the knocking ended and she came back around 330am and knocked till 5am she left me a coffee and muffin as she knew i was going too work around 530am , it was frozen when i got out to go too work. . .. . . | |
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| Phsycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 9/26/2005 9:22:19 PM | | what beautiful days they are to have a women come after you ,and see just how crazy that they act .but make sure your cars is no where to be found and never let them have a spare set ofkeys to any of your cars. she took my 63 corvett and drove it down were we put our boats in water she put a brick on the gas pedel and put it in second gear and jumped out of the car and sent it into the hudson river . pissed shit i thought i would have killed her that night . but it was insured thank god ,wow what a car that was she went to jail for theft and polluting the river . there go's friendship down the drain . i know all you women think i must suck but there was more to this story , my girlfriend was a very good looking red head ,very out going , and liked to flert i found out threw one of her friends from work just how she got her pathfinder she gave the dealer a blow job in his office and f---ed him every now and then when I was working nights . so thats why i did it just to get back was it worth it yes every minute of it. I did run into to her in court and told her why i did it and told her I know how you paid for your pathfinder . her face turned red and she never said anything to me sence .all my vetts are heavly insured . she never new that but i made off on that car big time . | |
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| Phsycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 9/26/2005 9:32:58 PM | Ooh, I've had 2 of those, they were both big time slave drivers, and I was gulable to go with it  | |
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| Phsycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 9/26/2005 9:35:29 PM | hooked on phonics I don't know why that just popped into my mind ... there are certain men in this world that can make any woman psycho! If your really psycho you probably can't spell it | |
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| Phsycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 9/26/2005 9:36:41 PM | | You must like that kind of girl if your still letting her im you. Haven't you ever heard of putting people you don't want to talk to on your ignor list. Sounds like you want the drama. | |
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| Psycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 9/27/2005 12:42:31 AM | I have..some 30 year old mad at me for stealing her 22 year old man..I mean hey sorry he wanted something tighter..that felt like say a hot dog in a pencil holder | |
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| Psycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 11/29/2006 9:53:52 AM |
Who's had a girl that's Maniputive, aggressive, irritating, possesive, controling, overpowering, stubburn, and just plain out wierd??????
Well don't know what's going on in this tread but to comment on the question. You defined my last girl to a T. I lost allot for her, and if family didn't have the connection that it does I would have lost them too. Most of my friends are gone now, only few understood and I'm now I have completely recovered and back on my feet.
Im sorry but all you men sound like a bunch of ****'s that shouldnt be dating I have had great relationship before this with no problems, just something about that witch that played on my weaknesses, . really I don't see the point. But she did it for what ever reason and I just gave up. | |
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| Psycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 11/29/2006 3:22:48 PM | | My question is why would you stay with someone like that for even a week longer than it took to see the red flags??? | |
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| Psycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 11/29/2006 3:35:21 PM | They could have been me...met someone on the paid sites(three years ago)...had a great time..eight months down the line..still going like gang busters...I said I LOVE YOU in an intimate moment..to make a long story short..he got COLD..shut down emotionally, popped back on the personals and added all the activities WE experienced..would not say ANYTHING about what the deal is ..would not answer my emails or phone calls.. I turned into a raging screaming meemy trying to figure out why this sudden turn about?
He was not in love with me...
Even though we saw each other two to three times a week..never argued..just fit together like a glove..
I broke the "rule" he set up but failed to tell me about the "rules"....
1) NEVER SAY ..I LOVE YOU..it spoils everything... | |
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ulao
| Joined: 6/10/2006 Msg: 100 | |
| Psycho Girls--- who's had one Posted: 11/29/2006 3:46:08 PM | My question is why would you stay with someone like that for even a week longer than it took to see the red flags??? Me personalty I was falsely hoping she would change. I really loved her, and this generous sign of affection( sarcasm) came much later. After trying for ever I just gave up. Honestly I just wanted her to grow up and quit. We all learn the hard way I guess.. Why do women that get beat stay in relationships?... It's so easy to say when your not in it. But one thing is for sure I won't tolerate it again. | |
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