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 Oso de Huggie

Joined: 6/15/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2008 3:49:53 PM
All I can suggest is tell him straight out ...try bring it up in casual conversation ..."...would you date me?" Simple. It may seem like a rehtorical question that may reveal some interesting answers.
 browolf

Joined: 4/7/2007
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Posted: 7/17/2008 4:56:07 PM

Why do guys say they want a certain type of girl and then not even give that girl a chance?


that's usually hidden/unspoken preferences. Females quite often have them too.
 Zentimes

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 7/17/2008 6:58:09 PM
From what you say in your post -- you are THAT GIRL not being given a chance.

Well -- why do you think that is?

Simple -- he is:
NOT INTERESSTED IN YOU~
YOU WILL NEVER BE HIS TYPE.
YOU ARE "PAL" MATERIAL BUT have no SACKABILITY FACTOR.
 James_in_SD

Joined: 7/3/2006
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Posted: 7/17/2008 7:00:49 PM
Maybe they want a certain type of that certain type of girl.
 SassyHouLdy

Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 30
What do they REALLY want?
Posted: 7/19/2008 2:34:44 AM
Thank goodness it's no longer an issue for me.
 jm0405

Joined: 7/7/2008
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Posted: 7/19/2008 11:45:50 AM
I have had male friends...NO SPARKS??? Not meant to happen. No one's at fault, difference of opinion and choice, and if you got together it would result in a breakup. So dog your buddy for preventing a breakup? I can't and won't. Look beyond hormones and desperation....look at finances, future, compatibility, convenience, etc.... We don't live in Harry Met Sally thinking. Today, one must explore the depths..and Sleepless in Seattle and An Affair to Remember were equally idealistic. Get past that frame of thought and seek depth, importance, values, morals and standards vs whining about WHAT IF???? WHAT ABOUT MY CHEERLEADER UNIFORM??? Well...what if about that uniform when you spit out child 5, expand hips and weigh 190 wet?? Then what??? Find depth, importance, unconditional love, acceptance, honesty, trust, respect, and friendship first and foremost so your love will endure any hills and mountains it encounters. Live beyond fairy tales.
 jm0405

Joined: 7/7/2008
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Posted: 7/19/2008 11:50:17 AM
What do you REALLY want? Is that Maxim magazine, Playboy, Hustler, or the Victoria's Secret catalog? What do you REALLY want???

What an idiotic question to ask men worldwide. Casual conversation? Is that with or without cleavage, swimming suits, naked and/or dressed????

These questions are paramount one upon another - DESIGNED TO TRAP MEN....What a sorry game.

Ask a woman do you want Blue Man Group or Chippendales honey???? Even this score gentlemen.....LOL....FYI - Vegas Olympic Gardens has men and women alike - 1/2 naked.
 Secure_n_Stable

Joined: 5/17/2008
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Posted: 7/20/2008 12:58:20 AM
All guys want to be that "Guy friend," we have the best of everything then. We get to f@#$ around with you, not get serious, have some chick there to hang out with, and yet if we want to play with your emotions, we can, what better place to do it but as a friend.

This is why guys won't stay with a woman in a long term relationship when she has "guy friends." All of us know, the "guy friend" is a guy who wants the best of both worlds.......... Being able to screw around with you, telling you bad shit about your boyfriend just because he doesn't like him, take naked pictures of you, etc., but yet, having absolutely no commitment.

Any guy reading this, who hasn't figured it out...............being the "guy friend" is teets above being the boyrfriend......
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