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Posted: 7/18/2008 7:13:01 AM | Well dog, I don't want to put here what he said in details and I don't have to prove it to you either. nope you dont have to prove anything to me ..but you asked our opinion giving partial information.... then when you got harsh responses you tried to justify ..and you have conflicted your motives and information to the point we cant have an opinion
you have been pretty detail about what you said to him??how can we know if what he said to you could have in some deranged way justified what you said to him
Bear in mind that this was the time before we actually became intimate.
and you still became sexual with him after he made you feel like a whore... but after that took revenge for what he had said before you became intimate ...baby your digging yourself deeper and deeper
maybe you should feel like a whore ..and then do something to change it | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 8:10:08 AM | Dang, is this the same girl who thought telling a guy his premature baldness was a turn off would be a good idea? j/k... same thoughtless actions, though.
Yes, he got upset. You hurt his feelings. THINK before you speak.
Yes, apologize to him and maybe he'll forgive you. But, he's not required to so just to relieve your guilt.
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Posted: 7/18/2008 8:28:42 AM | these things happen to many men for many reasons and IF every one reacted in such an insensitive way there would be nothing but noodles flopping about everywhere..
nothing will deflate a FUTURE erection as such nastiness..saying"you could'nt even..."
cuts to the core of a man"ACCEPTANCE of the moment and not focusing on it..sets the scene for a harder future | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 8:32:27 AM |
many times have i referred to a lover as "my little whore" and never has this been taken wrong
I dont know what kind of women you hang with sweetheart, but if a man ever referred to me as that or said that to me and i dont give a sh*t if HE thinks its just a cutesy lil pet name (pffft! F*ck that!), him and all his sh*t would be flying out the door.  
Btw OP....sounds like from the way he treats you or makes you feel,,, you got the last word in. Let him stew in that for a while, and see how he likes it. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 8:57:58 AM | | OP , how would you react , if you text him that when he gets back from LA you want him to take you doggy style and he responded by texting "your butt is too big for that "?? Not saying that is the case without seeing a pic of you , but you get the point . | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 8:59:17 AM |
i would suggest finding someone else, imo i do not believe that is is salvageable at this point.
oh cmon. If she likes him enough she can get him back. Just talk to him, apologize and be sincere about it. If you hadnt called him yet, you might wanna apologize for that too. By you not talking to him for the past two days he might think you dont like him for the simple fact that he couldnt get it off.
AND yes that was very harsh and insensitive of you...very shallow. A man's pride is in his penis lol and you nicely killed it. Am i wrong about the pride part? :) | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 9:07:28 AM |
tw OP....sounds like from the way he treats you or makes you feel,,, you got the last word in. Let him stew in that for a while, and see how he likes it.
ummm she didnt stated anywhere that he treated her poorly. They wanted to spend some times together before he has to go to work for a month in LA. Sounded like they had a nice intimate relationship up until she made that comment. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 9:12:21 AM | I dont know what kind of women you hang with sweetheart, but if a man ever referred to me as that or said that to me and i dont give a sh*t if HE thinks its just a cutesy lil pet name (pffft! F*ck that!), him and all his sh*t would be flying out the door.
the kind that knows me well enough that they know what i mean by something like that...I would never say anything like that out of context or where any one else could hear it ..but dirty talk is and has been something me and my lovers have took advantage of ...lighten up sweetheart
VVVV to the next post ...me just dont think the point that he wanted to cum in her mouth was an issue ...me thinks she was all for that ...could be wrong but thats how i read it | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 9:13:31 AM | | Tell it like it is girl! Good for you! Serves him right for asking to cum in your mouth, nasty a$$ ba$tard ... Don't appologize, no need... you were simply being honest and stating the obvious. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 9:14:33 AM | Hello?
Yes you did say something very wrong. You shot down his masculinity. He was trying to save face by getting sexy with you. Especially if his ED was due to a medical condition it was horribly insensitive of you to say what you did. You should have just played along and said something like...mmmm would have loved that. I doubt you'll ever hear from him again. There's no apology that will mend that bridge. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 9:15:12 AM | Wow, kudos to you on your writing style--you do not know how much I appreciate being asked to "bear with" you rather than "bare with" you.
Um, yes, pretty insensitive to mention his lack of erection, but then again, um, was he engagaing in fantasy, braggadocio? I mean, a lot of guys talk like they're sex machines--those are usually the ones who can't come through with the goods. So maybe a dose of reality IS what he needed? | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 9:18:40 AM | After reading your second post, I don't know what is going on with you two. All I can say for sure, is that what you said should be reserved for ending a relationship with an exclamation point... Next!  | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 9:22:05 AM |
ummm she didnt stated anywhere that he treated her poorly. They wanted to spend some times together before he has to go to work for a month in LA. Sounded like they had a nice intimate relationship up until she made that comment.
Kit,,,,in her post #17,, and i think one other one after that too. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 9:23:09 AM |
Tell it like it is girl! Good for you! Serves him right for asking to cum in your mouth, nasty a$$ ba$tard ... Don't appologize, no need
Says the women who accepted $100 from a total stranger in return for letting him feel her breasts.  | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 11:21:13 AM | Yes after MSG. 17 & 25, the plot has thickened. Well then you're both as bad as each other IMO. Could go either way now - up to both of you. Sounds like he's made his choice tho... so if I were you, be pleasant and move on. Also if the LA thing is to be a regular occurrence, there's not much future in maintaining your relationship.
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Posted: 7/18/2008 11:27:41 AM |
Hello everyone. This is my first post so bear with me if I seem unclear with my query.
Ok, I met this guy from another site and like many other stories, we got on well on our first meeting and was followed by more.
Then we became intimate. Last weekend, we hang out again and I stayed at his place because he wanted to spend some more time with me before he goes to LA for a month with his work.
Anyway, he couldn't get an erection no matter how long I was giving him a blow job. This was due to his diabetes and thought that his sugar level was high at that time that was causing the lack of erection. But he commented that I do a blow job very well and he was pleased with that. Just as well I was starting my period so we did not have an intercourse.
So this is were the trouble begins. We've exchanged a few text messages since he arrived in LA but my last reply to him I believe made him very upset. I responded when his message said that he would love to have cum in my mouth if I let him that weekend....and my reply was "you couldn't even get a hard on, much less an ejaculation....".
After that, I have not heard from him again...and that was 2 days ago. Normally, we would have at least 10 messages exchanged during the day no matter how busy he gets but this time, he has gone really quiet.
Do you think he got upset from my last message? Do men find that condescending? Is an apology from me in order? Please advise...I am at my wit's end.
lol; if you are at your wits end when you said maybe the most insensitive thing a woman could say to a guy, then at your age there is not much hope.
And how long did you know this guy before you had sex with him? I'm shocked that people will meet someone a few times, jump in the sack and then think if they want to date them.
Dont expect this guy to run into your arms. Move on. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 11:35:48 AM | | Yes, honey, that was the most brutal, most tactless thing you possibly could have said. Forget that guy, you're totally washed up with him. Learn from your experience and don't ever do that again. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 11:39:36 AM | Danaella, I'm sorry but I think you stuck your foot in your mouth on that one.
My advice, text him, call him, whatever and apologize with utmost sincerity and stress that you will make it up to him, if this is truly what you want.
Good luck. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 11:53:56 AM | | Yeah ....here's my $.02 worth......I don't think you'll ever hear from him agian. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 12:01:12 PM | | op You could have also added that he had a small****and his man boobs were bigger than yours and he should see about getting the reduced... | |
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