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| Are most guys only into one night stands? Posted: 7/19/2008 12:06:21 PM |
Well speaking just for me, I prefer two nightstands. One for each side of the bed. I'm a slob, and need all the storage next to my bed that I can get.
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| Are most guys only into one night stands? Posted: 7/19/2008 4:19:32 PM | when i was younger i went through a stage of just wanting sex from girls i met.
the ones that didnt get used for sex were the ones who didnt put out so early... | |
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| Are most guys only into one night stands? Posted: 7/19/2008 5:06:03 PM | "Reality: My wife is disabled and in severe pain at all times. We've had a sexless marriage for a long time now because of that. I do not want to leave, and do love her, but honestly, I need to touch and be touched again in an intimate way by a person of the opposite sex. I'm not looking for a hooker, and I would care to put some emotional commitment into a discreet relationship, but I'm not willing to leave my wife".
Dude, what is wrong with a hooker? See, you have judged already. If you are cheating on your wife, how can it really be a committed relationship? Do you think any self-respecting woman who is really looking for a relationship would go for that without monetary compensation? What exactly do you think you have to offer? Do yourself and your poor wife a favor, just pay for it and get it over with. If she dies, heaven forbid, then you can look for your committed relationship.
As for the original thread, if someone has a one-night-stand, it's because that's what they wanted. Otherwise, it's called date rape. Don't listen to the whiners and complainers. There are far too many to count. | |
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| Are most guys only into one night stands? Posted: 7/19/2008 5:21:54 PM | | Well this topic is tough allot of girls complaint about guys only wanting them for sex if that's what you believe then don't give it up so easy. As far as the one night stand goes if you choose to have sex with somebody you just met that's your choice live with the consequences.Stop ****ing and complaining you got use now move on and learn from your mistakes. | |
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| Are most guys only into one night stands? Posted: 7/19/2008 11:16:12 PM | I think the stereotypical "one-night stand guys" are a loud minority, to be honest. However, if that's their lifestyle, they're run through a lot of them to make a bigger impression out there, but as far as the ratio of guys looking for one-night stands, I would have to say it's a lot lower than many women may think (from my peers and observing others above 25).
First, there's more of the "he's not looking for a relationship" vs an actual one night stand. Many will call this a one-night stand, because "it mine as well be", since the guy led the gal on to thinking he really dug her and a relationship was on its way. He sees she doesn't want FWB, and so he ends up walking away from communication.
Second, if a girl's really into the guy on the 1st date, but the guy decides he isn't that into her, there's a real possibility he may be game to sleep with her, if she gives him every signal in the book that she's game for it -- even if he would have blown her off the next day no matter what happened. I think sometimes women may go for the bedroom to try and solidify something with the guy they really like, or they just like them and they're horny... but the stereotypical guy, unlike stereotypical gal, will go with that flow eagerly, even when he sees her as non-relationship material. In essence, the guy wasn't LOOKING for a one-night stand, he just stupidly didn't blow her off before she blew him!
All in all, it's usually the result of guys "playing along", thus the girl feeling played. | |
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| Are most guys only into one night stands? Posted: 7/19/2008 11:25:42 PM | Speaking for myself, I find one night stands pointless. A committed relationship takes you to much deeper levels of experience and bliss, and frankly, in this day and age, even with protection, you never know what you might pick up !!
I think that men and women who are into that have low esteem, and get a bolster to their self image when they go home with someone, expecting not to see them again. It's a bit like eating an unripe fruit to me... sour... heheh. Altogether rewarding one the fruit has fully ripened !! | |
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