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 SFX Group

Joined: 2/20/2008
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Posted: 7/5/2009 6:35:49 AM
this is one of my HUGE problems with the UK.

Sex is a basic supply and demand thing, you dry up supply demand gets greater, its 101 marketing...

If you lot GAVE sex freely you wouldnt be having one night stands, you make men jump through hoops, attempt to call all the shots then winge when he vanishes after sex, listen, its a 2 way street, and we are supposed to be equal, however the law seems to take women side (CSA, women rights etc...).

Now i am bound to be flamed for this, but then that just proves my point as you know i hit the nail square on the head over it..... If you supply enough of what everyone wants then there wouldnt be a desperate scamble to find sex ANYWHERE then leg it.

Imagen you could get sex from everyone, no one would be out night after night looking for it on 1 night stands, or all over the internet.

Basic marketing says to make someone everyone wants, make 10 of them, people will pay the planet to get you to make the 11th item (look at Rolls Royce, only 20000 Silver Spitirs, there fetching more then the new BMW RR which has a production line, why, you cant buy a SS anymore thats why...).
 wacowboy3

Joined: 6/26/2008
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Posted: 7/5/2009 6:56:11 AM
I can't say what every other male on here is looking for, but personally, I am looking for way more than a one night stand. I will admit that when I was young, I did , but it didnt take long to decide that meangless sex was boring . I want to make love not have sex.
 GoodmanGreg

Joined: 11/24/2007
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Posted: 7/5/2009 7:06:08 AM
I know what I'm looking for wacowboy3. I'm not looking for a one-nighter, but I suppose there are situations where a "one nighter" is the best thing, rather than getting involved with somone who doesn't "float your boat". You never know until you try though. As Consfuscios once said "every long journey begins with the first step". As I see it, a "one night stand", whether its "Female Style" or "Male Style" is a first step, that sometimes leads to the "promised land" and at other times, it remains a first step and nothing more. There are no guarantees in life. If you don't take that first step, you remain immobile. Some "one night stands" have lasted for40 years, others have not.
 GoodmanGreg

Joined: 11/24/2007
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Posted: 7/5/2009 7:32:19 AM
Oh, just to clarify:

"One night stand - Female Style: Woman goes to bed with man, has sex (not making love) and never sees the guy again. Feels hurt and betrayed.

"One night stand - Male Style": Man treats a woman like a lady should, takes her out to a nice restaurant, maybe a movie, mayb dancing, all goes well, and then never hears from the woman again.
 catman50

Joined: 9/9/2008
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Posted: 7/5/2009 11:15:20 AM
You meet her today and it leaves you wanting MORE . I want her for more then one night .
 RobertKoi

Joined: 11/9/2008
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Posted: 7/5/2009 5:07:40 PM
"You meet her today and it leaves you wanting MORE . I want her for more then one night."
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Exactly. One time isn't enough unless if was just plain bad. But if it was a ONS for her and nothing else, then obviously there won't be a second time.
 vapeninsula

Joined: 6/29/2009
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Posted: 7/5/2009 5:40:53 PM
I've had women take advantage of me by only having a one message stand. I guess they don't want the email commitment.
 jacob8088

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Are most guys only into one night stands?
Posted: 9/20/2009 4:43:07 AM
I don't care much for one night stands. Unless of course she happens to be a single mother.
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