| Chinese ladies are they scammers??--- Are they FAKED or STOLEN photos of the Chinese ladies?
Posted: 3/27/2009 11:02:15 AM | For the easy money, the scammers from anywhere in the world and in any skin colours can disguise themselves by posting the photos of FAKED or STOLEN Asian/Chinese ladies on line to scam the ASIAN-CRAZED white men or to lure those MUCH OLDER white men to "buy" into getting the young , petite, submissive, helpless and pretty Asian ladies whom are just PHOTOS (or maybe adding voices with the paid employees on Cam or MSN.)
Besides the scammers, there are those REAL women who tried/tries to break out from their poor third world living condition. Without any university education, adding the gender inequality, these ladies are stuck in the low paying jobs and they can never get ahead in life as compared to the North American women. I have no doubt that some of these women are either willingly or unwilling involving themselves into scamming or "sold" themselves as mail order brides in exchange of a better future for themselves or their family so they believe. Personally, I met a couple of those mail order brides, their husbands are at least 25 to 30 years older than they are. They are very young and very unhappy.
I dare to say these Asian born ladies are very pleasant as I am one of them! But I am not a mail order bride. We are very secure, we strive to be the best we can be. We are very plagmatic, clear minded, loving, and have good morals as that is how we were taught. CBC ,on the other hand , are the real mixture of the eastern values with the western devil may care attitudes. I have noted many CBC have lost their real identity and their good solid Asian values.
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 3/27/2009 1:24:11 PM | Been dating a Vietnamese woman, and she doesn't seem interested in my money...she's making her own money and is already "Westernized" in many ways...says she has her visa.
She hasn't been pressuring me to marry her either...just wants me (or SOMEONE) around once a week to appreciate her, pamper her and help her feel young and beautiful (which is easy--at 45, she IS beautiful). | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 5/8/2009 10:41:38 PM | | There are good people and bad people in any race or country. I personally had been scammed b4 by an American man; and still I did not get bitter against Americans & assume they are all "scammers" - why should I? I have seen the good and the bad - that's just life. I think what I said in my first sentence is plain & simple. So, just be more careful with people - anywhere. Good luck! | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 5/9/2009 4:03:53 PM | 95% or more are scammers. There is so much on the internet about this it is unreal.
Run, don't walk, run!
Find somebody local - they are there and just waiting for you to find them - might take a while but they are there.
Rob | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 5/9/2009 4:11:48 PM | Hey!! I resent the remark that all Irish People are drunks. I never have more than 10 drinks a day and never before 7am | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 7/7/2009 11:16:56 PM |
Yes, there is a dowry from the Groom's family to the Bride's family, and it can be a hefty sum. If you think this is a scam, then don't go for a traditional Chinese girl.
So are you saying that as a traditional Chinese girl (BBC) you will ask your future husband-to-be to pay a dowry to your family? | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 7/8/2009 4:48:07 AM | | Why would you want to pursue a woman who doesn't even speak your language and is thousands of miles away. Maybe the issue comes back to you. | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 7/8/2009 4:27:52 PM | | Mate i know what you feel! would love it to be but cant be,remember 1 st experience with my russian,i was away with the fairys meeting her at airport,a new life waiting to happen,checking email every 5 mins writing novals to her full of what i felt,its weird but with a scammer you become totally honest with them,showed mates the messages they were even taken in by the brilliance of this he/she it thing.Then one day i put my foot in it and woke up,i sent her email stating that relative of ming passed away and that she left me in her will which would mature within 1 month,that seemed to press her buttons in a way that she had actually read this and replied accordingly.i then sent her request..i offered a very lucrative deal that if her mother who teached were to loan me the £850 so that i could fly to russia and meet tham,i would then triple her kindness and return £2550 when will matured, PUT THAT IN YA SMOKE & PIPE IT ****.... | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 7/8/2009 7:49:13 PM | Depends on where your contact is made? It's a scam if they (any female of any race) ask for money. You need to read the ad's on POF beginning sections. As mentioned by others here, All females who are not really looking a " soul mate" or a husband is really looking for your bank account numbers. ( get a Target,Walmart, K-mart or Safeway limited Visa card to protect your family jewels) This way you can have only so much on the card limit...and not give your account numbers away. I'm located in the north western states and was trying to set up a date with a lovely lady (ASIAN ) who lived near Pala Casino in Calf. After a few e-mails ,and she saying that she didn't understand the old fashion phrases I used,she asked me about my hobbies and "how much was in my bank account "and if my home was free and clear of debt. And she said again that "she didn't understand the American ways" of life here. I was amazed she understood clearly about the "banking system ". I would say NO to your question that only a certain nationality of ladies are scammers, But watch you family jewels in doing anything with funds going anyway but your pocket.
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 7/9/2009 6:09:39 PM | The question you asked depends on the gal,and what shes like,some are scam artists,I have a lady freind over there ,havent heard from her in a long time seems to be a real genuine person , she got breast cancer and had surgery last I heard she was undergoing chemothereapy.
So I would say not all of them but certainly some of them,keep your gaurd up and be wary. | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 7/10/2009 12:34:12 AM | | I'm close friends with a first generation Chinese-American woman. We've been friends since we were in eighth grade. I went to the middle school in Chinatown which was very ethnically diverse (Russian, Chinese, Puerto Rican, African-American). Many of the foreign born Chinese women living in the states are like any other women -- independent, strong, and intelligent. I remember my best friend telling me women from Southern China (Toisan, Canton, Hong Kong) tend to be more strong willed and independent. I asked her why this was the case and she said because of the poor upbringing many Chinese women have faced in Southern China. The past they lived has made them more determined to seek a better future. If you call this manipulating, cold hearted, and calculating than so be it. Women are women -- some may be manipulating, shrinking violets, or the crazy one you want to run away from. I'm sure many of these Chinese women corresponding with American men may not have pure intentions. Some may and some may not, that is up to the man to decipher -- is she in it for the green card, or love? While we're on this issue -- many Russian women are doing the same. They are corresponding with American men for either a) love, or b) green card. We cannot paint the entire Chinese women population as "manipulating" and neither can we do the same with Russian women. Women are women at the end of the day, some are good and some are bad. | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 9/26/2009 4:07:53 PM | | American-Chinese women are more close to American women because they are mainly nurtured by Western culture. Chinese women are more traditional. Most well-educated Chinese women in China are much more successful than most well-educated Chinese women in the U.S. | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 9/27/2009 7:15:08 AM | | I knew a guy who was taken to the cleaners by a beautiful and submissive blonde from the Ukraine. She used him to get the visa, brought her relatives over, emptied his bank accounts, and divorced him. | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 9/27/2009 10:50:01 PM | | Not neccesarily all scammers but most of them are remarkably shallow and superficial and are far more concerned with clothing brand names and your vehicle make and model than anything else about you. I met a Thai girl off here once and when she saw my car which is a brand new Dodge Charger R/T she told me she did not think she would look good in my car....wtf who says something like that? Polish women are the worst though from what polish men have told me... | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 9/28/2009 10:22:17 AM |
Not neccesarily all scammers but most of them are remarkably shallow and superficial and are far more concerned with clothing brand names and your vehicle make and model than anything else about you. I met a Thai girl off here once and when she saw my car which is a brand new Dodge Charger R/T she told me she did not think she would look good in my car....wtf who says something like that? Polish women are the worst though from what polish men have told me...
Thai girl isn't Chinese!!! Why did you talk to a Thai girl? Was it because she was in a good shape? You could have a fat girl if you weren't shallow and superficial. You believe that Polish women are the worst; are women in your race best? None is shallow and superficial like you! | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 9/28/2009 5:37:13 PM | | White Canadian women are pretty bad as well and quite frankly I just do not trust the entire gender at this point.... | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 9/29/2009 5:47:31 PM | I am Chinese, male in my forties. Married once when I was in my twenties. College educated, own my own house, good job etc. I only speak English and consider myself an American. I am not the most handsome guy, losing hair, but consider myself a good honest, intelligent, caring guy.
I have been on POF, for a while, sent out dozens of emails no response. I basically gave up on finding a date, let alone a wife. When I was younger, I would always joke around with my friends that if I was single when I was old I would get a mail order bride from overseas. Well, I am old now and single. Given up on American women. NOT ALL, but most women on this site judge me only by my looks, so they are not interested in me. I am not a bitter women hater, just realistic. I live in a small town in the South, not many Asian people.
Since I have resigned myself to be a bachelor the rest of my life I have nothing to lose. I tried an overseas dating site CB, similar to POF.
I could not believe the response. Everyday I get emails and smiles from beautiful, nice women. I cannot get women in the USA to give me the time of day. I am not NAIVE, I know that they are interested in me because I am an American and they can improve their lives and their families lives if they come to USA. After corresponding with many girls mostly Filipina, a few Chinese, I find their values and morals a complete 180 degrees from the TYPICAL American women, NOT ALL, and it has given me hope to be able to find a wife and hopefully in the future be able to start a family.
Sure, some ask for money, sure I have sent money, usually 40 or 75 US dollars. I know I could be getting ripped off, but I know they live in a very poor country. To me it is like giving to charity, like United Way which I give to every year. The only difference is I do not know where the money goes to with United Way, at least I kinda know something about the person I am giving the money to. I could afford it and who knows it might be my future wife. LOL 
I am an immigrant myself, so it is like Karma, to bring another human being from a poor country and give them a chance at a better life in America. | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 10/6/2009 12:39:15 PM |
Sure, some ask for money, sure I have sent money, usually 40 or 75 US dollars.
Don't send anyone money, which isn't meaningful for you to look for a relationship. You should seriously communicate with someone whom you really like. When you feel confortable, you can go to meet her. Anyone who can communicate with you in English should be well-educated. Chinese countries and areas, Japan, and South Korea may be better for you to look for someone because these areas' economies are developing well. | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 10/6/2009 3:00:47 PM | Hi FarmExe,
I am not NAIVE, I only have done it twice, both to people I liked and chatted with daily for at least a month, one longer. Please realize that $200 is their average salary per month. But if you have no car and rent a furnished room without air conditioning for about $100 a month it is enough to survive. For a lot of people that live in third world countries like the Philippines, it is a matter of survival. Two typhoons hit the Philippines last week and hundreds of thousand of HUMAN BEINGS are devastated and lost everything they owned. If I give some money to help someone I know buy food and water, maybe I am being scammed maybe not, I just have to use my instincts based on your chats, often through a webcam/video YM messages. whether or not they are scamming me. But even if they are, it's like giving to International Red Cross, except I know the person. How do I know that money given to the International Red Cross is going to legit needy people either.
Most Filipina wash clothes BY HAND and air dry them outdoors. Most work 6 days a week 10 hour days. Wash clothes and go to church on Sunday, their only day off. Yet, their attitude and spirit is always so upbeat and joyful when they chat with me. When I told one of them I had a dish washer, they could not believe it.
Meeting these girls from the Philippines have made me truly realize how much I have. And made me realize how easy my life is compared to theirs. How can you complain that your steak is undercooked when some of these women just eat fish and rice almost everyday of their lives, until they die.
I was a Financial Advisor for Morgan Stanley, so I am sensible with money.
Bottom line is, I can afford it, I know it is not smart to send money to someone you just know from the Internet. The dating site even says: 6.Asking for Money: Would you give money to someone you don't know living in your own country? Probably not. Our members find value in following this principle when meeting people over the Internet. Never send money to anyone you have not met in person, for any reason.
Oh, and this dating site, there are not many or none, Japanese or North Korean women members, a few Chinese members, but I find that their command of the English language is not the greatest. Filipina, in addition to Tagalog are taught English from when they start their schooling. And YES, China, Japan, North Korea are modern and industrialized like in the West, but women from these countries like America, have little or no interest in me.
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 10/7/2009 5:51:24 AM | 4Forumposting, are you a bit naive? never send money, it has nothing to do with Karma, if these " women " are so poor tell me how can they afford paying the internet? and most Library Im sure will limit your time on their computer.
A scam is a scam, plain and simple and these " scammers" prey upon unsuspecting , kind heart, naive individuals.
What I cannot understand is why someone who lives in America would correspond with a woman who lives in another country who barely understands English, especially guys who claim they are " below average " in looks and these women who is attractive in most cases , why would they be interested in you? besides for the obvious reasons,are some of you that desperate that you over look the obvious? | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 10/7/2009 11:51:14 AM |
...a woman who lives in another country who barely understands English...
You are right. English is my second language within seven years. Now I don't think my English is worse than many Americans. You should know that many American guys like smart, fit , and younger look foreign women...because they cannot find one with the same qualities in the U.S. or women with the same qualities in the U.S. don't want them... | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 10/7/2009 4:56:44 PM | Hi!
As for how they can afford the access to the Internet. In the Philippines, it typically costs 30 pesos for access to the Internet for one hour. They sometimes consider it renting a computer. At 46 peso to the US dollar, that is less than a dollar to chat or correspond on CB for an hour.
Like I said in my post, it is not the smartest thing to send money to someone you met on the Internet, I DO NOT Disagree with you.
I would typically spend about 50 to 75 dollars on a date, so based on the amount I sent, it's like two dates. To me it is like charity, it's my money and I can waste if if I like.
FarmExe, you are exactly RIGHT, with you statement.
because they cannot find one with the same qualities in the U.S. or women with the same qualities in the U.S. don't want them..
Also, it is the desire to find a women that judges me based on who I am not not by my looks. And if they just want me for a better life, I can live with that. Is that that much different from an attractive women who gets ahead in life because of her looks? | |
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| Chinese ladies are they scammers??
Posted: 10/7/2009 5:24:40 PM | | Two of my friends married two American guys. They have been happy in their marriages about 6 years now. Both of them received their husbands' money before their marriages. They never have money problem because Asian girls know how to save money... | |
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