| Do you date interracially? Posted: 12/28/2008 9:55:05 AM | | I am not picky because you never know who is actually the perfect one for you. I cant say I have dated all races but I would not be opposed to it either, you never know. | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 1/9/2009 8:27:28 PM | Do you date interracially? Yes How long have you dated interracially? for about 15 years Has your family's reaction been good, bad, or ugly? Who Cares!! It's my life If you've lived/worked in other places, is Dallas like most other places in terms of the reception you get when you appear together as a couple? I and hopefully my counterpart could care less about what others think, or say or the look. The best way to deal with these people who have personal problems is to glance at them, and smile.. They don't know how to handle this. | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 1/10/2009 11:57:12 AM | | I dont date interracially belive that GOD doesnt wont that. And for all the ppl who do hey thats you. I have had alot of black and mexican girls ask me out and I went out but I told them justto hang out. I hope that the girls and guys here that just date blacks will go back to dating white guys to. But if not owell. AND thats that | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 1/12/2009 10:00:44 AM | Yes I do from my very first boyfriend.
Family's reaction is? If your happy, that's all that matters.
I have worked with alot of racist people, and I have so to speak had to grin and bear it. But with that being said NO ONE has ever confronted me or more or less talked about my children being mixed or my relationship in front of me that would cause me discomfort.
I am the type of person if you stare at me that is your problem I am not going to shove it down your throat but staring is not nice so I may give you something to stare at....LOL
I am not bothered by what "SOCIETY" thinks it's my life and I live it Day for Day..... | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 1/12/2009 5:16:12 PM | yes,and guess what we got married,OMG what have i done.guess what my son does also,and i have a beautiful grandson by him and his wife,guess i didn't bring him up right according to the racists,well KMA.
you date ,marry,or whatever who you feel good with.if you say you only date your own race fine,but don't look down your nose at the people who do,its thier choice not yours.my family has not ever had a prol with it.
oh when the the little woman and i get the" look" we kiss and touch even more .  | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 1/16/2009 8:31:51 PM | | Yes, I have for 15 years now, and since I am a self-supporting, mature adult over the age of 21, I don't give a damn what ANYONE thinks about my choices except ME! | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 1/22/2009 9:56:58 AM | I'll date who-ever i want and i dont care what anyone thinks of me. and i dare them to step to me about this issue.
ive seen red-necks hook up with sista's... i laugh then think about the red-neck "hey you cant be all that bad nice job.. good luck to ya"
i see white girls hooking up with latino's.... " i say... Ok.. good luck to ya"
i see latino's hooking up with brotha's.... "i say dam! i hate you with a passion and that should be ME!" ROFL
i see folks now hooking up with other races and find it pleasant..i really hope this opens up nationwide... we have alot to catch up with compared to Canada and Europe.
Only thing that aggrevates me.. is when i see a sexy white lady thats AFRAID to even try cause her daddy told her he would disown her, etc.. now that gets me heated!... until that end of the spectrum dies.. we'll still have debates , stances and opinions about interracial dating.
P.S the sista's out there that turn down a chance to date a brotha who's willing to date interracialy making it seem like he's now "a waste of time or not good".. you're ignorance is one of the many reasons we're not dating you.. keep up the good work. | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 3/11/2009 5:21:35 PM | I tend to tell folks that I date the rainbow meaning I date women of all races. Since I was a kid, I had an interest in white women. As I got older that interest grew into other races like Hispanic women, and Asian, Mixed, and Black women. I think its cool to take time out and learn about another culture by dating someone of another race. I tend to vacation a lot in Puerto Rico and go to a lot of Spanish oriented parties and events! I guess you can tell I still have a strong love for Latina women huh?! LOL!
My family is perfectly fine with my decision to date outside of my race. They just want me to be happy with whatever decision I make. We have several couples in our family who are in interracial marriages or relationships. | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 3/14/2009 11:19:25 AM | Do you date interracially?
No but it's not because of race or society. It just seems women who are attracted to me from other races mainly white are ghetto or there's some other catch.
Has your family's reaction been good, bad, or ugly?
My family wouldn't mind as long as I'm happy and my mom can finally have some grandbabies lol
If you've lived/worked in other places, is Dallas like most other places in terms of the reception you get when you appear together as a couple?
I'm originally from East Texas and I've had friends who dated outside their race but they had to be SUPER secret about it. The town I lived in was very racist and you could literally end up missing. Dallas was a culture shock to how cool people are with this. Some may disagree but it's all about perception and if you came from where I came from Dallas looks pretty good. | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 3/17/2009 8:59:58 PM | Beauty come in many colors, why pick only one? I have dated woman with quite a range of skin color, to have skipped one color would in my mind been a crime. Thinking back, I have dated more hispanic and asian woman then I have caucasian.
How does the family care, I doubt they do, and if they do fark em, it is my life not theirs. | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 3/18/2009 10:52:36 AM | I don't... but it's not because of race or society, as the gentlemen stated above. It's my preference and what I'm physically attracted to.
We all have our own preferences of what we are attracted to and what we look for in a person we want to date. | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 3/19/2009 3:40:46 PM | In simple words, yes.
I see no reason to deny feelings for another person just because they are a different skin color, now if the have a tail or flippers its off. I only date humans. | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 4/11/2009 9:41:09 PM | I agree with shabbikid and many others here on this thread. But one question, why is it that if you have a bi-racial child then people from your own race won't date you???
When talking to someone and things are going just fine and they find out I have a bi-racial child they can't get away fast enough, why is that? Any suggestions? | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 5/20/2009 7:06:36 PM | | me personally I have not dated interracially but then again I haven't been asked out on a date by someone of another race, not to say I wouldn't just haven't had the opportunity. i don't see too much of a difference in men of any race . | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 5/25/2009 1:10:50 PM | Why would you care what others think about you and someone of another race, color, or creed, for that matter?
You define your significance. | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 5/26/2009 12:47:35 PM | Ya know.. it would be easier if POF simply added a selection to the profile templates..
Interracial Dater: yes or no
Seeking Race type: XYZ.. enter here
something that way it would be easier sorting thru the really cool girls that do..
and the stuckup , racist clan members here in texas that do not!.
I swear im mixed!!! i promise.... when i woke up like this i thought it was only a slight tan!!!... help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 8/4/2009 10:56:07 PM | | I have never made a conscious effort to date a certain race over another, just let what ever happens happen. | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 8/8/2009 11:11:18 AM | I have never cared about the color of skin, ethnic background, cultural differences, religious differences...If you fall in love...that is all that should matter. I have always been that way. I had hell to pay as a teenager, but now, I am free of that battle. I am completely open to love...no matter the package. I think some major influences on my choices have been Christianity---love thy neighbor, never said only the "white ones"-lol. I also think growing up in the 80's watching Soul Train, Sanford and Son, Michael Jackson, etc...and Movies such as "A Patch of Blue", "Guess Who's Coming to Dinner"---made me realize that love is truly color blind regardless of what was forced into my mind. I also had an experience when I was about 7 when I called one of my best friend a horrible word, only because I had heard an older family member use the same word to describe someone....I was so hurt when her older sister explained what that word meant...I believe in my heart that is what truly changed any possibilities that I could or would care about race. I always had friends and my first crush was not white...I guess basically, I have always followed my heart.
♥I think that we will all appreciate each other much more when we realize that people are all the same...PEOPLE. To love should mean that you love blindly...It is truly such a beautiful thing to experience LOVE in it's most Spiritual and Pure form!♥
I wish you all, all of the luck in the world...and for those that have lived in fear...Release your mind and let your Heart be free! The world would be a better place if we all lived by our HEARTS! ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 8/8/2009 11:16:34 AM | I have heard a few men tell me that they have had some very scary women come after them...not physically, but aggressively on here just for noticing. I am sorry for all of those to ignorant to wake up and recognize the world is growing, changing, and evolving. I hope that you find HER... It just takes time, and when it is right you will know...I hope...lol Good luck! | |
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| Do you date interracially? Posted: 8/8/2009 11:18:45 AM | | Have faith that freedom includes LOVE! Love because he treats you how you wish to be treated...close your eyes to the aesthetic superficials! God bless...and Good Luck! | |
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