| virign at 31
Posted: 7/22/2008 5:37:38 PM | | If it's never been used, are you sure it'll even start up? | |
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| virign at 31
Posted: 7/22/2008 5:39:11 PM | ive had a few offers but said no cause of peer pressure
Not enough thats for sure.What in the world are you waiting for ???It doesn`t hurt so just go for it!!
If it's never been used, are you sure it'll even start up?
OMG ! | |
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| virign at 31
Posted: 7/23/2008 3:08:48 AM | | im from scotland i put things diffrent to otehr peole from other countires, i can tell u im not gay, i get turned on by women and allways have, i am interested in sex, its just cause of the way i feel and with depression that putts me off sometimes i want sex sometimes i dont thats what i mean, i dont not have problems with my manhood its big enough and i can get it up no problem and i do whack off, what else u ment to do with no woman arround, yes i find it hard when it comes to women, its not my fault its allways been that way | |
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| virign at 31
Posted: 7/23/2008 3:10:46 AM | | yes ive got depression, if just not had my tablets for a few days as they run out but its ok i will be getting more of them, and the tablets ive got are fine, yes the do affect my sex drive thats why some days i want it and some days i dont | |
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| virign at 31
Posted: 7/24/2008 8:51:36 PM | | you may be dead before you ever get laid. You have problems bud!!!!!!! | |
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| virign at 31
Posted: 7/24/2008 9:20:23 PM |
ive got depression and it has made me very wary of things in my life, if you want to know more just ask ....it's hard to attract someone when you don't feel good about yourself...
GeordieChick nailed this one. 1/depression kills your sex drive. 2/a lot, but not all, of the anti-depressants also kill your sex drive. 3/If you aren't seeing a psychiatrist go. 4/If you are seeing a psychiatrist, change your meds, because yours aren't working. 5/If you've tried all of the different antidepressants; suggest to your psychiatrist that you might be bi-polar; because bi-polar depression does not respond well to standard antidepressants. 6/Whatever you do, GET THAT OFF OF YOUR PROFILE. Depression is a medical condition; and exceedingly personal; also much maligned and misunderstood. Lots of people have medical conditions that are significant that they don't advertise up front. Like anything else, once you meet, decide it might work, then vent your closets and let her know about the depression, and what you are doing to control it, and live with it. 7/I really mean this...take up a martial art. There are lots of different martial arts; some very aggressive, some not so much; find one that agrees with your personality, and go for it. Martial arts do amazing things for your confidence, and sense of self. Not just because you can beat someone up; because most good martial artists rarely fight; they just help to center you; and improve your perceptions of your place in the world. Trust me on this one.
Oh yeah, about being a virgin; don't worry about it; and don't do anything you don't feel good about; screw what other people think and say. The ones doing the saying are the ones nobody trusts or respects anyway; because a good person would never put you down in the first place. You need to take care of you; the virgin thing will take care of itself. Good luck. | |
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| virign at 31
Posted: 7/25/2008 1:18:12 AM | Re post 16
I was merely reading through the thread with no intention to post when I read post 16 and I had to comment:
If the OP was a woman, virgin or born-again-virgin or chaste, would the OP be receiving the kind of argumentation put forward in post 16?
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I lost my virginity at 16 ad never looked back, but I can often see how some women can be damaging with their attitides and words to a more sensitive hetero guy. Jeeez people!
Fellow posters, women and men, cut the OP some slack, will ya? Not very nice! | |
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| virign at 31
Posted: 7/25/2008 7:00:21 AM | | I am just a few months younger than you, OP, and I personally I couldn't imagine still deciding if I wanted to have sex or not. I think if I were still a virgin by about 25 or so I would have spontaneously combusted. If you want to have sex..have some, or at least try to find some. If you still don't want sex, then don't have any. Sounds pretty simple to me. I do also wonder, if RELIGION plays any role in his situation? | |
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| virign at 31
Posted: 7/29/2008 5:09:15 AM | | A virgin at 31 , hmmmmm, ok giving you the benefit of the doubt, and you suffer from depression which means your taking medication which could affect the sex drive and you're hit the pubs for some suds, ok you know that you're not suppose to drink while taking any medication? yes/no/maybe? so maybe you should lay off the sauce for a bit. | |
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| virign at 31
Posted: 7/29/2008 10:39:38 AM | My recommendation, stop looking for advice on the netm too many trolls and idiots out here. If you're suffering from depression you should go and seek professional help over it, talk to a real counselor about this and figure things out with him/her.
You're not going to find anybody here qualified to give you proper advice and judging by some of the responses I've seen on this forum you'll probably just be messed about by a lot of people and their personal opinions. | |
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| virign at 31
Posted: 7/29/2008 11:33:09 AM | | The general attitude you will get here is critisicm and people asking what went wrong, get help for depression and mingle with women a bit more until one chooses you to flirt with or whatever, wont take long. | |
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