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 JamesOnTheCoast

Joined: 6/28/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2007 12:50:04 PM
Hey I'm 57 and I still often (yes often!) think about a gemini I dated when I was 26 and she was 21. She was just the most wonderful person you're ever likely to meet. I kick myself for not going with her when she went back to her home town to live. I was more interested in my career. Paradise lost!
 whatacatch4u

Joined: 3/18/2007
Msg: 227
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Posted: 7/4/2007 6:16:46 PM
As a true SAGITTARIUS I am not lost on the idea,how valuable MY exact,but opposite match,my complementary pair COULD BE. MISS GEMINI

Euromaverick.... you could only be so lucky enough to have a gemini woman in your life... your loss

Good luck fishing
 bucsgirl

Joined: 5/13/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2007 7:55:13 PM
"you could only be so lucky enough to have a gemini woman in your life... your loss" No disrespect whatacatch4u, but as a complete opposite, I'd say euromaverick is right. A Gemini female with a Sag male...I only see 2 people that'd make each other miserable. Geminis and Sags, heck all signs would be happiest with someone that has a better chance for compatability. Opposites rarely are.
Actually, it'd probably be that Sag that would be miserable, doubt a Gemini female would hang around that long.
 euromaverick

Joined: 1/1/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2007 11:04:37 PM
buchgirl,thanks for your support,actually to make this a true story,whatacatch4you and myself were almost friends, and actually met a few times in person, I never made it to a friend status (without benefits) in five months.

She is the funniest woman I ever met,and that is without question.I did see the value,but it was a struggle to build the friendship,and that is unusal for me,I am pretty popular and well liked in the city's pof party circle,if you check the posts.So, what happened? Since I am a truth seeker just like all other true blue SAGS, I wanted to get a REAL answer.AND that is, TRUE GEMINI.

Which in it self is not a problem, NOT knowing it, IS,at least for the TRUE SAG.I did figure it out recently on my own, as I was showing my horoscope to a friend and some of the words and syntax,which are not used in every day life were there.I don't read horoscopes much,But I knew, I seen that, somewhere recently, I do remember things, where things just don't add up, for one reason or an other. Sure enough,it clicked, I seen it in her profile.

I ended up here, because I could not fathom, that it is really possible, for women to the have a distinctly dual personality. I have seen it, I just did not want to believe it.Well, today is thursday,is she going to be the nun or the cool chick ?(very conservative or light liberal).Trust me it is not as funny as it looks. I wanted to see and experience the GEMINI treatment "again" as I call it now,If it was a fluke or it is real.AND it is about as real as it ever gets. IF any men got any doubts,read through this forum,and that goes to SAGS more then any other.
 valeeshka

Joined: 7/16/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2007 11:36:42 PM
This thread just gets funnier and funnier!

Boy Euromaverick, you sure take this stuff serious.
Certain combination of personalities encourage great learning.
Instead it seems you have only learned to blame and hate .
I suggest you look within and find away to take some responsibility for your painful experiences. Once you deem yourself that important, you will be able to heal.
 Goddess of dreams

Joined: 5/12/2007
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Posted: 7/5/2007 12:12:47 AM
valeeshka I have a confession to make...I don't understand much of what Euromaverick says, all I hear; is him advertising and raving about his star sign. but I keep coming here for a good laugh


today is thursday,is she going to be the nun or the cool chick


umh.....I actually feel like being a Pest Exterminator dearest Euromaverick

 junebug1946

Joined: 12/12/2006
Msg: 232
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Posted: 7/5/2007 6:40:31 PM
to Euromaverick

I am very aware of what true gemini women would say, and spare me the head ache.



Darlin, not all gemini women are selfish, whinny,immature etc... It was your misfortune to have met a brat. I would never have behaved like she did. I think not being a nice person has nothing to do with what sign you were born under, but has everything to do with the way you were raised and the values that were taught to you. I am 61 and if my Mom were alive today she would have grounded me for life if I treated anyone the way you were treated. I try not to generalize about people ie: all men are this or that. Not all gemini women would behave like a spoiled brat. She was rude and inconsiderate. End of Story.
 bucsgirl

Joined: 5/13/2006
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Posted: 7/5/2007 6:48:15 PM
Well euro different personalities don't always mesh. Whether anyone considers it's because of their "sign" or not. Doesn't mean either is tragically flawed or a horrible person.
I did do your survey, BTW and was surprised that I have 13 sag males on my favs list. I really don't pay all that much attention to astrology as an every day, every person I meet or talk to type of thing.
When I said the person wouldn't wait around too long, what I meant was if it was a mismatch where both were miserable a Gemini woman would tend to move on from that situation.
There's no reason to not be respectful and have proper manners. For myself I like to keep it simple, the golden rule works well. And since I like to be treated well, I find when I treat others that way, it comes back in spades. Not all the time with every person, but even if it doesn't I can still feel good about myself, knowing I did the right thing.
Don't feel bad euro, some were just poking fun, don't take it all too seriously. And your match may or may not be gemini, but as long as you're both happy, that's really all that counts.
 scorpiomover

Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 7/5/2007 7:06:08 PM
Glad you agree, betty.

Only one point:

However, all Scorpio men I have known are happy knowing no more than like 5 people, going to the same place, hate crowds and don't much like talking with strangers.
We just make you THINK we only have 5 friends, but really we have 50. I have at least 100 acquaintances that I've made over the last year, ALONE! If we're talking about my life, that's in the thousands. But I never let one friend know about the others, just works better that way, and I also hate crowds, don't talk to strangers, and always go to the same place. I just talk to one person in a crowd, treat a stranger as a friend, and never mention the strange places I go to, so I'm not judged for it. Scorpios are very, very adventurous, but we are very private. If you ever get to know every friend a Scorpio has, he has a lot more than you STILL don't know. You'll never get to know us completely. It's in the manifesto of Scorpios. We're required to sign it in the womb. With blood.
 GypsyEssence

Joined: 6/4/2006
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Posted: 7/5/2007 11:19:39 PM
This whole thread is amusing to me.

I'm a Gemini and I get along with Sags just fine. My ex who I've known for 37 yrs is a Sag and while we haven't been a couple since 1989 we are still friends. He calls me when he wants advice or help with something, if I can help out I do.

Interesting that all the things a Gemini has been accused of here he has been guilty of such as cheating, lying, avoiding responsibility and so on. As he has aged he as gotten better and more responsible so I just see it as growing up on his part. My ex has friends and family that can't understand why I help him out at times but just consider it nice of me.

I don't live my life by astrology and usually it takes a bit for me even to wonder what sign someone was born under.
 valeeshka

Joined: 7/16/2006
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Posted: 7/5/2007 11:38:24 PM
Okay, I never shared the results of the Mavo testo..

Looks like I am a pretty equal oppertunity fisher gal,
My favs list..

Sag was the 2nd lowest
aquarius the highest by several , don't ever recal dating one.
I wounder if it would be less diverse if I just picked my fav writers on the boards?
Too lazy to bother . I may make an effort to notice.
 Limestone_Lady

Joined: 6/20/2007
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Posted: 7/6/2007 4:51:27 AM
I get along best with Gemini men. they are among the few that keep me interested for longer than a couple of months. My Partner is Sun, Moon, mercury and ascendant in Gemini. (Yeah, changeability overload!) We complement each other in many ways.

My best ex (of 3.5 years, a house and many nice things with, and are still great friends) was also Gemini. My two worst relationships (where the guy was clingy to me like crazy and wanting me to be their momma) were with Sagittariuses. (<- that is apparently the proper plural, 'uses' not 'ians'...)
 katrionaclarke

Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 238
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Posted: 7/6/2007 1:16:40 PM
I'm a Gemini, sometimes it feels like a burden. I usually hold at least two opinions on any given subject, talk too much and laugh way too loud for polite company. I never went out with a Gemini man to my knowledge, it would be fun and there'd be alot of fireworks I'm sure.
 indigoeyes

Joined: 8/26/2006
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Posted: 7/6/2007 1:20:47 PM

I never went out with a Gemini man to my knowledge, it would be fun and there'd be alot of fireworks I'm sure.


Fireworks are an understatement.
 euromaverick

Joined: 1/1/2007
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Posted: 7/6/2007 6:07:40 PM
oups, my post is gone,I knew it might happen,it was kind of personal.What I did NOT intend ,is fishing for sympathy or make her look bad.But, what I DID intend to do is make a point to all TRUE GEMINI.

Which is, get a grip of the reality.And that is ,all your great qualities in the world,inner,outer, will mean very little,if the very basic, of human traits are lacking. Being nice, treat others,the way you wanted to be treated.
What do I mean by the "TRUE" gemini?The one who is actually proud of and flaunts her negative personality traits.We all know the list, if not, read through the tread,plenty listed,and admitted by gemini.

I have a feeling that, what people might think, and what is, is very different. At least from what I gathered.So,I add a few reality bites to some of the assumptions, well intended or not. Sagittarius personality clash, almost instant,irrevocable,unmistakable. which is very rare. If i don't care for people I just don't assocciate with them.The things I am writing about, is to put things in the right context.

So, I have to add a few things, that are very relavent in my particular case.How do I feel about IT? On the emotional level very mixed feelings.On the personal level it was invalueable.(it does not mean that I would do it again)It was also a humbling experience, and it is a hard pill to swallow especially for a SAG.But the buddhist side thinks, it helps people keep grounded,and keeps them from becoming too co-cky.
Why do I seem to take this so seriously?

Well let's see, My IQ is at the top one percent of the population,so is my analitical, reasoning, and logical faculties. AND I GOT ABSOLUTELY N O W H E R E. As soon as I understood the connection to GEMINI,Everything started to make perfect sense,from that particular logic and mind set. I am not exactly lost around women or hanging on to one, who would talk to me.

So,to actually get it,let some pictures do the talking,my last pof party pix that is.Just check my postings.
The real story is almost just like any other,two people meet online, and then in real life,
friendship is forming (there was nothing else, ever on the table) at a snail pace.(by my standards).Ups and downs, hilarious and serious, sometimes there was a glimmer of hope for things to become stable, when the "evil" twin shown up.

That one is the normal one just like anybody else,very distinct difference in language,attitude,and same or next day replies.But, she was usually in for a few days to, like a week.I knew the difference,and of course WTF just happened here. I only started to assocciate the whole thing to TWINS and the end, but never to GEMINI.
This the only time in my life,where nothing seemed to make any sense.I think that is a good enough reason, to look for answers,REAL ones.
 valeeshka

Joined: 7/16/2006
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Posted: 7/6/2007 10:39:01 PM
Where is a gagging emoticon when you need one^^^........ I read the post.. prior to deletion VERY low..
Euromaverik,... for someone who claims to be intelligent, you don't seem very psychologically aware... The way you are going about telling us how wonderful you are is actually blatently saying the opposite is true. Obviously you can't see this. It is flat out painfull to read. I feel embarassed for you. Please stop trying to prove your point.
We got the original intent. You don't want to date gemini women, you have had horrible experiences, and haven't gotten over it.


 valeeshka

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Posted: 7/6/2007 10:51:35 PM
I had a gemini boyfriend a long time ago. We lived together for years. I was young and had more exploration to do, he was quite a bit older. I wish I could see him again. We had dogs and cats, we gardened and played music, we hiked and did a lot of diving for lobsters and fish. We read a lot of spirituality books. He was a lot of fun we had some mind altering experiences. he was probably the most introspective, self aware man I have been with. He could fix anything and was meticulous about his teeth.

The tough thing about him was he literally gave the shirt off his back and then my back, other material items. I happened to want to keep the blender, shirt, car, etc,,,
25 years have passed now I would give the shirt off my back to see him again.
 indigoeyes

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Posted: 7/6/2007 11:13:52 PM

But the buddhist side thinks, it helps people keep grounded,and keeps them from becoming too co-cky.


You don't have a Buddhist side...you sure aren't grounded and you are definately to co-cky.

I'll tell you what...I will put you on my undateable list and then you will have one less Gemini to worry about.

Btw...I happen to know of two fellow fishies, one a Sag and one a Gemini and guess what they are madly in love and recently got engaged....there goes that theory.
 valeeshka

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Posted: 7/10/2007 12:54:39 AM
Something about buddist who brag?
 Phoebus2k7

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Posted: 7/10/2007 1:17:40 AM
SO ya from wut i know about Gemini ppl they tend to love being around ppl who are not holding them down...the usualy partners are :

Sag
Aquar
Gemini its self...

The more you allow the gemini to come and do as they want the better you will be with them. The moment any of the signs listed USUALLY..cause im only talking about the sun sign seeing there is much more to a person other then the SUN SIGN which is ur ego part of who u are......so usually once they feel ur taking away their freedom they are gone as quick as they had come into your life...dont threaten their freedom...sometimes they need to focused cause they seem to be all over the place which is fine. dont try and control or lock them down...k
later
 Hippiedude22

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Posted: 7/10/2007 2:33:50 PM
I have dated WAAAYYY too many Gemini's.And boy oh boy.I love them cuz they're ususally hyper and excentric; but they (Now I'm not sure if its the sign or just the fact they're women)are always thinking about everything under the sun.And often times is difficult to have a conversation cuz they're always cross examining things.Cuz I just go with the flow, they make their own flow.Don't think they are any more flirtatious than Scorpios...But find that they get bored wayy too easily....and because they are the sign of twins pretty much have dual personalities.Which can get kinda confusing.That's my opinion on the matter :)
 indigoeyes

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Posted: 7/10/2007 2:49:49 PM
Hippiedude...you are pretty accurate with your description. The only part I don't agree with is, I may ask questions, I don't see that as cross examining more like curious, at least for me.
 Phoebus2k7

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Posted: 7/10/2007 2:57:02 PM
Well asking alot of questions is part of the Gemini that is like a child..cause of alot of Geminis dont wanan grow up....they will forever be child at heart which is great..being adult is sometimes boring...anyways the questions is because the curious nature of Gemini and always wanting to know something about everything. most Geminis know alil about everything ...they are the jack of all trades....
 indigoeyes

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Posted: 7/10/2007 7:22:58 PM

Well asking alot of questions is part of the Gemini that is like a child..cause of alot of Geminis dont wanan grow up....they will forever be child at heart which is great..being adult is sometimes boring...anyways the questions is because the curious nature of Gemini and always wanting to know something about everything. most Geminis know alil about everything ...they are the jack of all trades....


This is very true for both myself and my daughter who is also a gemini.
 IHAVEAMIND

Joined: 3/5/2007
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Posted: 7/10/2007 10:52:00 PM
We are great...
We can do anything.. and have the balls to try anything....
men are never bored with us.. but few have the guts to actually find out about us... or understand us.... the reward is great if they do. ...but too many arent up for the challenge...
wonderful to see so many agree...
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