| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/1/2005 6:21:56 PM | I've got some great news!
I went out last night with that girl I told you guys about! I got to meet her mother and things went really well. So things are looking pretty good.
I haven't recieved any news about the Hawaii Job as of yet Sue. I know that I shouldn't base my externship off of a potential relationship, however this girl is so increadable. I didn't think that I would ever find anybody better than my ex. but when I was with this girl (Heather) I didn't even miss her anymore. I think I'm finally over her! | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/1/2005 10:23:59 PM | | no matter what the reason - love gone, brain damage, death, whatever - your lover will leave you eventually. enjoy what there is to enjoy at the time you are together. | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/3/2005 5:38:03 PM | | Alot of times we think we are in love with someone but actually we are in love with the idea of being in love if we step back and think about a broken relationship there is always some sign or statement made in the beginging that we chose to ignore or we think we can change their thinking always be true to yourself and think about why you are hurting over a broken relationship | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/6/2005 6:51:19 PM | Hey guys,
You know how I was telling you all about that girl I was going to hook up with? Well I kicked her to the curb. I found out that she's a player.  Oh well it doesn't matter because I'm planning a date with a girl from school for this Sunday. So we'll see what happens with that.
I hope everyone's doing well and I wish everybody an very Merry Christmas! | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/6/2005 8:02:35 PM | Chef..Sorry to hear that your last hook didn't work out but I am so happy that you saw through her "player" personality!!!  Good luck with the new lady! How was your audition??? Take care!! | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/6/2005 8:05:45 PM | Spud & Calender... very good posts, most importantly ... BE TRUE TO YOURSELF!! We so often forget ourselves until we are hurting and then the only feelings we have are that of pain. We must be happy with ourselves in order for anyone else to be happy with us.
Keep believing.... | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/12/2005 6:42:48 PM | Hey guys and gals,
Well I got ****ed over again. That girl from school that I was going to go out with, Stood me up ! So I called her, she answers, I say, "What happed?" "click!" Yeah the **** hung up on me!! So I left her a lovely little message on her cell phone saying, " You know, this is the second time you've done this to me so... **** YOU!!!" And yes I did yell that last part into the phone. So then she calls me a few minutes later saying that she didn't appreciate the message I left her and told me to **** off. So I guess this gives me a nother reason to leave Pennsylvania! I tell you the women out hear really suck!!! I can't wait to leave.
Well like my dad says, " If God were to give the world an enima, this is where he'd stick it!"
Sue, I haven't scheduled an audition with that band as of yet, I'm probably going to go check them out this week with some of my friends. | |
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Garf
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Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 458 | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/12/2005 7:09:47 PM | a question in your nerves is lit
yet you know there is no answer fit
to keep it in your mind and not forget
that it is not HE or SHE or THEM,or IT,
that you belong to
and I mean no harm
nor put fault
on anyone that lives in a vault
but its all right Ma,if I cant please them | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/13/2005 7:57:54 PM | Awww Chef... she just wasn't the right one for you... don't give up... There is someone out there somewhere just waiting for you.. and every time you experiance something like this last one you know more and more what you don't want... I'll have to agree with Garf... be careful!!! Hang in there... Any word on the externship in Hawaii?
Hey Garf... are things calming down for you... last we spoke you were in the midst of a posting delima? Good to see you all here... Stuk must be stuk on his new girl?
Hugs to you all....  | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/13/2005 8:46:29 PM | Offroadchef,
I think you are doing the right thing, Schedule time for yourself!
Don't force things, but take some control.
Good luck, Merry X-mas, Hang in there... | |
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Joined: 11/11/2005
Msg: 462 | |
| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/13/2005 9:53:09 PM | | Well mate! I do have something to say to you. I think that if you approach each new woman (on the site) suffering from a broken heart and you express your feelings about your ex the (new) women are definately going to be turned off! We all have suffered the same fate as you but telling the world will not help you meet someone new. If you want a womans advice I think you should not let on too much about your past relationships when meeting someone new. No woman wants a guy who is on the rebound and still picking up the pieces of his broken heart, they want someone who can give his all to the new relationship. Change your tactics and you will have more luck! Good luck in your search mate | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/14/2005 7:07:28 PM | Hey everybody,
Thanks for all of the support. It really means a lot to be.
Anyway, lots of good news. I told one of my administrators that I don't care how he does it, just get me to Hawaii, preferably to Honolulu, and do it now. So I think I have an excillent chance of going in January.
Plus, there's this new server at my job, she started about 2 or 3 weeks ago, and lately she's been flirting with me quite frequently, for example, today we were teasing each other for most of the night, and near the end of the night when I wasn't looking she gave me a friendy little kick in the butt. So I playfully wipper her with my towel. But I'm going to be really carefull with this one. If something good comes out of it, cool. If not, Oh well, I just made a new friend.
Jeniva, Your from Australia? Cool! I've been all over the world but I've never been to Australia, I've always wanted to go. Is it as beautiful as people say? Hopefully someday I'll have a chance to visit. | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/15/2005 1:01:22 PM | | Now thats a really educated statement there. Ignorance tends to do that as well as someone lacking attention I assume thats my subjective view not everyones for I cannot speak for everyone.....How did you learn to do that???? | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/17/2005 12:02:47 PM | Hey everybody,
I recieved some great news last night!!
I got a phone call from the Alan Wong's restaurant in Honolulu... I GOT MY EXTERNSHIP, I'M LEAVING IN THE MIDDLE OF JANUARY!!!!! 
I'M FINALLY GOING HOME!!!!! There's only 2 problems, 1. I have to sell my Jeep :( and 2. I have to find a place to live. Oh well, things will work out somehow.
Later guys! | |
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Garf
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Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 466 | |
| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/18/2005 10:53:45 AM |  Woohoo CHEF!
That's great news man. Now you can focus on finding a woman without the added stress that you had before, which is good because now you can enter a relationship with a clear head. Woohoo! | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/18/2005 11:28:07 AM | STUKONU,
That was one of the most beautiful thoughts put into words I have ever heard, because me and a lot of other people feel the same way. I know you must have spent a lot of time getting it right. I admire you for that. Around Xmas is hard with everyone in such good spirits when you are hurting, but it will pass. I honestly think trying to meet people here is very hard because when certain people read posts they mistake all kinds of words as signs of weakness, they look at pictures and if they are not perfect they don't reply.
I have met people on the streets and think about what they would look like in a picture and realize that I would be interesed in them by meeting them in person, but not from a picture.
Hopefully you live somewhere where there are women that you can meet. I live about 30 mi. from Daytona, Florida, in a little town.
Some people also look to others to make them happy. I think sometimes that if someone were truly in love with me I wouldn't be happy. I long to be with the man who while making love, we catch eyes and our souls are bared.
You have a beautiful heart, and all the best to you. | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/19/2005 8:03:02 PM |  ALOHA CHEF!!!!!!!
I always say everything happens for a reason, and that may be the one thing that kept you from a relationship working out. Like Garf Says now you can have a clear mind for your new job and new home, and meeting new people in a happy place. When the time is right the potential Ms Rights will be present. Congratulations...
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/29/2005 6:49:50 PM | Hey Guys!
I hope everyone had a great Christmas! I kind of got into a little bit of trouble (surprise surprise!!) I made leg of lamb for Christmas dinner, guess what my mother said. "Wow!! You make it better than I do!! Ok, you're incharge of cooking lamb from now on.
Oi Vey, I tell you the things I get into! Oh well, such is life. 
Oh yeah, My Aunt call the day after Christmas and said that I can live with her and my Uncle until I find my own place! Finally, after all the heart breaks and CRAP I've had to go through, things are finally going my way for once!
I hope everyone has an awesome ROCKIN' New Year!!    | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/31/2005 9:54:19 PM | I feel terrible!... Mixed up ... emotional, confused, desperate ... that old “guts-in-a-blender” feeling. Life did it to me again.... Love did it to me again ... but worse ... I did it to me again! Can any butt hurt more than your own when you fall on it?...
Man, I think we can all empathize! Ain't that what PoF is all about?
Steve | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 12/31/2005 10:35:43 PM | The only thing i can say about getting hurt is i know how u feel and it hurts. I also want to say that be 100% honest in your profile and i am not saying you are, but dont be picky. Take chances with girls that u may think they are not ur type. Sometimes thats how it works. Sometimes u find things where u least expect them....
keep your head up
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 1/1/2006 3:20:10 PM | Wolf-Steve... Its a feeling long remembered, never welcomed but one we must all have been through at least once. Nothing can take it away, time is its only cure. Yes after time we climb right back up the saddle hoping not to fall on our butts again...
Hang in there and know that it will get better over time. Each time we experiance love and loss of love we grow, we become stronger and wiser.. its the journey to the happily ever after we are seeking, sometimes a bumpy path but always worthwhile.
HAPPY NEW YEAR to all my POF buddies, Garf, Kat, Chef, Stuk....everyone~ | |
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| I thought I found love and ended up with pain.
Posted: 1/1/2006 3:29:47 PM | Thanks Sue....
Feeling a little blue ... but I know I'm not alone. Friends on PoF remind us of that. Doesn't matter if it's the uncertainty of limbo, or the finality of goodbye, it's those questions we have to ask ourselves that give the harshest truths. We'll get through it ... because tomorrow's going to come whether we're in it or now....
Steve | |
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