| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:23:56 PM |
here money is the most inportened thing a women looks for
inportened??? Something must have you excited.
Personally I do not believe that women look for money when they are searching for a companion, husband, mate or whatever you choose to call it. NOW they are looking for security but that's a far different thing than having more money than Bill Gates. Not only women search for this but men do to.
There are those that will date others just to get money or cars or property in order to have their financial future secured rather quickly but I don't blame them for that personally because if not for the sugar daddies and sugar momma's this source of income would not exist. For those that choose to go this route then I say best of luck to you. Who am I to judge? I sure hope those I may judge do not open my closet door to critique all the skeletons I have so far in life.
We ALL want to be secure in our lives. Such security includes but is not limited to love, feeling respected, knowing they have a place to lay their heads, food on the table, the bills paid etc etc etc. Yes indeed this all takes money but you do not have to be a millionaire to have this security and wanting this does not make one a person that is out after others cash.
If your all that worried about how much you have financially then you are a very shallow person and are actually not as wealthy as you think you are. Those people that worry about such things are going to die a lonely life in some nursing home most likely. Lets see all that cash care for you when your bed ridden and can't even hold your own miserable little schlong so you can pee. | |
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 9/23/2008 5:42:58 PM | Some people will blame anything just because they don't get what they want. Instead, spend time refining yourself and doing things that will improve you, make you a happy, fulfilled person. Then that will attract others in your life that might work out. But you cant expect much in life when all you do is whine and blame others and other things for what you don't get! Hell, don't expect anything period. It is a waste of time, emotion, and energy.
Stop blaming women for YOUR issues. IF what you said was true, there would be NO poor married men! Your comment is slippery slope thinking and silly.
If women are looking for a guy who is secure, who can blame them? I am debt free and hope to keep it that way. So would I want to tie up with a guy who I would have to support or one who is smothered in debt? I don't think so. I hear men all the time on profiles state they aren't here to support a woman and/or her kids and like comments. Now, I'm NOT wealthy, but CAN live on my own. So money is a consideration for me, but now all I consider. I have many more issues I would put forth before I would date someone.
I don't waste my time looking for a man anymore. I am living life and enjoying it. IF a guy who I feel is my equal, (and I don't say that conceitedly.) and we match up, so be it. If not, so be it. I have LOTS to do in life besides look for a mate, and whine if I don't immediately get one. Hell, been 6 years since the divorce... guess immediate isn't happening, he he.
Move on, LIVE LIFE, try new things, meet new people, challenge yourself out of the box you are in.....Most of all, stop whining.. NO ONE likes a whiner.. not even a whiner! 
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 9/26/2008 11:47:27 AM | | LOL you guys got it ALL WRONG!!!!!!! Its not about Money it's about CREDIT!!!! DUGH.. And NO that doesn't mean Credit Cards. It' s means being able to ask your bank for 22,000.00 in cash and getting it. | |
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 9/26/2008 9:51:05 PM |
LOL you guys got it ALL WRONG!!!!!!! Its not about Money it's about CREDIT!!!! DUGH.. And NO that doesn't mean Credit Cards. It' s means being able to ask your bank for 22,000.00 in cash and getting it.
Sarcasim... I like that! 
Yes it's all about that "great job" more than likely in the health care field that will be there indefinately for you sound & secure that gives you that borrowing power!
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 9/27/2008 5:01:54 AM | countrytat
[/DAMN!!!!!! Dont you GUYS understand that a woman wants a caring guy who will be there for her, love her, make her laugh, cry with her, someone who will do the little things! massages, little "thinking of you note".......... and guess what guys.....NO OF THESE THINGS COST MONEY!!!!!!!!! i want a man not his friggen wallet!!!]
True that.
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 9/28/2008 6:51:52 AM | From browsing the forums, those on here that do not have money, or claim to not have money whine about it all the time. Whoa is them. They are put upon by job downsizing, economic times, the area they live in, Blah Blah Blah! Maybe if they tried the helping hand at the end of their own damn arm first they might have more than they think.
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 10/2/2008 8:03:02 PM | To whom it may concern:
I gave up on certain certain aspects of this site and the forum discussions a very long time ago.
Crybabies.
Can't stand 'em.
If the point is not taken, they are stupid.
Didn't say they had to agree with me, all I said was they are stupid.
At least to me and that's all that matters really.
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 10/3/2008 9:14:38 AM | So, I take it you are calling me a crybaby & stupid then?
If you gave up, why are you still here?  
Speaking of money & in light of what has been going on in the country these past few weeks...
As I drive by the "Mc Mansions" a few miles a way from my house I can only wonder what posseses one to build something that big, let alone buy it.... if their "great jobs" were gone many of these folks wouldn't have a pot to piss in let alone a window to throw it out of. They went ' Carte Blanche' with loans to to buy a lot of shit they didn't need, let alone the evil monthlies cell phones, Cable, DSL... ect ect.... only being 2 weeks away from bankruptcy.... living on the edge like this seems somehow fun to many of you.
Ladies, if this is what you want, by all means go for it!
Me, I'll be the stupid one if I choose not to live beyond my means.
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 10/3/2008 9:34:59 AM | Well I do have to admit DF I can't live without satelite tv anymore. Grew up with those 3 channels and having to climb the tower to spin the antena after wind storms, won't do that again!
I still live with dial up since there is no cable and to go with satelite its more like $550 up front not worth the expense.
Even though I am not looking for a man with money.... it does help if he drives something that the windshield is not so cracked you can't see out of it and it doesn't overheat to where you have to stop every few miles to put water in the radiator! I have found men with money don't understand the reason behind living in the country on an old chip and tar road in a trailer. But its home to me! | |
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 10/3/2008 10:46:10 AM | hmmm, thinking outloud here again ..... just because someone has a good job and bigger newer stuff it appears that some may be bitter or jealous. And jumping to the conclusion that people who have good jobs and money and lots of stuff live beyond their means is a bit well .... bitterly judgemental and very small minded.
I live on a gravel road in a 100+ year old farm house.
I drive a truck.
I don't own a TV, haven't for years.
Analog phone lines out here. No digital for miles.
But I do like money *and if you say you could care less about it, well then send yours to me ASAP ... and the things it affords me when I want them, be it a sandwich from the dollar menu or a new pair of harley boots and I make sure to get off my a$$ myself and go get that money instead of whining about it. | |
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 10/3/2008 11:17:06 AM | just because someone has a good job and bigger newer stuff it appears that some may be bitter or jealous. And jumping to the conclusion that people who have good jobs and money and lots of stuff live beyond their means is a bit well .... bitterly judgemental and very small minded.
But most of them do dear... that's why the execs on Wall street are being given a golden handshake (courtesy of all of us) instead of a jail cell... yes it's great to live off of someone elses money. Us fools that are buying into this, I don't understand either, I'm enraged.
A few years back, A former Co-worker (back from the days when I had a better job) came into where I worked to develop some film, told me there was going to be a 20% RIF within a few days at my former employer, he said he was quite nervous & didn't know how he was going to live. As I developed his film, I noticed the Lincoln Navigator, & Lexus SUV, house with 3 car garage, kids wearing the finest designer clothes talking on their cells (how cute) .... everything picture perfect.
Woah, 5 years prior I was his equal (He still held the same or similar position that I had), I thought I could or should be (or have been) living like that??
My point, Cut Back & pair down before whining, I did.
*and if you say you could care less about it, well then send yours to me ASAP ... and the things it affords me when I want them, be it a sandwich from the dollar menu or a new pair of harley boots and I make sure to get off my a$$ myself and go get that money instead of whining about it.
Pray tell how will you get it?? Excess work, steal it, find a man with it?
There's that 'H' word again!  | |
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 10/3/2008 11:25:47 AM | Well I do have to admit DF I can't live without satelite tv anymore. Grew up with those 3 channels and having to climb the tower to spin the antena after wind storms, won't do that again!
Ah DSL you are spoiled!
Even though I am not looking for a man with money.... it does help if he drives something that the windshield is not so cracked you can't see out of it and it doesn't overheat to where you have to stop every few miles to put water in the radiator! I have found men with money don't understand the reason behind living in the country on an old chip and tar road in a trailer. But its home to me!
Sounds like my Vehicles.... but then I don't worry all too much if someone deliberately dumps a pepsi on it, hit skips it in a parking lot... ect. People are real assholes when it comes to destroying anothers property, I haven't stooped that low myself.
DSL even when I was well off I didn't believe in excess, & lived well below my means, something told me all this would happen with the economy, & I'd get the shit end of the stick, & I turned out to be right. ... but I'm better off taking the route I took, & wasn't mislead by others talking me in to something I could barely afford at the time just to impress others... others... who??? I haven't had anyone over in years!
Now I'd admire a woman that drives an old beater, & admire her even more if she actually knew how to work on it.  | |
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 10/4/2008 9:28:56 AM | Going back to the op I don't think women love money more than anything. Judging from some of the women I talk to it seems that if that was their main interest then they would'nt have hooked up with so many deadbeats. And I have seen more than my share of ladies who have done exactly that.
Women and men are only human. I think both genders only want to be happy in this world. Maybe having money makes a man more attractive to a woman? I sure bet it does'nt hurt and if I were a woman that may influence my choice in men. But, to say that is all there in in finding a partner seems restrictive to say the least. Unless of course you're a lady who is in love with money and are seeking a rich guy.
If you are that type of gal then good luck, I think you're on the wrong dating site... | |
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 2/15/2009 11:47:29 AM | Well I agree with you Shinxy. Some of us are looking for the simple things in life. Money isn't everything. Give me an man who works hard everyday, knows how to treat a woman and can be faithful and I will be happy. But I have yet to meet anyone that meets these requirements. Guess I will keep fishing.
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 5/23/2009 11:10:57 PM | | HowBadDoUWantIt SO NOW AND ONLY NOW AM I LOOKING FOR THE OPPOSITE A MAN WITH $$$ TO TAKE THAT PAIN I FEEL FROM #$%^& &*^ (*^^$%# AWAY. NOTHING CURES PAIN AND HEART ACHE LIKE COLD HARD CASH MY FRIEND!! NOT ALL WOMEN ARE IN IT FOR $$$ JUST LIKE NOT ALL MEN ARE IN IT FOR SEX!!!! thats a good attitude, and you relize your still here and still looking right? I'm sure once a man reads this little bit of your true inner being he'll be chomping at the bit to get with you! lol Grow up! you made a bad choice, deal with it and in a differant way than preying on others for thier money and generosity and get over it! I hope your friends read your little shpeel, that will make you look good at your social events. | |
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 6/17/2009 1:26:54 AM | | i know the feeling totally ,this economy has hit me hard too and the same with women in the dating scene.my fiancee left me because income went downhill,and she might not have been able to stay as a stay at home wife for a while ,so she looked elsewhere and im a single dad as well,and that hurts to have women come and go not just out of your life for reasons like that but out of your kid's | |
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| well looks like women do love money more then anything
Posted: 6/17/2009 3:31:43 AM | Not much can be written to take away your pain. Only know that you avoided a marriage that may have dissolved quickly, you did avoid that pain. Perhaps you got a break and life will be better for you and your child.
Best of luck. remember to live again, hold your head high, be a dad, be an individual and live a good life. | |
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