| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/30/2008 11:10:46 AM |
Right on john. There is only one thing wrong with this john. If you were on 8 mile rd. and girls are standing on a street corner giving blowjobs for $20.00. What would you call them. Hmmmm. I don't like to use the word slut, but sometimes if the shoe fits. I had jobs were women would blow there foremens at lunch time. What are they. Just hungry i guess So this word (SLUT) can be looked at many ways. When i got married my first time ages ago. We had sex 4 or 5 times a week any place anytime. She wasn't a slut. We were a happy couple in love. If i would see her with another guy now not doing anything. I think i would use that word (slut). That would be a little out of context, but never the less it would pop up in my head. Oh by the way. If a woman sleeps around with alot of guys they call her a slut. If a guy sleeps around with alot of women he is a stud. So it's not fair to the women of the world to get that rap.......sorry ladies.
Again subjective. Furthermore, That's prostitution, so the proper derogatory noun would be "Whore".
As to your second part of your post about blowing foremen, If that is true, unless you got a blowjob yourself, is it even any of your business? It is their lunchbreak after all, as long as they're not late for work, So? | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/30/2008 12:03:13 PM | Well i would say it was my business at the time. Cause them sluts were coming back late getting away with alot more then anyone else. I wasn't looking for a fight john. I did agree with you. Just had to mention a few senarios. That's all. Take the gloves off and relax. Have a  , it's not life or death. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/30/2008 12:17:11 PM | I highly doubt they were "blowing their foremens at lunch". I am sure that was a juicy piece of gossip tossed around the work place because the "womens" wouldn't blow you.
Men are worse gossipers than women.
Oh. I used to work at this place where the men gave blow jobs to their foremens. Those men were total sluts. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/30/2008 12:25:58 PM | | I met a guy on here a few months ago who kept calling me a whore and a slut and stuff. It actually made me physically ill thanks for posting this I feel a little better that im not the olny one on here that is open about that topic | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/30/2008 12:34:23 PM | sunnyday-don't let anyone on here(or any where for that matter) affect the way you feel about yourself, unless it is in a positive way.
Talking about sex and sexual matters does not make one a slut. It is an interesting topic, and for those who don't care to discuss it, then don't. There are plenty of other forum topics to interest you. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/30/2008 1:05:24 PM | (quote) with all due respect bigadventure i disagree. i think that there is a standard for how "good" girls conduct themselves vs. how less scrupulous girls conduct themselves. obviously i don't think that a woman should go around wearing all black and a bur'qa the way i do. this simply isn't appropriate for most women in our society, and understandably so. i do believe however that there are certain standards of decency that women should uphold. i'm not saying that every woman who sexualized herself by flashing cleavage and being blatantly sexual with men is a wh@@e, but i definitely think that it sends men a bad signal. even if she is not a wh@@e, this is one of those ,matters where if it walks like a duck, and it quacks like a duck........you know where i'm going with this. men looking to settle down will not settle down most times with a woman who behaves this way. on the other hand, men who want a cheap roll in the sack and nothing more will target these kind of women. ladies get back what they send out. the femenist movement has taught women in this country that loose behavior is a way for women to empower and express themeselves and the tragic thing is that so many women have bought into this. girls don't need to behave like women of ill repute to get a man's attention, unless they're looking for the wrong kind of attention
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Women call other women sluts more than men do.While I appreciate the beliefs of HRH queen B above and indeed they are good ones, I do not agree with all of them. I am open minded and have no problem discussing sexual matters.I don't know what being blatantly sexual means , I would only be so with someone I was deeply interested in.I would not flash the flesh on a profile, but I don't judge those who do. If you got it, flaunt it.I have found most men on here, lonely and looking for Miss right.I am very upfront about sexual things and have never encountered a man , who thought badly of me because of it.In fact most have wanted serious relationships with me and not the solely sexual kind either.All the men who contacted me were serious, decent men.I would never be crude or vulgar or send nude pics--I find such things debasing.But there is no doubt I am a sexual woman . I think men appreciate a strong, sexual, intelligent woman and if they don't, mores the pity.I will never change who I am and those who call women sluts should forget the labeling of others and look in the mirror at themselves. Peoples sex lives are their own business.If only people got as het up about violence as they do about sex. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/30/2008 2:18:49 PM | You can do whatever you want its a free country. To me a slut is someone that sleeps around. A tease is someone that likes attention and tries to get men to think that they will sleep with them but they never will.
But thats you. Many women in todays world are slutty. They get tats and other things to be equal to men and they are now almost as bad as men.
And I dont really listen to anyone that much that says they are so smart. Have you ever seen anyone post,"I'm not very bright". never got that one. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/30/2008 2:44:23 PM | [/ But thats you. Many women in todays world are slutty. They get tats and other things to be equal to men and they are now almost as bad as men. ]
Tats=slut to you??!! Where is your time machine-go back to the 50's!
Women have been getting tats for ages now. Back in the 80's I had a patient in a nursing home who was in her 80's who had a tat. She said that was the thing to do in her group of friends back in the 1920's. They all got their initial tatooed on their shoulder. She was hardly a slut. A crazy woman, yes, but slut no. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/30/2008 4:09:46 PM |
If 2 adults enjoy sex together, go for it. It is a great stress reliever and good exercise. People that ain't getting any will be the ones calling them sluts . We are adults and know what we are getting into before we start.
Excellent point. And we don't need those negative people ranting and raving trying to shove their beliefs down our throats. They're wasting their time.
If someone has been married to someone and they have sex everyday. Should they be sluts. No, they would be a happy couple. So, why not be a happy couple without the ring.
Actually they might be HAPPIER without the ring. Look at the profiles of those who rant and rave against promiscuity and you'll notice most of them are divorced..........
.......that's why I always LMAO when they preach their gospel of chastity to the "promiscuous, whoring sinners"..........  | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/30/2008 6:52:30 PM | ..i luv these women that show half or more of thier breasts and then use the old" must not have e-mailed an intimate encounter" such a double standard!
i think the term slut is horriable, being sexual,open minded,playful..isn't this something men look for? i do! sadly no one wants to hear the truth! | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/30/2008 7:11:50 PM |
Mike do you really think we show off our "goods" for other women????? Of course we , or should I say I don't care if you look. In fact I get a kick out of catching you look.
When you have em as big as I do, I seem to show cleavage in a turtleneck! | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/31/2008 6:30:18 AM | | Why do so many feel the need to judge others.I find it hard enough, to keep an eye on myself.Having tatoos does not make a girl a slut, thats ridiculous.Sleeping around may be unhealthy but for every woman that sleeps around you have a corresponding male partner.So we have sluts per-se and man -ho.s. Same difference.If someone wants to show their cleavage and its a good un, flaunt it. I could not care less and if the guys want to show their sixpack bring it on.Much ado about nothing.Keep your own house and business in order and keep your nose out of everyone else's thats my motto.But then I am not very bright. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/31/2008 9:21:27 AM | Wow. very well said for your age. Don't cut yourself short. You seem very bright to me. What you said about people taking care of there home and business in order. I like that. If a woman wants tatoo's or pierces her lips or nipples belly button, it is her business. We don't have to like it, cause it shouldn't be our business. It may cut back on some of the guys she meets, but then it may bring her more that do like it. People shouldn't judge a book by it's cover. Find out what is on the inside of the heart and head.  Some women like the attention and have the looks and body to do that. I am a man and i slept with alot of women. I probably would be concidered a male whore. But in every situation i dated the women for awhile after having sex with them til it didn't work out. I am not a one night stand type person. If a woman gives up her body to me, she deserves every chance in the book to make it work. So my point is if you look and act like a so called (slut) doesn't mean you are one. (What ever they really are). So happy fishing  | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/31/2008 9:22:14 AM | No no no no. If you're a self confident, sexually liberated and self assured lady who knows her own mind, makes her own decisions, and chases her own dreams, and refuses to let others decide these things for you based n their own warped or antiquated morals, then it just means that you DO NOT LIVE IN THE BIBLE BELT (Kansas to be specific)! AARRGGHHH!
Why did I ever move back from Canada, tse tse tse. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/31/2008 9:26:06 AM | | OP: No, it does not make you a slut. However, I guess the way some "display" themselves (leaves little to the imagination) is probably going to capture the wrong attention. As a result, most will make their own judgement on their person. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/31/2008 9:30:39 AM | To be honest, the only women i'd ever even consider calling a slut, wouldn't be the promiscuous or sexually open women.
it'd be the women that use sex as a manipulative tool over men. Like a woman who dangles sex over her boyfriend's face to get what she wants; or a woman who sleeps with her boss in hopes of a promotion. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/31/2008 9:48:51 AM | mthomjmark: "Many women in todays world are slutty. They get tats and other things to be equal to men and they are now almost as bad as men."
You've got to be kidding me?! I have never heard such a preposterous thought.
If a woman chooses to get a tattoo(s) surely she is not seeking "equality" with the male population. lol
You know, I have seen many of your posts, and you do not think very highly (sound very bitter/negative) of women. I wonder why?
P.S. I do not have tattoos nor do I care for them on my body, but I also do not judge those who like this form of art. To each his/her own............. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/31/2008 9:53:59 AM | | sex is something that takes place behind closed doors. therefore, you have no idea how many partners the other has had. you only know how they are presenting themselves. 2nd point, if someone is having no problem controlling themseves sexually, it could be because they have a weak sex drive. is that what you want in your life on a permanent basis. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/31/2008 9:58:46 AM | Sabrusura:
Just do what I do, and skip over his male chauvinist posts! I think women with tattoos are sexy (depending on the tattoo and the placement) and women have the right to do with their bodies anything they want ... and they aren't considered sluts either! | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/31/2008 10:46:42 AM | OP.....I could NOT agree with you more....however seeing that women such as ourselves are far and few between that when we do find someone that interests us and we begin to drift out of the "SAFE" zone most will assume us EASY!
There are a few select individuals that know me and know me as a real person and it is those people that I chose to associate with and not those who pass judgement based solely on the fact that I am able to carry a conversation outside of the norm....which most times they are not capable of handling....:)
Wishing You Enough,.............................. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 7/31/2008 11:32:11 AM |
I don't think I've ever used the word "slut" to discribe a woman... Unless the word "drunken" preceded it. Even then, I just thought it.
I don't use the word for women either ... just for myself!!!! | |
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