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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 9/6/2008 1:24:43 PM | | Miss grapevine...I just read your comment on "Being open sexualy does not make you a SLUT" and I have to say that an evening gown would be perfect for you...you are one classy lady and I agree with you. You are right all the way. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 9/26/2008 2:07:47 PM | | Slut is a word that has no meaning to me because it can be used by anyone to describe someone else. But, the definition means different things to different people. People use this word to try and control the behavior of women. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 9/27/2008 4:57:35 AM | Being open sexually does not make you a slut?
HAHA Wrong...
Have you read other posts by certain members of POF...
Everyone is immoral, especially those who have had pre-martital sex and thoughts of anal sex...
Don't kid yourself...so many people here are going to tell you that you are so wrong...
But you know...f*ck em...
Hooray for sexuality!
(I also managed to flash me some religious nuts who were standing outside of Walmart last night holding signs directed into traffic.)
Don't push your sh*t on me and I won't send you to hell for seeing my tits! | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 10/29/2008 8:33:42 PM | | I'm very open when it comes to talking about sex, having sex.. if i click with someone, then i get comfortable real fast.. there is nothing i wouldn't explore. that doesnt make you a slut. i love sex and lots of it, but you're right, you don't get respect from most. i dont really care though. i do my thing. one day i will rock someone's world.\!! | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/7/2008 4:52:12 PM | if you look like a slut and talk like a slut, don't be suprised if you are treated like a slut.
if you want to be treated with respect, put up pictures with some of your skin covered, and don't put up stories about casual sex with strangers, because people that read that stuff might think it's true and want to have a go.
hardly their fault for thinking you were being truthfull. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/7/2008 8:28:02 PM |
If a man seriously thinks that just because I love to flash a little cleavage
All I would think is that you are a distasteful attention whore.
What other reason is there to flash cleavage other than to garner sexual attention? There is none.
You like the attention.
even if you decide to sleep with a different man each week, that does not make you a slut
Uh. Yes it does, by definition. If you garden every day, you are a GARDENER whether you accept it or not. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/7/2008 8:34:49 PM | | Well, I have a pic of my tattoo on my back for one of my pics.............I am by far not a slut. I like to play in the sex and dating forums, but don't give away all of my details or secrets. Some things are meant for behind closed doors type of conversations. I think "some" women use sexuality as a way to get attention instead of the amazing women that they are. I am very sexual and have my freaky side, but the only one going to see that or here about it is the person I am with. Sexually does not mean slutty...........but some really blur the lines with pics and words. JMO | |
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Shri_1
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Joined: 10/29/2008
Msg: 189 | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/8/2008 8:22:42 PM | Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT in my eyes. Then again that depends on how often your legs are open. Like how many different partners you have in a month say. If you have 1 or 2 your probably not a slut. If you have 10 or 20, that probably would make you a slut. I don't mind when the woman i am with dresses like that or takes that slutty attitude into the bedroom, but i don't want her flaunting her breasts and a** to attract other mens attention. That is just rude. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/9/2008 5:24:29 AM |
All I would think is that you are a distasteful attention whore. What other reason is there to flash cleavage other than to garner sexual attention? There is none. You like the attention
So, a mom of 4 at the beach whose cleavage may show a little because that is how 99.9 % of all bathing suits are made is a whore?
So, a model walking down the runway wearing a top designers dress w/ her breasts/cleavage exposed a little is a whore?
I have fairly large breasts and spent years sewing the neck line of almost every single shirt I bought in order to try to hide my cleavage as best I could. I gave up on that after I ruined a few by my less than adequate seamstress abilities. Now I just wear a chemise but sometimes I don't...so that would make me a an attention seeking whore if I bent over to pick up a piece of paper and my cleavage showed?
We women have every right to wear what we want without it warranting judgments, especially if our actions are not seeking attention!!
Please, allow your brain to graduate from the 9th grade and get over it!!!! | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/9/2008 6:13:56 AM | You are lying to yourself about where you are at! A woman who is comfortable with her sexuality and has a positive sense of self-esteem doesn't have to engage in provocative and immature behaviour like showing her cleavage to a man (unless she is involved with him emotionally and they have an ongoing relationship). You need to do some therapeutic work on your self-esteem and self-image and relationships with men.
Judith | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/9/2008 6:21:00 AM |
A woman who is comfortable with her sexuality and has a positive sense of self-esteem doesn't have to engage in provocative and immature behaviour
My philosophy has always been, if you've got it, you don't need to flaunt it. I truly believe that it is the fire underneath that is most powerful and intense, not the one that's burning brightest. A truly sexual person doesn't need to, and generally has no desire to, be flagrant about it to the world at large. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/17/2008 6:05:09 PM | depends how open u r .........do u sleep with everyone you meet if so yes you are a slut ....you give nice weman a bad name shame on you....... don't tell your mother she raised a slut....so what do they call a male that sleeps with everyone he meets ... a stud???? hmm interesting subject... | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/17/2008 6:24:40 PM | I guess that means i am not a stud. I don't sleep with everyone i meet. I want some feelings between me and my partner. I don't sleep with her on a first date unless she wants it to happen. That doesn't make her a slut either if it's been weeks or months since she slept with a man. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/17/2008 6:57:20 PM | At this late date in my life . I could give a rat's red a** what anyone thinks or believes . Unless you slam doors with me or pay the bills take it from a very wise woman who sang these words
" If I should take a notion to jump into the ocean"
" Ain't nobody's business if I do !" | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/18/2008 8:21:29 AM | Exactly-after you're 18, why not find out what makes ya tick? It's sad that folks deny themselves all in the name of certain mores and such....it's between you and your lover, not the local cops and politicians....now, feel free to release me from these restraints!!   | |
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jayb2b
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Joined: 9/29/2007
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/18/2008 8:30:00 AM | wow to the authour i think u might be a freak but u are using your ego defence mechanism called denial to compensate for your exessive open sexuality, u know and i know uve been in alot of 3 sums so lets just end the thread and have another one | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/18/2008 9:26:22 AM | Personally, if I'm the occasion of a scantily clad woman I'm rarely ever impressed.
It suggests to me that she lacks a sexual imagination and is displaying her self perceived' better qualities' in an effort to make up for being a mindless, dotty little mare instead.
I find it desperate and boring. I'll lose respect for a woman instantly if she plays the 'look at my tits' game.
Elegance, that is sexy.
However, I can understand the appeal and if you've got it, well by all means flaunt it.
I just dont subscribe to it. | |
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| Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT
Posted: 11/18/2008 9:29:28 AM | As far as the picture thing and being open about it. I don't think it makes a person a slut. Now if they always act out what there talking about that may be a diffrent story lol  | |
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