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| I have a real predicament on my hands
Posted: 8/7/2008 2:47:52 PM | Basically, you've already made it clear to yourself in the original post that you want to confront her about it. So, that isn't really a question. Depending on how your cousin is, he'll either understand and let her go if he knows you're interested or get mad that you're trying to impose on his lifestyle. You know your cousin well enough; I'm sure you'll use the right judgment.
And, I wish I had a guy around like you. Too many times, girls get sweet-talked into thinking he's interested when he's really not. I've fallen for it before and its a big blow to your self-esteem. It would be nice to get a heads up on some guys. I don't think she'll think you're the jealous type either. Just tactfully tell her his track record and she'll probably reconsider. Thanks for trying to do the right thing. | |
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| I have a real predicament on my hands
Posted: 8/7/2008 7:29:59 PM | You have obviously thought about this long and hard and long it's eating away at you. So, whatever the circumstances, or facts, do what in your heart you believe is morally correct. Tell her the truth as you know it. Tell her you've been wanting to date her for such a long time, etc etc etc.
Yes, you have a personal stake in her not dating the others, because you want to date her. But really... if you don't speak up and she gets hurt, and months from now you two start dating... how could you face her and say, Yes I knew they were screwing you around the whole time but you weren't important enough/your feelings or heart didn't matter enough for me to take any action?
Take the action. If the dude has a problem with it, screw him (not literally). She obviously isn't that special to him. But I would watch out for a mans ego thing to happen and I could see him 'suddenly' taking some sort of interest, - OR - he may just say go for it... | |
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