| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/11/2005 8:05:37 PM | anybody ever just want to vanish into the nothingness?
i remember feeling like that once.. in a very, very dark time of my life. CDA, i'm sorry that someone as young as you are is feeling that way. no one else can pull you out of that misery but yourself. and it's something you may want to do before seeking another relationship.
there's a book i recommend to people who are 'in the basement' of their life. it's called "In the Meantime" by Iyanla Vanzant. know her life story, read her book, and you too can be living on the 3rd floor instead of the basement. the choice is yours.
best wishes.
edit: very well said Ethan Burke | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/11/2005 8:21:47 PM | http://www.the-scorpions.com/english/discography/records/unbreakable.htm#3._Deep_And_Dark_
copy and paste that,from the new scorpions cd,one of the best songs on there,don't know any of have heard of the scorpions but that song is like my theme song at the momment,i would copy and paste it but they won't let you,also on alighter side read the lyrics to http://www.the-scorpions.com/english/discography/records/
and look for the first song called "walking on the..."
anyhow,does thie lady with a book have a website | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/11/2005 9:43:40 PM | ok, i will go and look tomorrow when i get home from the Rick Hansen run... and yes, she does have a website:
http://authors.aalbc.com/iyanla.htm | |
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| ifuwish2 re. community
Posted: 6/11/2005 11:59:07 PM | | I hope you are not just limiting yourself to meeting women on line. It's really important to get out there and meet people... through hobbies, through community interests, etc... there are social clubs for singles and all kinds of places where you might meet a great woman. Just call your local YMCA or community services to get more information about what there is in your area. And good luck, eh! | |
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| ifuwish2 re. community
Posted: 6/12/2005 7:28:44 AM | ^^^ good advice writer chick!!
cda... here's another website where you can read about her life...
http://www.lifechallenges.org/door/VanzantI.html | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 10:02:30 AM |
It's not that bad to be alone. Sounds like you need to discover yourself and learn to love yourself. What better friend you have then yourself.
What great advice... You need to love yourself first and foremost
before anyone else can love you. | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 10:11:56 AM | | all of these crappy posts and still it doesnt make one bit of difference.........your still alone. honestly dude, this is the worst place to find a date. | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 12:58:26 PM | | Time i have to WASTE, LIFE is a waste too. The kids told me to go for a drive today and they would clean the house.I went for a sunday drive(ALONE :-( of course) It was so lonely i had to go back but the kids are the best, but everyone is right, life sucks but what can u do, You play the cards you are played,A shitty hand can only bluff so long, then life calls you and reality hits home. No LOVE, I sleep ALONE !!! | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 1:09:11 PM |
what are any of us doing here?
oh yeah wasting thier time
I don't think so... We are still all here making friends.  | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 4:33:32 PM | | I hear you. I'm in the EXACT same boat as you. Mirror image. Why does this happen? Hang in there. Your kids need you. I know it's hard, I know it can make you angry and I know it means lonley nights at home while the rest of the world partys and laughs. Just hang in there, I didn't know that I wasn't alone!! | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 4:54:33 PM | I feel your pain...the following is something I wrote and I think it clearly reflects how I felt and am feeling...
Thoughts
It is late at night and in it's silent darkness I find myself once again...as I do all too often...overwhelmed by thoughts . The ones that can sometimes leave you feeling the most empty. . .
The thought of feeling the warmth of an embrace, the gentleness of a hand holding mine , fingers entwined. Just knowing that you have your best friend, there beside you who loves and excepts you completely for the person you are...
The thought of waking up in the morning to a new day, new adventures with the one person who makes it all worth while.
As I close my eyes tighter in an effort to stop my thoughts from consuming me I feel the warm sting of my tears rolling slowly, silently down my cheeks...thoughts...only thoughts... | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 5:11:13 PM | Well; James; If you were talking to me; I am better, than I sounded;
I am thinking about things that don't seem to get better; But; You see, I am alive;
I don't wonder far from life; But; I do think I will be alone ALL my life;
I do believe there is someone out there; I haven't found her; And it seems that I NEVER will; But I'm hoping; I do keep my chin up; BUT; It's hard to HEAR that stuff all the time;
And with that thought---I'll say good bye; | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 5:22:15 PM | | it's all bs people,just like this astrology that people believe in ,astrology is for people who can't take responsibility for thier life and need stars that are light years from here and planets that are also light years from here,to determine the course of thier life......get with it people,we're meant to be alone....or you could choose a rude ass person like the people from this website and be happy with that | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 6:08:53 PM | You don't cry alone. Others cry with you, you just don't see them. They are in their bedrooms, at their computers, their desks, their decks, their front porches, their cars, hiding behind the big oak tree in the yard. People cry all over the place. You aren't alone. And I am a single mother of 2 little twin girls with twenty bucks in my pocket as I write this post tonight and I am running from an ex boyfriend who wants to bash my head in. I have hardened my heart and turned my back on love over and over and over to people that I know I could love and be with forever but I am always looking over my shoulder.
But don't ever say that you cry alone, baby. I cry with you. Think of me when you cry and know that I think of you now.
Natalie | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 9:13:11 PM | | if you ever want to run my way i will make sure you never cry alone, can not believe there are men out there like that who had a beautiful woman and let her go, and look at me | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 10:25:42 PM |
if you ever want to run my way i will make sure you never cry alone, can not believe there are men out there like that who had a beautiful woman and let her go, and look at me
You should think of all the GOOD things that ARE in your life right now!
Focus on the positive things in attempts to bring some happiness into your life. | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 10:33:48 PM | This may sound korny to you, but have you ever just stayed with your feelings when you start to cry and not stop until there isn't even a last drop inside of you?
It is my belief that the pain we feel at any given time holds every pain we have ever experienced in our lives. Every single bloody one of them.
In other words, when you cry over being alone, you are in all reality crying over every experience in your life that has ever caused you pain. Not just the one you have consciously at this moment put a name to. This is where the mind plays tricks on you.
Your mind is a memory bank, and your heart harbors all emotion. But your mind and your heart do not see eye to eye, and see things quite differently for the most part , and aren't expected to. They both have different functions and jobs to do.
You are grieving over every single pain life has ever put forth before you. Let it happen and run its course.
To overcome something, you first have to face it. | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/12/2005 11:10:20 PM | I have a piece of advice for all you guys out there- and the ladies too..... We all get lonely sometimes it's natural- I was in a relationship and I was still lonely- actually now that Im single again Im less lonely- plus its nice to have some time to yourself sometimes.... but i digress
Anyway my advice is this.... Dont let youre crying and youre loneliness get you to the point where you will take the first thing that comes along- There are a lot of people out there that are just like vultures- looking for people that are weak and vulnerable so they can take advantage- run your life-mooch off you- spend your money- etc. These vultures come in all shapes and sizes- and sexes too.... they are good at what they do and have learned how to lure in suckers by putting on the mask of an angel for as long as they need to and then when the opputunity is right for them revealing their fangs....You also have to realize that a lot of people view love sex and relationships as a game.... in a way it is- I'm not saying that you shouldnt be yourself- but learn how to play the game- Crying alone is one thing but crying in front of a crowd exposes your weakness- (dont take that to mean that I fault you for posting this thread... its different- I actually commend you all) You have to learn how to laugh on the outside even if youre crying on the inside... and be confident in yourself and your abilities!!! It's like one of my freinds once told me- you have to walk into a social setting (bar or whatever) like every woman in there wants to go home with you- act fairly disinterested- they will see it and it will intrigue them- Its the same strategy that women employ- it just comes more natural to them because theyre always getting hit on anyway..... i dont know
Anyway- thats my 2 cents.... good luck everyone- keep youre heads up- youll be alright......and by the way all you pretty women in the NYC- holla at me- and if you can impress the hell out of me... I might just give you the time of day.... lol | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/13/2005 1:33:02 PM | | only one thing i can say to you and that is eventually the tears will end, and only you will be able to keep them at bay, it's been 5 moths since she reached into my cheast and tore my heart out threw it on the ground and used it for a floor mat...for approximately 3 months i didnt nothing but weep for the only true love i had ever known,i dont know if i will ever know true love again, but i do know what to look for and what to shy away from.she left christmas 2004, i still remember the way she made me feel(good times) and i want so much to reach out to her....but i know that would cuase more hurt for me than her. keep your chin up and your eyes open, cuase it'll be a life time before your heart heals, and you dont want to miss out on that specail someone becuase you were to busy drowning in your tears. | |
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| I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 6/13/2005 1:48:32 PM | Hi NaviB70 I can totally relate..there are days when I am so sad and down that you think you'll never get out the other side again and be happy!..but you know what allow yourself that time to be down to be sad whatever... because you need it...what you have to do is get right back out there and keep going no matter how much you think you will never meet someone you can't have a defeatist attitude because that shows.. it comes through and spoils your chances sometimes..I guess what I'm saying is we all have to have faith and beleive in ourselves but I know at times its so HARD!!!...I wish us all good luck and love | |
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