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 auburn_sass

Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 26
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Posted: 7/30/2008 8:36:20 AM
So your gonna post a boob shot for all of us instead, right?

What a perve.

There are too many of these jerks on here, why?
Are boobs not so commonplace?

( I bet he even has his very own....)
 ~vhdc~

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 7/30/2008 9:42:16 AM
Yeah, well it would seem that if you post something in the forum it leaves people with the impression you are open to their innane propositions. Hit delete and move on.
 PirateOB

Joined: 5/22/2008
Msg: 28
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Posted: 7/30/2008 10:09:50 AM
Gee I am thinking of an innane proposition for you but then you already know what they are. What's a guy to do
 edster1224

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 7/30/2008 10:42:34 AM
Does this mean you're not going to pose nude for us? LOL!

Ed
 ~vhdc~

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 30
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Posted: 7/30/2008 11:17:18 AM
Mr. Pirate:
Give it your best shot.
 cheshire_grin

Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 7/30/2008 11:53:09 AM
Ed,

I'll pose nude for you only if you promise you'll make me a cover girl! It's my dream!

Wait. No. See the paypal statement. Nude posing to follow high price payment.

Love,
Kate
 Urbanessa

Joined: 8/15/2007
Msg: 32
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Posted: 7/30/2008 12:49:58 PM
@curlygrl:
I don't get your "insult" take either.
Why is it insulting to quote from a profile and ask questions about the findings?


curlygrl wrote:
Thats not what I meant- I was taking to task the poster who was justifying the
request because of why she is here- that is no reason that someone should
make this request of her. Not that he was rude in doing it- HE is a moron but
there are alot of him here. I said "what is on her profile is irrelevant "
to the person who pulled shit from her profile. Why she is here does
not give someone a free pass to do these things.

Blimey, if what is on the profiles was irrelevant then why would there be profiles at all? Sure, many people don't bother reading the profiles before shooting their initial e-mails, however, if a person hints (or even freely speaks) about sexual kinks or the wish to engage in threesomes in their profile and claims a willingness to pose nude in public forums, the conclusion that she might not oppose sharing nude pics online isn't exactly far fetched.

Now, I am not saying that everyone who's speaking freely about their sexual preferences and/or public nudity does freely send out nekkid pics - but I can certainly understand where the e-mailer came from. Certain statements feed certain behaviour - like it or not.
 curlygrl

Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 7/30/2008 3:56:37 PM
Oh okay sweetie. So if I have an innocent picture of me in my tank top showing just a hint of cleavage that means any guy on here can email me any comment he wants or if I post on a forum I like facials with my boyfriend that means any guy here has the right to send me his dick pictures? Yeah. Okay there sweetie.

My opinion like I stated before- MY OPINION. Like you have yours.
 Cheeky_28

Joined: 7/16/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 7/30/2008 4:49:50 PM
^^^^ why does she have to defend her own opinion... it's what she believes.... her perspective... her VIEWS!!! Leave it alone already!!!! Oh God, XD

Ok.... um in my OPINION I think that dude needs therapy lol!!

Curious... what does her profile have to do with anything? He was emailing her based on a post she made in a forum.

to the OP to the sender of such a stupid email lol
 curlygrl

Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 7/30/2008 4:52:46 PM
why does she have to defend her own opinion... it's what she believes.... her perspective... her VIEWS!!! Leave it alone already!!!! Oh God, XD

Ok.... um in my OPINION I think that dude needs therapy lol!!

Curious... what does her profile have to do with anything? He was emailing her based on a post she made in a forum.


God- finally thank you- I cannot say anythng around here without getting
cut and pasted to oblivion- thank you for seeing that we ALL have
an opinion.

OP- live your life honey and do what you need to do-
 PirateOB

Joined: 5/22/2008
Msg: 36
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Posted: 7/30/2008 6:31:20 PM
LOL I'm working on it
 Urbanessa

Joined: 8/15/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 7/30/2008 8:31:44 PM

Oh okay sweetie. So if I have an innocent picture of me in my tank top showing just a hint of cleavage that means any guy on here can email me any comment he wants or if I post on a forum I like facials with my boyfriend that means any guy here has the right to send me his****pictures? Yeah. Okay there sweetie.

My opinion like I stated before- MY OPINION. Like you have yours.

Not sure where the "sweetie" comes from, but asking someone who's presenting herself (or himself) as sexually publically available on the net ("Have sexual kinks", "If you're shy, don't e-mail me", "Like erotic role plays", "looking for a threesome", "Would pose nude", ...) for a boob shot is ENTIRELY different from sending out porn to a person that has not asked for it. But the OP's profile is explicitly asking for boldness, so all I am saying is: I am not surprised that she's receiving such an e-mail.
Actually, I agree with the OP: That initial e-mail is something to chuckle about. Hahaha, funny and such (not that making joke was the e-mail creator's intention, but it is, in the end, funny.).

And, yes, you're allowed your opinion. Where did I say you weren't?
But if you are posting something like that on a public board, you better be prepared to answer the questions it causes (or, as my boss used to say: If you are bowling in public you need to be aware that the audience is watching and counting, too). So i you're not prepared to accept the responses, don't post on the web.

@cheeky_28:
And how exactly do you know for a fact that that e-mail creator did not take a peek at the OP's profile? Just because he was refering to her forum statement doesn't mean that he didn't look at her profile. Actually, odds are, that he did look at her profile (to access the e-mail form), and odds are therefore that he read her self-presentation - and possibly felt encouraged.
 cheshire_grin

Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/1/2008 7:28:24 PM
Can I have a say in this?

As for my 'asking for it': Possibly. I can see both points here. I said I would pose nude. I have, and would do it again. That doesn't mean porn. That doesn't mean sexual, necessarily. My profile encourages certain types of folks to email me. This is also true. But it also states very clearly how I feel about other things, as well. Based on the email the user sent, I'm guessing he didn't read my profile. Possibly looked at it, but read it? I doubt it.

Does this behaviour bother me? Not at all. Again, I posted it as something to laugh about. Be amused by. Please don't start a large debate over something just to laugh at. It isn't worth the effort. Let's debate about social theory, shall we?

People will believe their own perspective. I understand this. Our realities are based on what we see and feel, and thus, there is no real true answer to what you folks have been discussing. It isn't a matter of deserving or undeserving. It happened. Let's not argue. It's funny. Kinda cute in a sad, sad way. Really lacking in creativity as far as presentation goes. I have hard time with the presentation of grammar/spelling. Or lack thereof. Had it been put eloquently with a key argument, I would've given it more thought. But no. It's just an attempt to see boobs, which women are used to. So let's just laugh and move on, eh?
 isoU

Joined: 6/15/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 8/3/2008 4:23:48 AM
Did he get the pictures ... I bet not !!!!

Just another tease !!!!!!!!!!
 lilbethm

Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 40
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Posted: 8/3/2008 6:18:38 AM
I agree saying she's asking for it is like saying the girl who got raped desrved iy because of her outfit.
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