| Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 7/20/2009 4:35:59 PM |
Sex sells.........ask any bartender/waitress working in a nightclub. The tips from men go way up when showing a bit of cleavage or wearing a short skirt and showing more legs. Flirt with them for bonus tips. They will get a lot more attention from men, that much I can guarantee you...albeit, not the kind of attention that perhaps is best for them unless sex is ALL they want.
Yea, it really does, and it's sad. I was a waitress at a sports bar. We wore a t-shirt and jeans, but the idea was the same. Make a guy believe he has a shot to get in your pants, and you'll make money. The important part of this is never saying you will, and never actually doing it.
On a really gross note, I drove past the Joy of Austin on my way across town today (it's a strip club next to Target ) and the parking lot was almost full. It was 12:30. | |
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| Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 9/23/2009 5:39:45 PM | | You're upset that Single Mothers are saying they love sex on their profiles.. so what's the difference between that and a single childless woman advertising their love for sex? | |
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| Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 9/24/2009 1:58:26 AM | OP... how do you think these some chicks became single mothers in the first place!?!
Lmao
Old habits die hard.
I just thought about making a joke about immaculate conception but I figured that most people reading here would not get it.
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| Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 9/25/2009 4:39:54 AM | I need to collect my thoughts after reading through this thread. Initially my first impression was similar to the first people to respond to the starting post and that is the thread was submitted by a misogynistic uptight and sexual inadequate male. However, after further thought processing, I got to think WOW this person has to go through allot of profiles to collect the figures he is quoting, what was it;an average ten local single mothers a day profiling they like casual sex. Statistically you got to be reading 100's of profiles per day to back up those kind of figures. I wonder if that is something the poster has put on their profile as a hobby (trawling single mothers profiles to explore their sexual openness.) I have just joined POF in the past week and have probably looked at around 40 profiles from people who have viewed me or local searches and I haven't come across a single profile advertising sexual desires and most of these ladies have clicked yes to having children.
I would salute these woman for expressing they have a healthy sexual appetite as at least it challenges the myth that every single mother is looking for a man to take over the house hold and put his boots under her bed. | |
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| Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 10/28/2009 7:58:59 AM |
I would assume that a woman who has children still living at home and advertises for sex in her profile isn't all that bright.
I agree. I think being sexual aware is awesome but how the world should be and how it is vastly different. The fallout on her children for her sexual advertising on a dating site could be long term and damaging.
I don't hide my sexuality but I don't advertise in a public place where my kids friend could admit reading it. I have a rule to not say anything in public, that my boys would kick someone's ass for repeating. | |
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| Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 10/28/2009 9:52:22 AM | I don't know where you see things like that, but I am sure its not just a single mother thing.
In retrospect to your question, why do men proposition single mothers for sex and nothing else even when it is not listed in their profile?
I say if you don't like what is on one's profile move onto the next. | |
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| Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 10/28/2009 7:50:09 PM | | I have to say that when I see men advertising for sex, my first thought is that I could never trust him to know where I live and that I have a daughter. Not that I would be interested in these guys anyway. I can't help wondering if the women who are advertising think about what kind of man they attract. How many of them do you think end up with these guys knowing where the children are? I realize that most people enjoy sex, but if you are going to offer it to anyone you better think about what else you are offering. | |
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| Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 10/29/2009 11:59:38 AM | ...
it show the other side of recreation. daring. ....treachery...yet.
its a big scare to me. i suppose thats why i search primarily to mind (attitudes and ideas) when i seek out new life.
i am at my age now aware of the dangers of sexual allurement in public spaces.
and i am most gratefull in the whole package. but i have to find a communicator first or there is no vertical movements. and that includes emotional intelligences.
may the forces be with us. | |
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| Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 10/29/2009 4:58:11 PM | | I came across an old friend from junior high on myzpace. She's now a single mother of 2 kids from different men. I start reading her blogs and they're all about how she just wants a friend with bennefits, nothing serious. Yeah, serious might mean she ends up with another kid. | |
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| Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 10/29/2009 6:31:27 PM | ***WOW this person has to go through allot of profiles to collect the figures he is quoting, what was it;an average ten local single mothers a day profiling they like casual sex. *** don't get too excited, he said one for every ten! LOL. | |
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| Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 10/29/2009 6:38:06 PM | completely agree with u on this one as a single parent the first thing men ask is are we up for some fun erm NO GET A GRIP i have a brain too as i'm also a pub landlady so i fit into a few of the comments along the way its not the dark ages and men advertise sex all the time so why the hell can't women without been called for it.I don't advertise sex but its usually the only thing single blokes want off women with kids its sad.And if thats why i was on here then i woud put it but please give us some credit a lot of single parents male and female just want the usual a relationship or company its not always about sex !!!! | |
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