| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 1/13/2008 1:51:27 PM | I keep on seeing this topic come up time after time... and based on the fact that there's 24 pages of responses, and the fact that no one even realizes that this thread is nearly three years old and the girl who wrote this is 20 by now (not to mention that her profile has long been deleted) kind of disturbs me...
I'm starting to have second thoughts about everyone here... Did you guys just do a forum word search for "rape"? Or is this topic just floating around? | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 1/13/2008 7:35:25 PM | | The topic is 3 years old - and is still a 'live' one at that. But I think that its kind that people - even though not having realized the age of the post... still put in their two cents. Guess I am a sucker for humanity in people. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 1/13/2008 10:51:31 PM |
I keep on seeing this topic come up time after time... and based on the fact that there's 24 pages of responses, and the fact that no one even realizes that this thread is nearly three years old and the girl who wrote this is 20 by now (not to mention that her profile has long been deleted) kind of disturbs me...
I'm starting to have second thoughts about everyone here... Did you guys just do a forum word search for "rape"? Or is this topic just floating around?
You can say that again! Will someone close this thread once and for all!? | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 9/30/2009 9:13:07 PM | Rebecca do not blame yourself and do not give up on life or your future what happened to you was nothing short of discussting sickening and revolting guys like that should be put in prison and the key thowen away because what happened to you yound lady you will never forget.
Keep your head high and be proud always of yourself and you will meet Mr Right when you least expect it
good luck
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 9/30/2009 11:32:20 PM | Aww boo..hoo.. So what do you want, sympathy? It amazes me how girls like you will spread their self pity all over the place.
What's even more funny is a faceless profile like you asking about your looks. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 9/30/2009 11:56:25 PM | well 1st of all your ex-boyfriend should be in jail.
there is no picture of you on here nor should there be, so it makes it hard to answer your question about looks. what i can say is that you are only 17, you need to just get out and enjoy doing what YOU like to do and eventually the guys who are more into you for being you will migrate to you. the old saying about being yourself, is still the best advise anyone can give you. The only other thing i will say is that the first time a guy is even verbally abusive to you get rid of him right then. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 10/1/2009 5:05:49 AM |
Aww boo..hoo.. So what do you want, sympathy? It amazes me how girls like you will spread their self pity all over the place.
What's even more funny is a faceless profile like you asking about your looks.
Wow....
Nevermind the fact that this thread has been long dead for a year and a half, this text that I quoted is scary, and should be stamped on your forehead for any woman to read before they decide if they want to go out with you.
To tell a 17 y/o girl who's been raped and has no support system to suck it up because she's just looking for pity.... it's sad, cruel, and many other adjectives I can't use on the forums. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 10/1/2009 12:45:47 PM | Hi Rebecca, you may or may not know that what happened to you happens to one in 3 women in one form or another. However, despite the fact that you are a member of this 'club' of abuse survivors, there are good guys out there who don't hurt or take advantage of females. Only you can heal you though, otherwise you may be making your 'prince charming' suffer the consequences of what another guy did, and that's just not fair to him. I hope you understand for the rest of your lovelife how important it is to get some good therapy for yourself and work through these things, so that you can have a healthy and fulfilling relationship Wiyan | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 10/1/2009 7:32:12 PM | | You said that after the rape he ignored you and dumped you? So you mean to say that even after the rape you were willing to stay with this guy? | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 10/1/2009 7:38:27 PM | Wow....
Nevermind the fact that this thread has been long dead for a year and a half, this text that I quoted is scary, and should be stamped on your forehead for any woman to read before they decide if they want to go out with you.
To tell a 17 y/o girl who's been raped and has no support system to suck it up because she's just looking for pity.... it's sad, cruel, and many other adjectives I can't use on the forums.
^^^ No shit, and the fact that some guy would come in this very same thread just to quote and reply to me is umm...quite scary itself. You know what's really sad? whining wussy's like you getting offended over one single comment.
Here's a tip, if your gonna get seriously hurt by a few words on a screen, then don't read it. plain and simple. BTW I'll take you up on that offer of the stamp thing, that is after you stamp the words "whining crybaby" on yours...deal? | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 10/4/2009 2:31:07 PM | I just posted on another forum that I didn't get the underlying sense of hostility from European guys that I often get from American guys, then come here and read these nasty comments from guys about a 17 year old girl getting raped.
What is up with you guys? Why are men here so angry at women that they are nasty and ugly to a teenage rape victim? Some sort of cancer has affected lots of men on this site. These forums are often a place where the ugliest venom from deranged psychos gets poured out and is taken as if it's deserving of rational polite responses. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 10/4/2009 6:49:28 PM | Hey Rebecca,
First of all you are very beautiful. Let me tell you I have been there. I was raped my first semester of college and then soon resulted myself in an abusive relationship. I was in this like fog for about 2 years because I refused to talk to anyone about it. Talk about it dont hold it in. Cry all you want! I soon went back to school and became a nursing student. Now I help young teenagers who come everyday raped abused etc. People ask me how I got over it I tell them I went to nursing school thats how. Go to school make something of yourself. Relationships will come in time. You just have to be ready. Start seeking peoples friendships first and then look into relationships. If you can learn to trust ppl in that friend way first you can have a good healthy relationship. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 10/4/2009 8:26:57 PM |
No shit, and the fact that some guy would come in this very same thread just to quote and reply to me is umm...quite scary itself. You know what's really sad? whining wussy's like you getting offended over one single comment.
Here's a tip, if your gonna get seriously hurt by a few words on a screen, then don't read it. plain and simple. BTW I'll take you up on that offer of the stamp thing, that is after you stamp the words "whining crybaby" on yours...deal?
I'm only happy that the garbage you spew is all over your page for women to read. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 10/4/2009 8:31:56 PM | | Whew! Now this gives me so much more relief since I'm only here for the forums. They can read my hsitory posts all they want and knock themselves out. I sure won't lose any sleep over it.. | |
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