| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 4:50:51 AM | Outside of a relationship, not a chance
IN a relationship...bring it on!
But if my partner cant tell from just the way I am moving or looking at him, or touching him...then he doesnt have the intelligence to get there in the first place
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 5:51:14 AM | Oh, yeah, OP; happens all the time.
Oh, thought you meant does that or a similar scenario happen in real life.
Prolly not.
But I would hope not many women make OVERT sexual moves like that. I am usually the initiator; but not overtly. First I don't need to. And second, just walk up to some guy you are not in a relationship with and squeeze his crotch? Yeah, right! | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 7:44:54 AM | | Women want sex as much if not more than men. I like agressive women, I dont date wishy washy women, I want one who knows what she wants.Grrrrrrr. | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 8:42:28 AM |
they dont come right out and say "give it too me now!", women will give out signals they are in the mood to get busy.
Oops! ummmmmm.....We don't? lol I DO! | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 8:51:35 AM | This is an area most women need to work on. "signals"? What are we talking about, two submarines out in the North Atlantic in stormy seas?
Women give "signals" to be covert about it, because being overt might risk rejection and they dont like that..........they just like rejecting men who do that much better.
Surely, there are better and more overt ways to communicate desire than "signs" and "signals" ......... especially when women don't really expect men to give these subtle hints or spend much time trying to "interpret" their body language.
Sorry, but "did you just move your arm or did you want to ****?" never really worked for me. I appreciate someone being more overt. It's a lot more honest. | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:24:48 AM | | Windloverr, you know.. I don't remember his reaction at all. Might have been like everything else I tried to do to keep things hot. He was pretty non-reactionary most of the time.. *sigh*... I much prefer a man that responds... | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 2:50:57 PM | | bby, if he didn't respond to that, check for a pulse. If he has a pulse; you have my official permission to immediately revoke his man card. What you did is the kind of thing guys fantasizie about, that never happen. If he didn't react, just shoot him. | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 3:46:48 PM | "I tend to prefer clips that have a little more setup as to how and why the woman chose to allow the man to have sex with her. Maybe get some tips, y know? :P"
Watching porn for relationship tips (slapping forehead with the palm of my hand)! Why didn't I ever think of that!! | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:20:17 PM | I make my desires known. But after knowing there was interest from the other side (and no, not some guy asking for it lol). I have been turned down (based on their relationship status) but 99% of the time works like a charm.
Being shy is reserved for people who don't need sex. | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:26:03 PM | I recall a bus ride, quite sometime back, and not only did the woman make the first play, but things got so hot we decide to get a hotel room together.
I guess it depends in what position you place yourself in that would allow for a woman to come on to you.
quite natually if your walking down a "hoe-stroll" you may get you more overt action than you can handle. | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:37:37 PM | RE: First post.
Tell me you're kidding... really? REALLY man? Hahahahaha.
P.S. You didn't use the search word "sister" to find that... did you? | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 9/5/2008 11:09:25 PM | We like it as much as you guys do. So we do things like bending over in your face or sliding our nice soft hineys across your lap when standing in a tight space. Ive evengone so far as to let my ex " accidently" see me lathering up my naughty bits in the shower. He really liked that. I acted as if i didnt see him looking and made sure to spend a little extra time on them too. So I would have to say yeah we try to ambush you all sometimes. But all is fair in love and war | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 9/6/2008 4:05:20 PM | ..................[title here] is realy great as long as i havent been ignored for so long that I go to bed and fall asleep instead. | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 9/6/2008 4:14:14 PM | i think thwe storyline in most porn is really clumsy.
but who cares...u know...pplz onley watch it for one reason, and the main event...lmao | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 9/6/2008 4:21:49 PM | If you're not sure if a porn scene happens in real life, I'd make a note to self about staying out of the back room at the vid store, and put the family filter on your browser.
I'm not anti-porn, but....
Sooner or later you're gonna get to midgets and donkeys, and it's all gonna go down hill from there. | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 9/6/2008 4:22:50 PM |
I tend to prefer clips that have a little more setup as to how and why the woman chose to allow the man to have sex with her. Maybe get some tips, y know? :P
To "allow" the man to have sex with her? I think you're coming at this very much from the wrong angle. Would you really want to be with someone who was "allowing" you to be with her, as opposed to someone actively interested? I realize this isn't the point of what you posted, but that immediately caught my eye.
I don't make overt moves when I'm not in a relationship. I take it much more slowly the first time and like to let things happen a bit more organically, rather than actively controlling the situation. I'm sure there are women who feel differently, and I'm sure I know a few. | |
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| Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 9/6/2008 4:49:08 PM |
Does this ever happen?
I was watching a porn clip last night called "My sister's hot friend". I tend to prefer clips that have a little more setup as to how and why the woman chose to allow the man to have sex with her. Maybe get some tips, y know? :P
Anyway, in this story, when the guy confesses having had a crush on his sister's hot friend, she responds by spreading her legs to reveal she's not wearing any underwear and puts his hand on her crotch.
Now it's a porn... so obviously that was going to happen - my question is - is it at all realistic? Cause I've never experienced anything remotely like it.
Are there women that will make overt moves to initiate sex with someone they are not in a relationship with?
Hmm...I've been on the receiving end of some overt initiation, but never from someone I wasn't seeing at the time. My last ex, when we had sex for the first time, she basically jumped me. I used the "R" word when I brought it up in conversation to my closest friends, and her...but that word seems to tickle people the wrong way in here so I'll leave it at that.
Suffice to say, she made it clear that she had waited a month and a half already and wasn't gonna wait a day longer. We bailed from her Grandparent's Thanksgiving Day meal, and barely got in her room back home before she was clawing away at my clothes. To this day, that will go down as the pinnacle of all my sexual experiences. Best sex I ever had, bar none. It would take a miracle to top that...
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