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 cooldude

Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 26
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Is it just me, or is getting married and having children the most pointless thing in the universe?
Posted: 6/11/2005 7:35:54 AM
Hey Sun,
It seems you have a bleek outlook on life. People would be just as confused reading your profile, as you would be of them. But you have to think, luckily your parents did'nt think you were a waste of time. Or you would not be here to show your opinion of marrage and children. People should not have children if they don't want them. No child should feel unloved. I did not really understand children till I had one of my own. Then everything fell into place. I do respect peoples choices, if they decide they want neather.
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 27
Is it just me, or is getting married and having children the most pointless thing in the universe?
Posted: 6/11/2005 7:42:13 AM
SOME women should never have children because they are too selfish and you have to make
many sacrifices ...The child becomes most important as it should be ! Nothing beats the love of your child! I feel sorry for people who will never know that uncondional love .
 Earthaglow

Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 28
Is it just me, or is getting married and having children the most pointless thing in the universe?
Posted: 6/11/2005 7:48:01 AM
Children are gifts. One day you will understand.
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 29
Is it just me, or is getting married and having children the most pointless thing in the universe?
Posted: 6/11/2005 8:01:26 AM
This is too funny.

When I was in my early 20s I might have agreed with some of this. After having my own, I am so glad I di. I filled my biological niche, passed on my genes, and am amused daily.

Did I need marriage to do that? Hell No. Wish I never would have made that blunder and just shacked up with her like the original plan.

And Salamander, what the heck is that ego stuff, LOL
 paddle your own canoe

Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 30
Is it just me, or is getting married and having children the most pointless thing in the universe?
Posted: 6/11/2005 8:33:46 AM
@ Sun Hey if everybody thought having kids was a waste of time YOU wouldn't be here. Think about that.
 squeak365

Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 31
Is it just me, or is getting married and having children the most pointless thing in the universe?
Posted: 6/11/2005 8:46:45 AM
Kids are not a waste of time.....they are wonderful.

But I did it alone and that should not be the way it happens...I got burned out.

Squeak
 jennifer j

Joined: 10/15/2004
Msg: 32
Is it just me, or is getting married and having children the most pointless thing in the universe?
Posted: 6/11/2005 9:17:32 AM
I am really sorry that you feel miserable I wish I could cheer you up how about a happy dance or I could sing really loud and off key tell really bad jokes, anything
 salamander000

Joined: 10/26/2004
Msg: 33
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Is it just me, or is getting married and having children the most pointless thing in the universe?
Posted: 6/11/2005 11:26:39 AM
I raised 3 that were not my own, all from different families, and no fathers involved either... One for 10 years (he is deaf)....kids that were no longer wanted....if you want one, I suggest doing what HB did, and pick one that's already here, that needs love....not 'procreating' to satisfy ego. I also suggest to anyone thinking of doing it, take a trip to Africa, or a third world country first.....
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 34
Is it just me, or is getting married and having children the most pointless thing in the universe?
Posted: 6/11/2005 11:58:36 AM
Nice idea, and with 6 billion people on the planet it is probably responsible

BUT

It is my RIGHT as a procreating creature to pass on my Genes. It is programmed withiin me. And that is why it feels so damn good
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 35
 grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003
Msg: 36
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Is it just me, or is getting married and having children the most pointless thing in the universe?
Posted: 6/11/2005 7:19:41 PM
sounds like a conspiracy to have a slave race (bred and consumers for ruling class) ..of dummies..you're right..I'm swearing off women..and getting into macreme and cribbage. Thanks.
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