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Posted: 3/1/2009 1:16:16 AM |
Ican't help but wonder if Quazi 100 is in the mood to clean my apartment.
I'm happy to report that I haven't had a manic episode in....about three years or so. And for the record, I hate cleaning my own apartment.
HH: Sounds like Kevin accepted and agreed with his diagnosis...that's a good thing. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2009 2:48:43 AM | Well I guess I'll do the cleaning myself after I bake cookies.
Since I have the time to read every post on this topic on every thread it seems usually seems pointless for me to contribute. So many people contribute intelligently to them that I have nothing to add though I do get the urge to post something hateful to the ignorant.  | |
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Posted: 3/1/2009 5:19:42 AM | Candicem:
There is nothing wrong with peopole with bipolar, depression, OCD etc...everyone is different.
Woah...That's one amazing opinion!
Anyway, I know what you are 'trying' to say, but it really doesn't matter how wonderful people are at their best...what matters is how often and to what extent they are 'not wonderful'. One thing we do agree on...everyone IS different. Everyone gets to decide what imperfections/issues they will 'put up with', and which ones they won't...
Get used to that.
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Posted: 3/5/2009 3:42:16 PM | | There is so much healthy information out there about chemical imbalances in the brain. I am amazed at the amount of people on this site who willing remain ignorant on mental health issues. A great deal of what people describe as bi-polar is actually borderline personality disorder. This can be a very difficult disease to treat. Your everyday garden variety person, which I am, who has bi-polar are not uncaring, unproductive, raving maniacs. There are some amazing, creative, loving people diagnosed with this disease. As I read through this forum I have found that it has become easy for people to use the term bi-polar for any negative behavior they come across. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2009 2:11:12 PM | I can only speak for myself and I really didn't read all of the other replies in here, but I feel like I have the right to comment because I have been living with my Bipolar husband for 9 years and it has certainly not been a walk in the park. The hardest thing is to get them to recongnize that they need help, because they usually deny that they need it and many times they get addicted to the manic states -full of energy, no need to sleep, they feeel invincible, etc- . Mos of the times they'll need to hit rock bottom in order for them to realize they need medications.
My husband, when unmedicated AND manic creates havoc, when depressed he wants to kill himself, and no matter how many times I've gone through it, I'm never ready for the next episode. Don't take everything she does and says personal, as hurtful as might be, she's not being herself, and remember that if she becames a danger to herself and others, she can be commited under the Section 28 of the mental health act petition. I'm not sure if that's the right section, but I've done it with my husband.
And no, life with her as your dad's fiancee, wife, or whatever, would never be easy, because even on meds, they can alway relapse. If your dad's really in love with that woman I guess there's really nothing you can do about it except wait till she gets help and let your dad know you'll be there for him, because he'll need support.
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Posted: 4/25/2009 10:16:39 PM | "I never knew exactly HOW MUCH negativity was out there surrounding bipolar until I came across this thread." The negativity on this thread makes me sick to my stomach.
I have Bipolar, both of my sons have Bipolar as well. Yes, oftentimes it runs in families. My grandmother has bipolar, too. We do EVERYTHING possible to control the uncontrollable. We take our meds, we seek counseling, we have psychiatrists monitor the medications. In short, we actually have less mood-swings than many 'normal' people we know.
There have been some very difficult times with our bipolar household. There has also been much fun, much joy, and so much love. My sons know I am ALWAYS here for them. If we have a bad day, or feel an epsisode coming on, we talk about it. We laugh about how the ignorant treat us, a sense of humor is crucial in dealing with the stigma.
In researching the subject, I am able to find all kinds of information about dealing with bipolar kids on the Internet~~Nothing on being a bipolar parent to a bipolar child.
To those who assume because they know one person who has this disorder, they are experts, I would ask where their degree is. A bad relationship does not an expert make. Each Bipolar person is different.
While life with bipolar is not easy, it gives us such a unique perspective, we wouldn't want to be 'normal'. Normal is vastly over-rated.
To OP, I would suggest that you follow your instincts with your stepmother, if you feel threatened, get out. Do NOT allow any abuse from her, be it verbal or physical. Follow your heart with your father. Love your father, support him as best you can. Seek counseling to deal with this situation. The right counseling can do wonders. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2009 6:06:05 AM | | Wow, i can't believe how many people have such a negative outlook on this topic. I have been bipolar for over 35 years now. I have my manic times aswell but not as often. I have been in relationships where as the bipolar was no part of the breakup. I have read some threads from men that say people like us are soul destroying, manipulative etc. All i can ask is (what did you do) to cause yourself. Relationships do not fail because the person is bipolar, they fail due to lack of careing, understanding, cheating or whatever. I bet if one didn't know me they would never guess i was bipolar, being with someone that pulls you down is only going to make it worse. I was in a relationship for over five years, he was a very controlling person and when i didn't care to do the same thing, it always ended with a fight and the rest of the weekend ruined, and myself crying for the most part of it. By the time Mondays roll around he's back kissing ass saying i'm sorry, i'm sorry, and i consoling him. Since he is out of my life now things are good, smiling, laughing, i have my down days but nothing serious. To you gentlemen out there trying to cope with their partner because you love them, think for a moment on how you love them. You would be amazed what a simple hug, or just holding a person can do, through all the tears and negative thoughts let them know they still matter. You may not know it but hearing that can change the entire mood. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2009 8:15:25 AM |
I was in a relationship for over five years, he was a very controlling person and when i didn't care to do the same thing, it always ended with a fight and the rest of the weekend ruined, and myself crying for the most part of it. By the time Mondays roll around he's back kissing ass saying i'm sorry, i'm sorry, and i consoling him. Since he is out of my life now things are good, smiling, laughing, i have my down days but nothing serious. To you gentlemen out there trying to cope with their partner because you love them, think for a moment on how you love them. You would be amazed what a simple hug, or just holding a person can do, through all the tears and negative thoughts let them know they still matter. You may not know it but hearing that can change the entire mood.
I think we might have had the same relationship...with different men...
Both my ex-partner and I are bipolar.
My bipolar is pretty much controlled...his less than mine, but he's high functioning.
I thought he would have gotten the message when I protested loudly about not wanting to follow him around while he lived his life....nope. Then I slept on the couch....nope. Then I wouldn't have sex with him...nope. That was the third strike...he was out.
He's still in shock, and bewildered....
Does this sound familiar to anyone? | |
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Posted: 4/26/2009 8:31:32 AM |
I never knew exactly HOW MUCH negativity was out there surrounding bipolar until I came across this thread." The negativity on this thread makes me sick to my stomach.
Perhaps you're sick to your stomach because you only sympathize with those who suffer from bipolar, and give none to those who suffered from years at the receiving end of the abuse from years of living with bipolars.
Sympathy and empathy are arbitrary. They are up to the individual. If that makes you sick, then you have some misconceptions about the world around you.
To those who assume because they know one person who has this disorder, they are experts, I would ask where their degree is.
Since when does anyone require a degree to have an individual opinion?
Since when does anyone have to provide you with any formal credentials?
A bad relationship does not an expert make.
It actually makes them a pretty reliable expert on their own bad relationship.
Each Bipolar person is different.
All of us are different. Period. Stop. Your point is moot.
While life with bipolar is not easy, it gives us such a unique perspective, we wouldn't want to be 'normal'.
That makes it sound like living with a bipolar person is pretty benign. Which is not a realistic description of what living with someone who suffers from a mental disorder is like.
What you seem to have difficulty with, is that people who have lived with people who suffer from disorders are entitled to formulate their opinions and viewpoints, and share them with whomever they want.
It's called freedom of speech, and freedom of expression.
Whether people want to share experiences of living with a person who suffers from bipolar, an alcoholic, a physical abuser, a drug addict etc.....their perspectives of people who they loved and were very close to, are not to be taken lightly, as many seem to choose to do.
They have the perspective of looking at the "disorder" from the "outside looking in", and often know the "person" better than they know themselves, as a result of their perspective.
Normal is vastly over-rated.
I agree with this comment, in general, but I don't think we agree for the same reasons.... | |
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Posted: 4/27/2009 7:03:33 PM |
Perhaps you're sick to your stomach because you only sympathize with those who suffer from bipolar, and give none to those who suffered from years at the receiving end of the abuse from years of living with bipolars.
Sympathy and empathy are arbitrary. They are up to the individual. If that makes you sick, then you have some misconceptions about the world around you.
First off this...They are up to the individual statement is redundant...look up the word "arbitrary".
May I ask what the specific misconceptions about the world around you you are referring to, would they by any chance be YOUR opinions?
How do you know that this person ONLY sympathizes with those who suffer from bipolar.....and not those who have suffered for years at the receiving end of the abuse from years of living with bipolars?
You must have a good crystal ball....personally, mine is broken....it's in the shop for repairs.
Personally, I have suffered for years at the receiving end of abuse.....some of it was done to ME, by ME. You at least had a choice....I could leave the other people abusing me, not much I could do to get away from myself. I gave it a couple of good tries, though.......
Since when does anyone require a degree to have an individual opinion?
Since when does anyone have to provide you with any formal credentials?
My OPINION of the quote leading to your response, is that bipolar is a very complex disorder, and has a multitude of symptoms, and combinations, and that being familiar with one individual with bipolar doesn't even come close to encompassing the WHOLE disorder, and that "generalizations" about the disorder may very well be inaccurate. I don't honestly believe that the poster was asking to be provided with formal credentials...another redundant statement.
It actually makes them a pretty reliable expert on their own bad relationship.
It makes them a pretty reliable expert on their own PERCEPTION of their own bad relationship. Please don't try to speak for your partner....unless you have bipolar disorder, you have no idea what really goes on behind the behaviour.
Whether people want to share experiences of living with a person who suffers from bipolar, an alcoholic, a physical abuser, a drug addict etc.....their perspectives of people who they loved and were very close to, are not to be taken lightly, as many seem to choose to do.
Who exactly is taking perspectives of people who have loved, and been very close to bipolar, alcoholics etc., lightly. Who are the MANY who are seeming to choose to do so? I don't take my bipolar lightly at all....both my parents were alcoholics, I REALLY don't take that lightly.
This is the statement which provoked this scathing response... They have the perspective of looking at the "disorder" from the "outside looking in", and often know the "person" better than they know themselves, as a result of their perspective.
Please don't tell me that you really are arrogant enough to believe this statement. Unless you are able to do a Mr. Spock type mind meld....a la Star Trek, you cannot possibly "know the person better than they know themselves". You weren't there while they developed their "perspective", and are interpreting their "perspective" through YOUR OWN "perspective". You may recognize pathological behaviours and symptoms that are common to the disorder, but please don't pretend to think that you "know" the disorder from the "outside looking in" because you have seen "common" symptoms, and behaviours.
I recently had a discussion with a PhD who had 30 years experience and 20 years of schooling....I was amazed at how many misconceptions he had when actually talking to someone that he couldn't use his "techniques" on....his script was carefully planned out to deal with individuals who aren't informed about their illness. When faced with someone who has actually "lived" the symptoms, and behaviours, his "techniques" fell flat, and he was at a loss as to how to "talk" to me.....and tried to "baffle me with bullshit".....an in the trenches term for "fake it until you can disengage." | |
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Posted: 4/27/2009 8:30:07 PM | I am NOT afraid to say I Johnathan (BubbaFitz) am Bipolar and Deal with pts.
Post trama syndrome,, When i was a child of only 7, i witnessed my Brother shoot my niece in the throat and try to kill me as well, but the riffle jamed. Shortly after he shot himself dead and did it right in front of me. This was only one of the many screwed up events i survived. I was raised on a farm and my Dad was a WWII vet, Need i say more.
After all this, i managed to raise 5 kids and mantain a suitable life to date, and well liked by 100's of people across Canada.
If you can get past the lies and horror stories that were told to you about Mental Illness, and hear it from the real people that know first hand, what it's all about.
And you may say then why am i divorced... I was a Logger Back then, I was never home and became a stranger to my wife. I coulden't let her live like that, i had to let her get on with what was good for her, My living in logging camp's for Months on end, just was selfish and un thoghtful to who sat at home alone. We are still good friends after 18 years apart. Yes, i am taking meds for my condition, they change them at lease 3 times a year. I am Happy ,Fun to be with and take no ones crap. Stupid is what stupid dose... and if you turn your back on Mental Illness and want to put us all on a island.
You'll be very lonely on the mainland standing by your self. Eveyone deals with It .
..Its called being normal, Your the Abnormal one's....TA DA....... | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 11:40:25 AM | | Wow,now that's a thread to take note of. The fact that you had witnessed at a young age such trauma, especially family members, that would be hard as hell for anyone to get through and that's something you can't fix. Being bipolar, you are much stronger than you think. You raised a family and are respected by many. The fact that your marriage ended sounds like you did the best you could at the time, and you were thinking of what was best for your family and not yourself. I like the fact you come right out and say, you take no ones crap! I am the same way, but it usually ends with them laying the total blame on me anyway. I know before it even starts that i'm the one who has to listen to the (it's all my fault). So i take the blame just to end the grief and the arguing. My bipolar is not the reason my ex was cheating, poor excuse but i guess he had to make himself feel like the strong one to his friends. Prior to this i always thought it was my fault, not anymore. Now i hear from friends and aquaintances asking me what the hell did you see in him anyway. Since my break-up,all i want to do is make his life a living hell, let others know what they may be getting into with this person. I know it is somewhat childish but the satisfaction would be wonderful. My only problem is he's not worth it, i always tend to act first and think later. I know it's just the anger in me i have stored for so long and any actions i take would not just involve him but his children would be affected aswell, and although i would like them to see what their father is really like. Is it true? What goes around comes around? I sure hope so. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2009 3:56:47 AM | LUNCHMOM 3
You can not use the tragety between you and your husband to fuel your disire to get even with him...Drop it and move on, or you'll Unattract your next chance at love.
No one wants to be reminded of how pissed you are. Never make the kids dad look bad in there eyes , your angry at him DON'T punish the Kids... Your thred started out careing and thoughtful , then BOOM you now let every one think your a vengfull person. If i was dating you and you laid this on me , i would feel threatend right away, looking over my shoulder wondering if your watching my every move. Thinking that i was no better than how you feel about your X ...
Is that what you wanted us to know , or did you just get carried away????
Please i'm not judging you , but read your thred carefully first and then hit SEND. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2009 4:19:24 AM | Bipolar is the current term for Manic Depression and is compeletely treatable with the right medication. It is NOT curable but is treatable. It is a chemical imabalance in the brain and sometimes takes decades to diagnose properly. Once diagnosed, it can take another few years to find the right combinations of medication to keep the person stable and function just like any other person. Please do not lable people who have this as nut cases as I've seen some posters do on here. It is ignorance that puts a stigma on this disorder. Would you honestly condem a person who has diabetes because he has an insulin problem , a person with chronic asthma because their lungs do not function the same as everyone else's ? or a person with heart disease? These are all illnesses of different organs of the body and the brain is just another organ and a very important one. It is extremely misunderstood and it is because of the ignorance of others that people have a hard time with this. Clinical depression is also classified into situational depression such as when one looses a loved one through divorce or death, and depression based on a chemical imbalance. These are all very much treatable and I wish people would become more educated on this , rather than condem the people who have it and classify them as nut cases. I'm sure you wouldn't classify a person with epilepy or seizure disorder as a nutcase....same thing...a problem with the brain that needs to be treated.
Just to give you an example... Ted Turner(CNN), Winton Churchill, just to name a few, have all had Bipolar and from where I stand, are and were highly successful people and have made great contributions to our society. It truly is the ignorance of others that is the problem. The only time I can see this being a problem is when Bipolar people refuse to take their meds because they start to feel okay and that's a mistake because taking and controlling the meds is a lifelong thing, until something better comes along. They need the support of family of and friends and not the condemnation.
There was a time when people with eplilepy were locked up in mental instutions as well! | |
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Posted: 5/2/2009 7:57:56 AM | | Being diagnosed with a mental illness is not a licence to be a jerk. I can understand a person's behavior based on mental illness or addiction to a substance, but I also don't have to accept it. In some ways, there are similarities to being addicted to crystal meth, and like a person newly clean and sober, the patient has to learn how to live again, even on medications, first, by taking responsibility for their illness, and as recovery continues, learning to see things right sized again. For my own illness, and occasionally, my senses go haywire, and sometimes it's difficult to tell if people are yelling or it's kfuq radio playing in my head. Last night was pretty accute and no one noticed, because I kept my mouth shut about it. I've learned through years of dealing with my illness that it is a temporary condition and to ignore the amplitude and visually compare what the person is saying and their expression and neck muscles as they speak. The louder we are, the more constricted our neck muscles are. If they don't match, it' my head's playing tricks on me and I use the visual cues to compensate. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2009 9:39:38 AM |
. My bipolar is not the reason my ex was cheating, poor excuse but i guess he had to make himself feel like the strong one to his friends. Prior to this i always thought it was my fault, not anymore. Now i hear from friends and aquaintances asking me what the hell did you see in him anyway. Since my break-up,all i want to do is make his life a living hell, let others know what they may be getting into with this person. I know it is somewhat childish but the satisfaction would be wonderful. My only problem is he's not worth it, i always tend to act first and think later. I know it's just the anger in me i have stored for so long and any actions i take would not just involve him but his children would be affected aswell, and although i would like them to see what their father is really like. Is it true? What goes around comes around? I sure hope so.
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Yes it's true...what goes around, comes around. Sometime, somewhere, and usually where it hurts most.
What you are thinking about your husband is actually quite normal. If it goes on for years, or you actively try to make his life a living hell, not so good....
I was in a group therapy session, when my Mom was dying. My Dad was being a real jerk, but I had to deal with him, I had no choice. I told the therapist that I didn't think I could be there with my Dad without doing something stupid (I'm bipolar). She invited me to tell the group what I would like to do to my Dad....she said to forget about right and wrong for a minute and take my pain out on him in whatever way I wanted....out loud to the group, BUT IN MY HEAD. It worked....it relieved stress, and when I saw my Dad later that day, it was much easier to talk to him without getting really angry.
This technique works well, but obviously the trick is to get rid of the punishment you've inflicted, out of your head, right after you stop the exercise. THIS TECHNIQUE IS FOR STRESS RELIEVING PURPOSES ONLY. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2009 10:01:36 AM |
Bipolar is the current term for Manic Depression and is compeletely treatable with the right medication.
Not true.
Psychotropics have the potential to mitigate certain behaviours in certain people, and at certain times. But your blanket statement is patently false.
Not one physician, nor drug company would make your claim. Not one.
Need more proof? Ask anyone who has ever lived with a bipolar person to read any thread here on the topic, and assess how well they feel the medications are working on those that post claiming that they are doing fine since they've been medicated....
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Posted: 5/2/2009 10:06:52 AM | I just wanted to say that I my only sister has been diagnosed with bipolar for about 8 years now. Some of these posts are correct. Especially about the moods fluctuating.
She is on meds for this but still has outbursts. These posts describe her very well.
I love her so much and wish I could have invented some vaccine or surgery to get rid of her disease. But, I can't. You feel like you're losing a desperate fight.   | |
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Posted: 5/3/2009 5:45:39 AM | Verytone
I NEVER post something this serious without doing some research on the topic first
Here is just a sample taken from one of the most respected medical institutions in the world, and there are more where that came from ...this is just an excerpt taken from the Mayo Clinic, which is known all over the world for their up to date knowledge and research on just about every illness out there.
>>Treatment
With proper treatment, patients with bipolar disorder can live full and productive lives. A health care team, including a psychiatrist, sets and monitors goals for each patient. Medications such as lithium or other mood stabilizing drugs are key to successfully treating bipolar disorder. Psychotherapy is often used in conjunction with medication to help patients cope with the illness and identify personal conflicts that aggravate the disorder.
In addition, keeping records of moods, symptoms, treatments, sleep patterns and life events can help patients and their doctors understand the illness. Mayo Clinic emphasizes communication between patients and their physicians. For example, it is important for patients to report mood changes; in such cases, doctors may adjust treatment plans, which can often prevent full-blown episodes.
Treatment may vary over the course of the illness. The classic form of bipolar disorder involves recurrent episodes of mania and depression called bipolar 1 disorder. Some people, however, never develop severe mania but instead experience milder episodes of hypomania that alternate with depression; this form of illness is called bipolar 2 disorder. When four or more episodes of illness occur within 12 months, a person is said to have rapid-cycling bipolar disorder. Rapid cycling tends to develop later in the course of the illness and is more common among women than men. Although rapid cycling can increase over time, proper treatment can reduce the frequency and severity of episodes.
Medications
Medications are key to successfully treating bipolar disorder. The most common medication used to treat bipolar disorder is lithium, a naturally occurring mineral used as a mood stabilizer. Other commonly prescribed mood stabilizers include valproic acid, carbamazepine, and gabapentin. Patients with bipolar disorder may continue treatment with mood stabilizers for years. Other medications are sometimes added when necessary, typically for shorter periods, to treat episodes of mania or depression that break through despite mood stablizers. Antidepressants are also commonly prescribed in addition to mood stabilizers.
Mayo experts work with patients to monitor their medications, especially antidepressants, which can increase the risk of rapid cycling or manic episodes.
Psychotherapy
Psychotherapy is often used in conjunction with medication to help patients identify personal conflicts that aggravate the illness. A therapist can help patients deal with personal relationships, maintain a healthy self-image and ensure that they comply with their treatment. Psychotherapy can also assist patients in coping with medication side effects.
Related Information
Mayo Clinic has developed a blood test that determines how a patient's genes affect his or her response to various antidepressant drugs. This test is relevant to bipolar disorder patients who take antidepressants in addition to mood stabilizers.<<
I never said it was easy, but it is not impossible either. Most people refuse to take their medications and that is why the problems occur...how do I know? I used to work in a mental health hospital and I know very well how people refuse to take their meds when they are in a stable mood, until that mood fades and then bang, their back to square one..the trick is to make them realize this is a lifelong treatment, such as diabetes and not one to play around with. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2009 9:01:27 AM | | I think you might have jumped a line or two. I am aware that the best thing to do is to let it go. In my thread i said i wanted too, not going too. I also mentioned that this kind of behavior was childish aswell. I was speaking thru anger as i said. I'm sure many feel the same way when they have been hurt, stepped on, and just basically put down to the lowest. This is not just to people who suffer from any illness, it's the being hurt that brings it out, especially when it's fresh. Time heals they say and it's true. In any breakup there is no one person to blame. I have a pretty good mouth on me as it is, and i do know the difference between right and wrong. And if the being bipolar was the problem as he says, why move from one to another that suffers from the same illness. Doesn't make much sense to me. I have seen him with a profile on POF again so i guess that means after 3 months she also said tootaloo. Oh well, i hope he finds happiness in looking for wife no. 3. I have enough fish in my aquarium. I am smiling again. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2009 9:05:49 AM |
Verytone
I NEVER post something this serious without doing some research on the topic first
Your weren't diligent enough, and posted a grossly misleading statement. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2009 9:12:35 AM | | All I am seeing on this post is comments that are down right insensitive dealing bipolarism.My sister has it and has had for over ten years.She does not try to control or isolate her bf.She does her her fit now and then when she has not taken her meds.But all of us that are close to her know when this happens we know what and how to help her.Beinf bipolar is not a sickness it is a brain imbalance and not the fault of the person that has it.I hate when people judge my sister right away because she has it and treat her differnt.She is just like anyone else and is just as caring and kind hearted.You need patience and kindness with people that have bipolar.If you can't deal with someone with it then walk away. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2009 9:20:56 AM | Every person is different, and no two people with bipolarism respond the same.
My ex was diagnosed with it years into our marriage, when it became more pronounced. Her mood swings and increasing negativity certainly had a negative impact on our already rock relationship, and the medications adversely impacted her already low libido.
I wouldn't rule out a relationship with someone with bipolarism, but it would raise a huge cautionary flag to look at things very, very carefully before commiting to a lasting relationship with someone with this illness or any other affecting such a broad range of relationship concerns. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2009 10:56:33 AM | Verytone
The quote was taken from the Mayo Clinic itself , word for word..look it up and while you're at it, you may even want to look at John Hopkins. I do not see an MD after your name and what I posted was taken directly from a respected medical facility.
>>Your weren't diligent enough, and posted a grossly misleading statement.<< | |
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