| Re: He has never been interested in getting intimate...
Posted: 9/27/2004 12:35:46 PM | | I as a male see a naked woman my motor goes into overdrive!I may be 50 but all parts work and no woman is so dominering that a man will either bark or leave.The problem lies with him and if he does not open up and confess his short commings say so long.Never look back.I know you are serious about finding someone,you would not question or be seeking better. | |
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| He has never been interested in getting intimate...
Posted: 9/27/2004 1:44:46 PM | this is my opinion;
i would say that passion is very important part of a long term relationship. does he love you in other ways? how does he show his affections?
Passion is a tool which nature uses to get a man and woman together so that a deeper more important relationship can be fostered. Many couples don't feel passionate durring the first part of their relationship. My last girlfriend and I were not physicaly attracted to each other at all when we first met. We hung out together and after a few months fell in love and became very passionate with each other and very physicaly attracted toward each other.
There is an equal chance he is not attracted to you. this is not becuase you have something wronge with you, it is just not a good fit for him.
Another possibility is that he has something in his past that is getting in the way.
One thing is for sure a relationship is much better served by partners of equal passionate level. | |
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| Re: He has never been interested in getting intimate...
Posted: 10/1/2004 7:41:30 AM | Hmmm.. I looked at your profile and you are good looking and smart. So how he could not want you all the time is absolutly beyond me. If you love him stay ...back off a bit on talking serious. Keep it fun ,light, and laughing. get out the Kama Sutra book and see if he will experiment with you. maybe you will spark something. if you dont.. then check for a pluse and move on ... lol just kidding
good luck | |
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| He has never been interested in getting intimate...
Posted: 10/7/2004 5:29:14 PM | | Guys and girls do this, and it's not your fault. Basically what happens is that a person has one or several relationships that don't work out the way they wanted because of something. The way this sounds is that he was in relationships with women that he was sexually attracted to, and did have sex on a regular basis...but they didn't laugh at his jokes, or act interested in what he really liked.. or many other things.. So he desided this time to be with someone who he wasn't sexually attracted to, but did get along with other ways. You are upset because he isn't giving you the sexual attention you want, but he is most likely with you because you give him all the non sexual attention that he wants. Things can be worked out if you really like this guy and he likes you.. You have to open communications and explain what the kind of attention you want and what you're not getting, and what you plan to do if things don't change. | |
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