| | He dissapeared again... :(Page 6 of 7 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7) | | Forget him, if he cant find time for u then he has other things goin on. U need to get someone who has time for u. | |
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Posted: 8/30/2008 12:13:24 PM | Not-worth-your-time. This is the type of guy who is in it for the fantasy more than the reality. He is probably in some sort of unstable romantic situation, and when things go sour he needs to feel wanted and desired.
Let someone else rub his ego. You can find better things to occupy your thoughts. | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 7:14:25 PM | | First time, shame on him. Second time , shame on you. Tell him that you are only interested in someone who VALUES your time. | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 7:26:21 PM | Do not make someone a priority in your life,when they do not make you one in theirs,
you deserve so much more. | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 7:54:56 PM | | True true....it is'nt real until you meet the person...and even then be careful....they could still be in love with thier ex's and can't let go....and to coward to tell you the truth! | |
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Posted: 9/7/2008 5:52:46 PM | Good evening,
I'm no stranger to this type of immature and sadistic behavior. This guy is a creep with less regard for others. The poof act is simply to rude and unacceptable, this guy is
playing with your feelings. Don't waste your time with this jerk, DUMP HIS ASS. He's not worthy of your love and kindness, move on, you'll find someone that will at least be honest and will love you for the way you are. Best of luck to you~ | |
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Posted: 10/3/2008 10:23:05 AM | YES! Roseland said it like it is!
Guys like this are not worthy of our time...Move on!  | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 10:47:58 AM | Hey,
Word of advice....run for your life.....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! does a mack truck have to hit you in the head.....Can you say this guy is anything other then shady and a looser......
If you would even consider seeing this guy again....You would need your own head examined. I don't mean to be harsh but geez.....Let it Go already......
Now go find a normal guy....Well that is if there is one on this site.......they are there but I think they are like finding a needle in a hay stack. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 2:49:32 PM |
somehow in 2008 he could have called for 15 seconds, sent a text message, sent a one line IM, email, carrier pigeon
I agree ... a really dedicated guy would have gone the carrier pigeon route, and included cash for a nice dinner out for me and my closest girlfriends to console me at his absense. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 4:11:59 PM | | im so sorry to say this..but i think hes stringing you along ..lying yes, and dating others.. remember this ,is a virtual candy store...he doesnt deserve you..dont give him the time of day next time you hear from him..dont call him.. or write . just move on. youre worth more than that ..remember this is a dating site..people put themselves on here cause they are available .. not unavailable ..youre right in your last sentence you answered your own question.good luck to you . | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 6:53:31 PM | Yep, if a red flag is raised not once, but twice, run the other way. He either has a bad addiction and isn't in shape to meet you or he has someone at home that changed her plans. He's trouble with a capital "T".
I was stood up once by a guy that told me something came up at home and he got company. The 'company' was his wife who was a permanent resident. He's b.s.ing you. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2009 7:19:59 AM | | You should definitely ignore guys like that. If the guy likes you no matter what happens to him he will find a way to contact you. I assume he had a girlfriend or 10 more dates that week so, you are definitely not a priority, no matter how bad it sounds. Move on! Funny, when I read “tired of games” that means the game players are in the house! | |
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Posted: 2/11/2009 7:34:17 AM | He is a flake and is not serious about meeting you or possibly anyone.
Maybe by now he figured out you are not "playing" material so he doesn't want to "waste" his effort.
In any case...good for you, bad for him.
Just start looking elsewhere.....you are pretty and smart...your chances are high with just about any guy!!!
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Posted: 2/11/2009 7:41:53 AM | | There was a profile that a guy posted to me which I though was really cool. One of the things he said was don't think you are his one and only you are just an option. He sounds like a player to me He has your number he has arranged to meet you twice probably something more interesting came up. This might sounds harsh but he could have at least texted you. Still you haven't met him yet so he doesn't owe you anything but some respect in letting you know he is canceling your meeting if he can't do that he probably isn't a very respectful person. I may be wrong maybe he really does have problems sounds unlikely | |
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Posted: 2/11/2009 10:48:32 AM | Simple...
He's juggling you with another girl or girls. You are a back-up plan for certain. She may also be an "ex" he's trying to get back with.
Trust me on this. If a guy wants you and is REALLY into you and getting to know you, nothing stands in his way. He won't jeopardize screwing things up by doing a "Harry Potter" and disappearing.
He's playing the field and he's obviously said all the right things to keep you interested in him despite his lack of communication and rudeness.
My advice is for you to move onto a guy who's actually ready to date... and is courteous enough to keep in contact. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2009 12:47:42 PM | Been there.
He left me hanging twice...fortunately we hadn't set a meeting time, so I was stuck at home waiting for a call, not sitting at a restaurant for hours.
After the second time, we made plans again, he actually showed up, and I was with my girlfriends laughing about it!
Turns out, he really did want to meet - he was just having a hard time getting away from his wife and kids!. | |
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Landra
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Posted: 2/11/2009 3:16:57 PM | "I wonder if he ever reappeared LOL"
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I read in the paper that his body was recently found under his father's house. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2009 4:54:38 PM | Uhhhhhg....this happened to me with the same guy twice. We talked , and went on a couple of dates then poof he was gone for like 5 or 6 months. Then out of the blue, he sends me an email asking how I've been. Hello??? You have my phone number, couldnt you have called and found out how I am? Sooooo we agreed to go on a date again on a Friday night around 8pm. After hearing nothing from him all day, I get ready and wait for him to call. He doesnt call, he sends me a text message at 8:30! Sorry cant make it. And that was that. Needless to say, he's poof again. Or I'm poof this time. I think he may have been married or a girlfriend or something. Thats probably the deal with the guy you were talking to too.  | |
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Posted: 2/11/2009 5:05:58 PM | DON'T DO IT. Delete his number! Block him from contacting you and MOVE ON! Don't let him treat you this way. The LEAST he could have done was to call and cancel and if he just disappears, he'll probably always disappear.
Wait for a guy who is worth your time.
Good luck. | |
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| Count your blessings!
Posted: 2/11/2009 5:31:30 PM | He disappeared again, because he got the hair sample he needed and the baby isn't yours... 
Count your blessings and be glad that you are free to go on with your lives!
Not all good things in life come with ribbons and bows! | |
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