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 culvercityguy

Joined: 10/30/2009
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Posted: 11/7/2009 1:39:01 AM
I am attracted more by brunettes and ASIANS.

Brunettes are hot and asians ride very well.

I used to love to date Blondes, but all ended bad. Now I like brunettes.... never tried Asians though.
 JCBoston69

Joined: 10/18/2009
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Posted: 11/7/2009 2:24:39 AM
CCG, I lived in Thailand for a few years. The women are amazing...polite, well-mannered, well-educated, in shape, and just plain beautiful.

It's been very hard for me to get myself to date here since I got back.
 Britt884

Joined: 3/30/2008
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Posted: 11/7/2009 2:49:11 AM
I'm a natural brunette and have had my hair at both extremes of the spectrum. To me personally, and from what other people have told me, blonde highlights like I have right now suit me the best. I know brunette is my natural color..but I just don't think it looks too good on me. :/
 wild heart

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Posted: 11/7/2009 6:10:31 AM
Okay totally off topic LOL!


The women are amazing...polite, well-mannered, well-educated, in shape, and just plain beautiful.


Yes, and they remind you of the first woman in your life. While most of us won't admit it, we are still stuck on our early views of what a woman/man is. I don't think it's wrong, but many do not even realize that they are still seeking traditional traits in men/women in a world where everyone is trying to act all modern.

This is why so many men of a certain age range prefer asian women. And truth be told, most of these asian women are "princesses". This doesn't mean they are b*tches either. Most men complain they don't want princesses BUT they do. Men raise their daughters to be this way. A man treats his daughter completely different than some strange woman. Think about it. It's been my view that princesses act more feminine. Men are looking for feminine. But who is to blame for the way us North Americans act? Everyone. Who is raising all these unfeminine women? Everyone.

I've had men ask me to their house on a first date. I respond with "would you allow your daughter to do that". Most then look sheepish.
 NappyKAT

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Posted: 11/7/2009 10:45:08 AM

One of my guy friends told me that when a guy enters a room he dose a "blond check" to look and see if there are any blond girls. He said all men want a "hot blond" on their arm. Is this true of all guys? Do all guys realy want a "hot blond"?
Really? Are you serious? All men?

Why don't people realize that stuff like this is race-specific.
It appears that white men may have a preference for blonds, and it may not even be for the blonds but for the fact that blonds are suppose to ditzy, hollowed, and therefore more easily moldable and do anything because they aren't smart and will fall for anything. Maybe they are in love with the stereotype of the blond instead of the blond itseld. Maybe blonds have more fun because since they aren't taken as serious as brunettes and have the steotype of being stupid, then there is just more stuff they can do and get into without thought.

I'm not sure that men of color 'prefer' or think they are more attractive as a blond white woman look no different than a brunette. On black and dark it gives more of a start difference and contrast which is ok and different but is not necissarily 'preferable.'
 JCBoston69

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Posted: 11/7/2009 11:03:44 AM

Why don't people realize that stuff like this is race-specific.
It appears that white men may have a preference for blonds


I'm too lazy to do so, but I think if you tally the responses here, you'll find it's absolutely not true. It's some guy talking out his ass thinking that because HE sees blondes as the end-all/be-all that every other guy thinks the same way. This guy probably adores a woman with a fake set of tits and collagen injections too.
 bump4bump

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Posted: 11/7/2009 11:06:40 AM
Honestly, how often do the sheets really match the curtains?
 NappyKAT

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Posted: 11/7/2009 11:39:12 AM

I'm too lazy to do so, but I think if you tally the responses here, you'll find it's absolutely not true. It's some guy talking out his ass thinking that because HE sees blondes as the end-all/be-all that every other guy thinks the same way. This guy probably adores a woman with a fake set of tits and collagen injections too.
I'm not sure it's actuallytrue either, but it's a common conception among the white media elite - and one generated by them. And many men (white) have fell into the mold of thinking that blonds are preferable, more attractive, or have more fun. Which may be fine but it doesn't really reasonate with all culture and races where blond (bottle or natural) is not preferred or dominant hair color of most females.

My problem was with the word 'all men.' As far as blonds go, it's race subjective. It's like saying 'all women prefer tall dark and handsome.' Again a race-subjective comment geared toward white people. All the men are know are 'dark' since they are men are color and Rudy Valentino isn't 'dark' by comparison. So this comment doesn't apply to me.

If I said 'All men think that relaxed hair is more attractive' - who would a comment like that mostly be geared too? Not 'all men' because relaxing is not common to those aren't black or do not have kinky hair.

Anyway, I couldn't resist. I know what he (the OP) means and who this thread was geared too and I know my comments weren't really for it at all. I humbly leave this thread.

 wonderinone

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Posted: 11/7/2009 11:40:17 AM
I will settle for just plain "hot" thank you......
 Passion Diva Audrey

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Posted: 11/7/2009 11:51:15 AM
I honestly am attracted to the opposite hair color of myself. I always have been and always will too. There is just something about looking at the opposite of yourself that I think most people find appealing.

So In my case, I hope men are attracted to me both for my color of hair and my personality as well.
 JCBoston69

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Posted: 11/7/2009 9:20:14 PM

I'm not sure it's actually true either, but it's a common conception among the white media elite - and one generated by them.


The media elite (white or otherwise) are in la-la land, totally out of touch with any semblance of reality.


My problem was with the word 'all men.' As far as blonds go, it's race subjective.


It was a gross exaggeration even IF one were referring only to the white race. Even if one were intentionally race-specific in such a remark, adjusting it to say MOST men prefer blondes, it would still be a gross exaggeration (probably based on the false media image you referenced).

I'm not saying I don't like blondes...I CAN, but it's far more likely that a darker woman will be attractive to me. And I don't really like the stereotypical California tanned, hardbody blonde. I'm more attracted to the Scandinavian blonde who also has very light skin. For example, I find the actress that plays Natalie on Monk incredibly attractive, but I don't find Jessica Simpson attractive at all.
 valenciacityx

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Posted: 11/7/2009 9:54:07 PM
It was always Ginger or Maryanne. Maryanne you take home once you get rescued, Ginger you try every night until you are rescued.


\flame on
 SexySurfer22

Joined: 11/4/2009
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Posted: 11/8/2009 5:45:51 PM
Ugh I think so, but personally I think brunettes are so much more attractive. If I was a lesbian I'd sooo go for the dark hair haha. I hate blonds...
 Walkingrain

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Posted: 11/8/2009 6:58:08 PM
In one word-

"Testarosa".
 CynthiaMw

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Posted: 11/8/2009 6:59:28 PM

Honestly, how often do the sheets really match the curtains?

 matchlight

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Posted: 11/8/2009 8:40:02 PM
It's not about hair color to me. It's more the whole package I notice. Look at historic movie stars--there have been plenty of stunningly beautiful brunettes and redheads, as well as blondes.
 Walkingrain

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Posted: 11/8/2009 8:48:58 PM
I thought it was "Do the drapes match the carpet."

Maybe that is why all the genital shaving started?
 let5gocrazy

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Posted: 11/9/2009 1:35:25 AM
Nope I prefer a hot dark haired Asian woman or Brunette with ringlets and long hair if possible please. ;)
 helpineedsomeone

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Posted: 11/9/2009 2:12:49 AM
No way woman with dark hair do it for me, i think the whole blonde thing is way over rated. But the more guys that chase blondes leaves the brunettes for me haha
 Jubbz

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Posted: 11/9/2009 6:00:50 AM
no. Brunettes or black do it for me.
 RustyStrummer

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Posted: 11/9/2009 6:05:02 AM
no. at least not the case for me. actually i prefer dark hair... dont know why, just do.
 spicynicegirl

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Posted: 11/9/2009 6:14:05 AM
Sheesh..............I used to be blonde and found I got more attention when I became a brunette...............

It's only hair.............the guy should be looking at the rest of the female - I mean anyone can dye their hair blonde!
 ForRumOnly

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Posted: 11/9/2009 6:37:02 AM
I have preferences, but I'll take whatever I can get! Hair color is so low down on my preferences priorities that I can't even remember what else is of comparable importance.

DIVISION, what's a bush? I think I used to know, but have forgotten.
 wild heart

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Posted: 11/9/2009 8:58:22 AM
Yeah, I'm a blond and have known for a long time that it is not all it is cracked up to be. Most men I like are usually attracted to anything but blondes LOL.

Of course, this does not apply to "once they get to know me", just the first attraction; which in itself is quite important though.
 Bad*MonkeyFunker

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Posted: 11/9/2009 9:06:13 AM
there are some butt ugly blondes out there.....

hair color has nothing to do with attractiveness... I've never seen a woman become "ugly" or "beautiful" by just changing her hair color. Style yes! Color no!
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