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 RSwindol
Joined: 8/25/2005
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I read somewhere many years ago that there is one thing that all men have in common when it comes to sex. And that is, men cannot have an orgasm without feeling some level of superiority over their lovers. The longer I live, the more I agree with this statement.

Superiority is most commonly attained through degradation. This degradation can be carried out in a physical or psychological manor, or even kept to themselves as a mere fantastic idea. Ejaculating on a woman's face is one way for him to degrade his partner and this makes him feel superior and in turn, turns him on. Does the man necessarily have to perform the act? No. In many cases, during sex, a man can imagine these acts in order to find pleasure. But to imagine it is not as great a turn on as actually doing it, and the man will often get bored with the imagination. It's a matter of feeling "in control".

Some men like to be dominated. But even during this time, they are still (in their own minds) feeling a level of disgust for the women which is in itself degrading. They will often think of their mistresses as whores or other detestable figures which will in turn allow them to feel morally or intellectually superior.

Superiority is the biggest turn on for a man, and defacing his partner's face with a load of his man chowder is a sure fire way of gaining that feeling of superiority.
 atlantic50
Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 77
why do guys like to cum on a girl's face?
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:17:33 PM
omg this thread is too damn funny!!!

some of the posts cracked me up big time haha

but in answer to the OP i have no idea but i dont agree its degrading or sadistic wtf, firstly if its done then its agreed by both partners and secondly yeah i guess it can be seen as an act of love or affection even though its a bit 'messy' lol

at the end of the day each to their own if my girl said i dont like it i wouldnt do it, a relationship is about much more than where she lets u blow your load
 o76923
Joined: 11/3/2007
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why do guys like to cum on a girl's face?
Posted: 8/10/2008 8:34:07 PM
So I guess this thread is now: "I agree that men just want to degrade women and are sick."

Can we please talk about an alternate explanation, I get it: men are terrible, can we move on?
 Alexander_86
Joined: 6/8/2008
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why do guys like to cum on a girl's face?
Posted: 8/10/2008 8:56:46 PM
The only Men that are into busting on your face are ones that watch porn to much, that fact is most men want to just have normal sex and not pull out.. just my 2 cents
 chelle18
Joined: 11/21/2006
Msg: 80
why do guys like to cum on a girl's face?
Posted: 8/10/2008 11:57:50 PM
Because they deserve it!

OK A GUY SAID THAT WE DESERVE IT THEN YOU DESERVE A 2 BY 4 TO THE FACE
 crazytimes1
Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 81
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Posted: 8/11/2008 12:05:35 AM
OK A GUY SAID THAT WE DESERVE IT THEN YOU DESERVE A 2 BY 4 TO THE FACE

The caps lock is located between Tab and Shift on the left side of most keyboards, unless you are using a lap top in which case it may be top right. It says Caps Lock on it generally. Press it and enjoy the magic that ensues.
 good guy75
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 82
why do guys like to cum on a girl's face?
Posted: 8/12/2008 8:58:00 AM
i dont do that but for most guys its a turn on its like taking a dump.i hate to say it but its like her take this you stank thats what my freinds tell me.if you do not beliveve me see if he kises you afterwords.
 ilovecartman
Joined: 5/13/2008
Msg: 83
why do guys like to cum on a girl's face?
Posted: 8/12/2008 9:03:09 AM
My face is sacred damnit, worship it not throw up on it.

 Gangster Kitten
Joined: 4/3/2008
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Posted: 8/12/2008 9:15:43 AM
^^ Why not worship it by giving your face the gift of passion?
 jimtash71
Joined: 3/12/2008
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Posted: 8/12/2008 9:21:36 AM

Why not worship it by giving your face the gift of passion?


Why stop there?
 Raging Heart-on
Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 86
why do guys like to cum on a girl's face?
Posted: 8/12/2008 9:44:43 AM
Most men like it when a woman acts like a sex starved animal in the bedroom - especially if she normally has a conservative demeanor. So, for her to allow him to come on her face would be an exciting visual.

Also, if a guy sees it in a porno when he's younger it could be something he wants to someday act out for real.

Personally, I'd rather have a woman cum on MY face...because I'm a sex starved animal.



Edit : of course there's a difference between doing it on rare occasions vs the need to do it on a regular basis.

Also, if two people love eachother and they discuss it ahead of time and both are ok with it as a fun/taboo thing to do then in no way should it be construed as a disrespectful act IMO.

 kristy_clegg1986
Joined: 4/30/2006
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Posted: 8/12/2008 9:48:10 AM
its all about the porn. they see porn stars doing it!!
 Gangster Kitten
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Posted: 8/12/2008 9:49:49 AM

its all about the porn. they see porn stars doing it!!


It's all about the porn, and has absolutely nothing to do with the stimulating visage of seeing the woman you love, covered in the fruits of her labor. Nope, totally not that at all.
 MY OH MY
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 8/12/2008 11:13:49 AM
^^^^yup, because a true woman enjoys feeling her man inside of her enjoying every moment of her, not his hand on himself flying crap on her face or belly. Knowing a man is climaxing inside of you, when you are in a relationship - with someone you care about, can be the most exciting experience known
 Gangster Kitten
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Posted: 8/12/2008 11:23:15 AM
^^ Well that's one woman's perspective. But from one man's perspective (well mine, obviously) the visual image of my spermy wormies on your face is an exciting one, and satisfying.

I'm sure climaxing inside someone is awesome, but even if I was in a relationship, I don't want kids. :(
 MY OH MY
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 8/12/2008 11:35:26 AM
^^^^And if you don't have it covered up prior to entering her, you easily can not only get her pregnant but trade std's. So your playing with yourself holds no water...but yes, I know men that watch too much porno or aren't with women for long periods have a hard time coming to the point unless they are self stimulating.
 Gangster Kitten
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Posted: 8/12/2008 11:40:39 AM
My post did not dictate 'pulling out' and as such, did not exclude the use of condoms in a relationship. Furthermore, I'm thinking more along the lines of Oral stimulation (i'm well aware of the fact that you can get STDs from oral sex, you needn't remind me, and that wasn't a point that I brought up. You did).

And are you truly dictating to me what I should enjoy and shouldn't enjoy in the bedroom, and attributing my preference to lack of experience?

Why I definately am quite inexperienced, I definately know what it is I like. I did not say I wouldn't enjoy orgasming inside of a woman, but I did say I enjoy the visual aspect of seeing it on her.

And obviously, my preferences are purely derived from pornography, and that i've obviously watched way too much porn, despite the fact that I actually do not like porn, and prefer other avenues of sexual material for self-pleasure.
 Katir
Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 93
why do guys like to cum on a girl's face?
Posted: 8/12/2008 1:52:23 PM
For me it's just something different. Period. No special fetish or anything, lol.
 Websmith
Joined: 7/2/2008
Msg: 94
why do guys like to cum on a girl's face?
Posted: 8/12/2008 2:05:02 PM
Here's my theory on it...

If I saw someone who just ate a piece of chocolate cake, and they had cake all over their face, I would assume that that person REALLY likes cake. I think that when a woman allows a man to do this to her, she's showing him that she REALLY enjoys his cum. The guy likes her to do this for the same reason... he wants to believe that she just can't get enough of it, and wants to see her enjoy wallowing in it.
 JasonGrimm
Joined: 6/9/2008
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Posted: 8/12/2008 2:08:11 PM
lol I think Anatasisa Beaverhousen's mailbox must have blew up after that reply

Yup this is just the thing I need in my post history lol!
 MY OH MY
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 96
why do guys like to cum on a girl's face?
Posted: 8/12/2008 2:18:26 PM
I know I need to stop watching this train wreck, but it does make me sad to think that men really don't seem to care if a woman is enjoying him. He only wants to think she enjoys acting like a pig i.e. the word wallow really brings to mind a pig rolling around in mud. Yup, pigs enjoy mud. But wouldn't you prefer a woman enjoying the feelings that are involved? That individual connection can not be duplicated. But I guess maybe I am naive and some men are just about watching them self cum because that is all they have done for years by them self or in front of their porn.
 hardcandylick
Joined: 11/19/2007
Msg: 97
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Posted: 8/12/2008 2:53:59 PM
^^^^ Go get laid and stop bringing the party down. Who says that men don't care that a woman is enjoying him? Oh I know...the kiss @ss wimps and chicas that find it disgusting. No man here with enough guts to admit that he likes doing it said that he uses it as a way to demoralize his lover. And no woman here with the guts to say that she likes it have ever said they feel 'sad' about it. Other than that, people are just joking around. Grow some thicker skin.

Oh and another thing: Just in case you didn't know, most guys like it when the girl is directing the shots. The fact that she would shoot it on her face would send most guys to the moon, figuratively speaking. Smacking it around, drizzling it, licking it, playing with it and blowing bubbles, then to gulp it....mon amour. I'm pretty sure this stuff was happening before porn was around. You think this stuff was made up recently? People have been fvckin' for ages and doing all types of crazy naked sh!t. Even your mom fvcks, right?



its all about the porn. they see porn stars doing it!!

This from a girl who likes having a tongue piercing to increase the pleasure of oral sex. Ummm....you want it down the hatch instead? I'm pretty sure every guy on the face of the Earth doesn't mind accommodating that request for their chick. Open wide.....

New rule: The next guy who states he hates it & mentions porn has to run two laps, do 100 pushups and then grow some balls.
 somethingsmissing
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 8/12/2008 3:12:05 PM
Well I would have to say its every guys dream to be a porn star .... weather we would ever tell our loved ones that lol.
So we act out in our bedrooms what erotic fantasies run through our minds.

I think its really hot to just go where the moment take you ... if a girl i was dating whispered in my ear for me to cum on her face I guess it might turn me on a little more which in turn would make my *&%$ throb harder and then she would be having a better time too right?

Its like talking "dirty" doesn't it turn us all on a little in the heat of the moment?
 jrbickers123
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Posted: 8/12/2008 5:10:40 PM
are you speaking from personal experience? or from watching way too much porn? cause it sounds like the later.
 o76923
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Posted: 8/12/2008 7:10:50 PM
So, this is probably post number eleventy bajillion blaming the desire to cum on a girl's face on porn. But Why is it popular in porn? I somehow doubt that there is some massive conspiracy in the porn industry to just make men do silly things because they think it's normal. If that were the case there'd be a line of porn dedicated to voting for Kucinich while getting some.

Instead, porn, like any other art, immitates life (in some way). In this case, porn is imitating a desire. Why is that desire there? (No, degrading women is not the answer, if it was we only had to read the first two posts so the thread would've died already).
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