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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 2:57:50 PM | Oh my goodness girl........there are so many signs to watch for while dating online. If he can only meet you certain days of the week or short times on the weekend....Hello, married or involved. When a woman contacts you.....she has been with him for 17 years, they are BOTH crazy. RUN, don't look back!
Just a bit of advice, my dad always told me.....if a man will cheat on another woman with you.....he will do it TO YOU twice as fast! Take the girlfriends advice, leave it all alone. Unless you are looking for drama and heartache. If you are, then by all means, stay on it. You will end up with it!  | |
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:00:10 PM | I assume that his girlfriend is some kind of drama queen who seems to thrive on the tension and drama that results from having a relationship with a serial womaniser.
A stable-minded woman would have nothing to do with him. | |
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:08:48 PM | | MEET HIMSHE COULD BE AN ANGRY EX LET HIM KNOW SHE CONTACTED YOU BE HONEST TO HIM SHE IS IN THE DOG HOUSE GO FOR IT | |
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:11:54 PM | | Simaler thing happend to me when i sent this guy i was seeing for several mths a message on yahoo she read it and when she confronted him he denied it all!I had all the texts saved and all the archives...She knew who was lying and still stays with him!!!!Some women have no clue and dont really care i guess .p.s i had no idea he had another gf :( | |
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Orzula
| | Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 32 | |
| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:14:20 PM |
Thanks for sharing that. Your story is even worse! He had a baby at home...jeeze, I hope she ditched him.
I've only been on this site for about 6 weeks and I'm beginning to wisen up already! I can be so naive sometimes.... | |
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:18:19 PM | Have you talked to this guy on the phone? Perhaps it was this woman all along and now deciding to meet she used this sham of being the gf. Just saying.............. Worse things have happened on here.
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:18:20 PM | hi Ben^^^that was quite a statement you made to me, and No need for it either...thankYou...(no i dont 'live my life in a constant state of fear'...what an unwarranted thing to say..).. i DO 'enjoy as much of it as i can'... back to the OP's little pickle...she just needs to be careful, as a cheated-on woman is unpredictable...Thankyou,Ben for your thoughts, most of your posts are quite insightful.. peace...    | |
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Orzula
| | Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 35 | |
| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:19:56 PM |
Well, be sure to ley us know what happens!.
Oh you can bet I will
I've got another question....can't anyone begin a black-list on here? I mean is that allowed...I've read so many stories about married men posing as single or con artists looking for their next victim. Surely if people knew about these 'bandits' it would stop a lot of heartache and misery. Otherwise they can take their spoils and move on to the next poor unsuspecting victim with no-one to stop them. | |
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Orzula
| | Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 36 | |
| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:21:19 PM |
Have you talked to this guy on the phone? Perhaps it was this woman all along and now deciding to meet she used this sham of being the gf. Just saying.............. Worse things have happened on here..
Oh my god, no I haven't spoken to him....this doesn't bare thinking about  | |
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MizQ
| | Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 37 | |
| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:21:46 PM | ^^You can report his profile to the moderators. http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingForum4.aspx
It says "if you need to report someone" | |
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Orzula
| | Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 38 | |
| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:24:45 PM |
^^You can report his profile to the moderators. http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingForum4.aspx
It says "if you need to report someone".
Thanks for that, that could be useful for when he eventually contacts me! I'll hang his arse out to dry | |
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:26:05 PM | I've got another question....can't anyone begin a black-list on here? I mean is that allowed... You cannot start a public "blacklist" to name and shame other users.
But, if you have proof of a person lying on their profile about their marital status, report it privately.
There is a clickable link at the bottom of emails to report them.
Use it.
Thanks for that, that could be useful for when he eventually contacts me! What the f.. ?
What do you mean "eventually" contacts you?
Haven't you been exchanging emails with him for several weeks? | |
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Orzula
| | Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 40 | |
| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 3:54:36 PM |
But, if you have proof of a person lying on their profile about their marital status, report it privately.
There is a clickable link at the bottom of emails to report them.
Use it..
She said she was his girlfriend so he's not married...still I think a relationship of 17 years is as close as it gets. I will use the report button from now on...thanks.
What the f.. ?
What do you mean "eventually" contacts you?
Haven't you been exchanging emails with him for several weeks?.
As far as I know, he doesn't know that I've spoken to his g/f... I'm waiting to see if he contacts me, he usually sends at least one mail a day as I do with him. It's my turn to mail him but since I found the mail from his g/f, obviously I haven't replied to his mail from yesterday. I'm waiting to see if he contacts me. I'm beginning to get the idea that his other half has beaten the living crap out of him  | |
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 4:06:28 PM | "This morning I found a message from his girlfriend of 17 years warning me that he is a serial womaniser."
That doesn't add up. Who would say with someone for 17 years in that situation... unless they had an open relationship... but if they did have an open relationship, she wouldn't pull a stunt like that.
I say that at the very least you should talk to him on the phone and tell him about your conversation with her and hear his side of the story... You're not gonna get burned with a simple phone call and letting someone tell their side of things. | |
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 4:08:41 PM | blondago56: I take the time to read and think about a post before I respond. And, like women, I respond by how you come across to me. So, if I sounded offensive, then I apologize. That one particular post of yours made me think that the sky was falling! lol. And maybe it is! But, i'm not gonna fret over it.
By the way, thanks for stopping by and checking out my extensively long profile! I hope that it didn't take too long to read. But, it's saturday, so you should have a had plenty of time! lol
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Orzula
| | Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 43 | |
| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/9/2008 4:14:52 PM |
"This morning I found a message from his girlfriend of 17 years warning me that he is a serial womaniser." .
Exactly! It doesn't add up...thats why I'm giving him the opportunity to contact me and enlighten me! I'm not going to phone, I haven't spoken to him on the phone yet and I'm not going to now. We've exchanged a lot of mail and I'll give him a chance to try to explain this to me....if he doesn't bother to contact me, then I know he knows he's busted and wouldn't want to waste a phone call on him anyway...does that make sense...well it does to me, so there  | |
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/10/2008 12:13:27 AM | | The thing is, even if she's sincere and sounds genuine...do you want to invite this kind of chaos and drama? I'd chalk it up as "one of those things that happen" and move on. It's better than getting mixed up, even if it's just a little bit, in a sticky situation that you might regret. | |
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/10/2008 1:17:14 AM | | Op, why are you waiting for him to explain his side, if he ever does contact you? Ask yourself whether or not you would want to continue with someone who has a crazy ex who would make your life miserable. That is, if she isn't his girlfriend. Sure, he may be a great guy. There are plenty of them out there. So why get involved with the drama of an ex. (again, if she isn't an ex) So either call him, email him, or just block his emails. Either way, this screams of red flags and you should move on. You haven't even met yet so you are not in a relationship and you don't owe him anything. Just think about what you want in your life. This kind of drama probably isn't something you'd choose. | |
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/11/2008 5:53:39 AM | You guys blew a great opportunity to punk this guy. You should have worked it out where SHE showed up for coffee insteat of you! 
Mark
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/11/2008 8:28:58 AM |
I have had two wive's give me a call and email. It happens... shake it off and move one. If he is in the dog house.... good. Don't worry about it and move on. Can you say cheater?
There are too many guys out there that cheat and don't care about the consequences. I found out I was being cheated on when I got an STD. When Iconfronted him the guy acted like it was no big deal. Like it was my problem! End of that relationship. | |
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| His girlfriend sent me a message
Posted: 8/11/2008 1:19:44 PM | there are alot of strange things that happen on here. I've had a few emails from women warning me about men on here.
I think the girlfriend sticks with them because they haevnt as yet got the strength together to leave and in the same breath dont want anyone else to get hurt.
Have you thought that the 'girl' writing to you could actually be him and he is playing mind games.
My x had 3 msn addresse and one night came on on 2 of them. I asked why he was on 2 profiles and he said the other wasnt him and that his profile had be 'hijacked'. i spoke to both and on the other profile he pretended to be somone else.
You have to be very careful on here.
This person is still on here and I'm sure he will continue to play mind games with women.
Whatever the message said dont you think its strange she has access to his account. | |
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