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Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 101 | |
| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 8/31/2008 10:33:07 PM | VakyxClone talks like Buddah
my hearth got shaken what he wrote. Let me go get a huge towel to swipe off me tears. . . .
Are you studying buddism man?
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 12:10:00 AM | It is a much different experience for people who lost a long term relationship to death rather than losing one to getting burned. Maybe it is easier for them to believe in happily ever after because the end was not a choice made by the other side.
Do I believe? I am working on it....  | |
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 2:20:35 AM | | I can relate to this you are hoping and seeing what you want in someone that maynot exactly be anything at all like your creating in your mind. I suppose hoping that either that high school sweet heart that got away, or that girl that you couldn't please. Which you completely don't see the person your actually going out with. I hope that makes sense... I think alot of relationships go wrong because the communication isn't there, and playing psyhic, or assuming how someone else feels, you've already lost.... I dunno.. I have become jaded I guess...dunno | |
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Sky666
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Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 105 | |
| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 2:56:31 AM | | I feel the same! Some time I miss this feeling of love, but now I am OK, much better just friens! May some sex some time - not loveLOL! | |
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 6:02:20 AM | It always reminds me of the song by Meatloaf "2 out 3 ain't bad", I want u , I need u, but I will never love you. I'm full quotes today....and how are we all still getting together after being so scated of 1 night stands, yadda yadda... alcohol! or prexrips'
Lmao...anyway thats my 2 cents.... | |
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 7:00:48 AM | | Yes I do. I feel that if love is meant to be, it will come, if it isnt than i am prepared to live out my life without the love of a man. | |
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 7:04:21 AM | In order to have faith in love you must trust - well, after ALMOST being taken in by a scammer on this site, I have a hard time learning to trust again. Hell, I look at all these men's photos and wonder, "Is he real, or he is just another scammer?" If I can't get passed a PHOTO, how do I expect to believe anything that's written in his profile?!
For now, I can answer this question as "I USED to have faith in love and I hope to again someday soon," but right now, nope. I don't have faith in love OR trust! Personally, I'm begging this scar to go away and go away FAST! I never used to be this way. But, then again, maybe I trusted TOO quickly and this is the lesson I must learn. So, who knows. Maybe I WILL have faith in love again...I just hope it doesn't take forever to get there. I'm certainly not getting any younger! | |
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X-Lu
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Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 110 | |
| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 7:10:05 AM | Yes, we still can have faith in love instead seeking self punishment in threads  Just face the mirror first. An individual that loves first himself learns and believes in love.
Men are human beings like women or whatever the gender and other cultural - societal ramifications, the base (or tree trunk) is the human specie, so, men also have feelings, and also same conflicting thoughts... they feel the same and they're as beautiful as women. 
Though, first give yourself a chance... Ms. Independent... (Kelly Clarkson). 
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 7:18:27 AM | | Faith in love...I have faith Jesus loves me. The Bible tells me so. Everyone else pays cash on the barrelhead. Either peeps love you, or they don't. What's to believe? | |
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 7:31:51 AM | I don't know if true love really exists or not. I thought I found it twice but I was wrong. It's seems that now days all men want is to get their d**k wet. They don't really give a rats about the woman's feelings. They'll say all the love words but most of them just use those words to get what they want and then move on. I'm a cynic now and don't believe in the words. I have to be shown. As they say: Actions speak louder than words.
The other thing that bothers me about online dating is that men seem to be so afraid of rejection that they'd rather sit behind a computer and have cyber sex instead of actually meeting a woman in person. I could be wrong though. Maybe they've just become so narcissistic that they enjoy taking care of their own physical needs rather than get involved with someone.
I'm the type of person who tells the men who contact me that I need to meet them in person within two weeks of online contact. If they give me an excuse as to why they can't possibly meet, I don't waste my time on them. Call me a b***h but I'm tired of men trying to play me online. That's my two cents on this subject. | |
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X-Lu
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Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 113 | |
| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 7:52:34 AM | ^^^^Love's sake! They, they, they, those and these bad men out there!!! Ewww...
What's about you (YOU YOU YOU) baby? Stop this blame shifting and finger pointing... Are you sitting in there looking outside and expecting them with the magic wand to "touch you with it" and transform yourself in love??? Hmmmm? Boy, it really gets deep and down... ew.
Love will never gonna happen for you if you do not love yourself first... Do not wonder the negative anymore, take a positive attitude and research yourself within for love.
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epg123
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Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 114 | |
| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 12:21:22 PM | | I'm going to tell my story. I was married for 3 years. I was with the woman for 5. I raised her son as my own since he was 8 months old and we had a child as well. About 2 months ago I found out that she was having an affair so I packed up the boys and took them to my mother's. At around 4AM I decided to come home and work things out. We've been married and have 2 kids and everyone makes mistakes. Well I got there and she was in bed with a different man than the one she was having an affair with. So to cut to the chase, do I still believe in love? Absolutely. I believe in it because I have it and I know there is someone out there that feels the same way. My ex wife just wasn't her. In the end she will be the one alone with multiple STDs and I'll have my son. Someday I might find the right one but at this point I don't really care to bring anyone around. On another note, a l0t of these thread are man bashing. I know more men that are faithful to their significant others than women. | |
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 12:36:43 PM | How can you NOT BELIEVE in LOVE if you have ever loved. I have loved to the point of FORGIVENESS, loved to the point of giving my last dollar, loved unconditionally. Look within yourselves and if you have never LOVED, then maybe your right. Love doesn't exist. I have loved so I know it does. I wish I could have recieived that same love from the one I loved, but that's on him.
I will find it one day, will settle for no less. Money, friendships, possessions can not replace love.
LOVE DOES CONQUER ALL IF BOTH PARTIES ARE IN LOVE. I have seen it happen, and still have FAITH that it will happen for me. | |
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 12:44:28 PM | | I know exactly how you feel...and I think I'm a little older than you...in fact I just had one of those "maybe this time" affairs of the heart...my very first 'love' tracked me down...he lives far away so we had this e-mail/phone thing going on...and my heart went right back to 'hope', and 'trust', and 'desire'...alas, all too soon I discovered he was emotionally unavailable, had no idea how to communicate, although I gave him lots of opportunity and even made up excuses for him...will I ever learn?...obviously not. I have a great life, great friends, and according to sources (guys and girls) am not too hard on the eyes...:) I, too, am lots of fun, financially OK, emotionally strong, attractive, and considered quite a catch...I'd like to share my life with a man who wants to do some of the things I like to do...not every waking moment, you know, an intimate, caring relationship...I want to believe "he's" out there somewhere...in the meantime, I'll live my life - Life is a daring adventure or nothing at all!! - and keep that little bit of hope tucked away somewhere, ready to be hauled out, if and that's a big "if", he ever shows up. Hang in there girlfriend!! | |
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 5:01:34 PM | Well despite the few unfortunate "educational" experiences I've had in the past with men, yes I do still have faith in love.
If I don't fall in love again, will my life be any less significant? Less important? Less meaningfull? The answer is an unequivical NO.
I don't want to have darkness in my heart, instead I would rather keep that glimmer of hope that perhaps, maybe. someday, love will find its way to me again. Until then, life does go on and it's how "I" make things happen in my life, that matters most.
Don't give up there OP!! If your friends describe you the way you say they do, then YOUR prince charming just hasn't arrived yet,,,,,,,,,,but he will! Til then, kiss a few more frogs, pooh pooh those jerks and loosers and just go on to enjoy your life. | |
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/1/2008 5:17:48 PM | Yes I still do believe. But remember that before you find love and love finds you, you will have to like the other person and vice versa.
You need to be in love and also love, the 2 combined together.
It's hard to find the right person in this life as we all go through it. Someone we click with. No one is perfect, you must compromise sometimes to balance things out in a relationship. It's a give and take situation.
You accept them for who they are, faults and all. That is also love. You also gain trust as they gain your trust, it takes time. You are friends before you can be anything else. Falling in love, you still are their friend, confidant, etc. You're there for each other, through the good and bad times. Never take each other for granted, that is when the respect for each other flies out the window.
You'll know when you are loved and in love. It takes time. When it happens. | |
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/7/2008 9:54:12 PM | Do I still have faith in love - absolutely!!
Don't know when it will happen but I am sure it will and with the right person.
Until then I enjoy my family and friends and the love they give me.
Love comes in many forms, not just the romantic type and those relationships are just as important to me.
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/7/2008 11:09:47 PM | romantic love!! nope, 100% do not believe in it
the other forms of love! yes!
I love my dog and I love that i am almost done with my education. | |
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L.D.
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Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 123 | |
| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/7/2008 11:22:59 PM | If you lose faith in love, you break contact with the divine. That's not just some idea; it's quantum physics. Read a book called "God Is Not Dead" by Amit Goswami (a physicist) and you'll see. I've met the great loves of my life when I was focused on doing things for people, not so much looking. I had in mind the type of person I wanted to be with, but was busy living my life and focused on activities that were broader than my own self and my desires. I could write a long paragraph about this but yes, I maintain my faith that I'll be with just the right person, but I have no idea when. And that's OK, because don't we want timeless love? | |
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| Do you still have faith in love?
Posted: 9/8/2008 7:11:36 AM | | well . its a bitter twisted world but im sure deep down we all have faith. got to or not worth going on is it. lots of players and we all can spot them but we like the excitement. well im a bit long int he tooth for games . so good luck and hope for the best x | |
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