| Is your new BF/GF still logging onto POF?
Posted: 9/1/2008 12:25:14 PM | Hes addicted to the "fresh" attention! Women are bad about this, they just dont want to stop reading the sweet e-mails and come back to reality.
I do have this conversation ,with a woman im interested in, BEFORE we start dateing.
Lose him hes "hooked" on P.O.F. | |
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| Is your new BF/GF still logging onto POF?
Posted: 9/1/2008 12:30:05 PM |
I'm wondering if any of you fellow POF'ers have had the issue of finding your new love-interest logging onto POF daily.
No, because I have an ample supply of self esteem..
not to mention how much "I" myself like reading and posting in the forums. | |
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| Is your new BF/GF still logging onto POF?
Posted: 9/4/2008 2:51:46 PM | | I have a friend that found her bf on POF 2 years ago. She still logs on to talk with other people. She never has any intentions of dating them. She's engaged now and still comes on. This is like her myspace. He knows about it and he has no problem with it. | |
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| Is your new BF/GF still logging onto POF?
Posted: 9/10/2008 8:04:25 AM | So you let him know how you feel and he got defensive and even lied. And you have a funny feeling but you are not willing to move on to greener pastures (correct me if I'm wrong).
Well then girl, use it to your advantage! Stop dwelling on what he is doing, and give yourself green light to keep your options open, by the time this hard headed moron realizes what it really is out there, you will be so overloaded with tempting options, you'd have to slap your head and pause a sec before remembering his correct name.
Goodness, if I was in your situation, I'd let him to go and keep on looking. You know love is like war, if you get distracted looking at the bushes, your azz might get shot in the neck.
Wisen up and don't stay sitting on the bench. If he wants to be a player, you get up and play too. Doubts and second guessing is the very one thing you won't have when its real. | |
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| Is your new BF/GF still logging onto POF?
Posted: 10/12/2008 5:35:33 PM | I have a fairly healthy self esteem for the most part. But I'm not stupid, and I don't play games.
If someone I'm seeing wants to keep their profile on POF, so be it...as long as they make it clear that they are staying on and the reasons why.
My radar starts going off if they are telling me they've deleted their profile, or it's a "friend" using their profile, or they switch their pics on a regular basis and then change the text in their profile.
As I've said on occasion...there are easier ways to find people to sleep with than messing with their heads on POF.
Grow up. | |
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| Is your new BF/GF still logging onto POF?
Posted: 11/3/2008 6:49:46 AM | | I whole heartedly agree with you. If a relationship has even a glimmer of a chance of being sucessful, then one needs to put all their effort into that relationship, and not keep that proverbial door open for looking to see if "the grass is greener". I am one of those rare people that believes it is a hard work and not some magical thing that makes a long lasting, happy, secure, and loving relationship. I also believe that people tend to ignore, including me in the past, those red flags that are obvious after a relationship fails. People tend to ignore those negative or suspicious feelings they have about their new partner and chalk it up to some some odd excuse that you don't know the person well enough to make a judgement call. When those things happen, then yell at yourself to listen to your gut instinct, and then run like hell and be proud of doing the right thing. | |
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| Is your new BF/GF still logging onto POF?
Posted: 11/3/2008 7:07:13 PM | | Or maybe he was just appraising his value on the open market. I did that a lot in my previous relationships. It gave me an extra ego boost whenever I saw that I would be hot stuff if I were single, and an even better ego boost for me because my then love had something special, which made our relationship even more special. | |
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