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| They Say It Is A Mans World, How Can It Be When The Likes Of This Happens?
Posted: 8/27/2008 2:34:03 PM | | D*ckhead, don't like the answers, don't ask the questions. You posted on a public forum, you stated your story, many people gave you insight, including me. If your delusional enough to want to hear it only one way, good luck! Now next time this happens, and it WILL happen again, think about what we told you. Bob | |
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Joined: 8/7/2008
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| They Say It Is A Mans World, How Can It Be When The Likes Of This Happens?
Posted: 8/27/2008 10:25:22 PM |
Why is it women can pick us men up and drop us when they want, come back pick us up again and then propose and make statements like this one, it was in response to this poem I wrote?
the only reason this may happen to any man is because he is simply an assshole.
ps I can't find any funny posts here to have some some fun, why people here got so serious? | |
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Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 55 | |
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| They Say It Is A Mans World, How Can It Be When The Likes Of This Happens?
Posted: 8/29/2008 1:46:24 PM | | I can relate somewhat to this story, but it's only my own fault. Usually I love someone without expecting anything back. I do expect common things like respect. When I was in a relationship last, I can only blame myself for some of the mistakes. We both made them. This is life. I knew the signs and wanted what I wanted. LOL. We live and learn, For the next relationship I carry that knowledge with me and can care for that person even more because of it. You feel left behind and hurt, but your not. This day is the day you need to live. | |
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| They Say It Is A Mans World, How Can It Be When The Likes Of This Happens?
Posted: 8/30/2008 7:32:29 AM | | Mark, you have given an explanation for what you did and said you were sorry. But, there are several things that would have caused me great concern in your girlfriend's situation. You were out of control, very out of control to the point of not remembering lots of things. You put lives at risk as a result, not intentionally I might add. You will have seriously scared them. They will be asking: ' Why did he do this?', Is this one of many possible future occasions?', 'Why wouldn't he listen to reason?', 'If he behaves in a way that risks lives, then how can we ever trust him?'. Basically, they will have freaked out over this. Whatever your reasons and however exceptional this was, it scared them. People do not forget fear. The only way they are going to forgive you is if you can convince them it was exceptional and that you are aware of the fear it must have caused and regret it deeply. Even then, I think I would find it hard to forgive. I would feel I saw a different side to the person I thought I knew. I would feel I didn't want to see it again. Being totally contrite and acknowledging that something went very wrong is the only way they will listen to you. Sorry, but that's the truth. They may decide to cut their losses and not face such a frightening situation again. Whatever happens, you need to look ahead for yourself now. You can forgive yourself and resolve never to allow yourself to lose control like this again. I'd suggest seeing a therapist to find out why you did, otherwise this is going to hang over you like a black cloud. Good luck! | |
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| They Say It Is A Mans World, How Can It Be When The Likes Of This Happens?
Posted: 8/30/2008 8:47:04 AM | Both men and women are guilty of this. I see stuff like this here all the time with mostly women in this little po-duck town. The story is as old as can be, but we can learn from it if we allow ourselves what the experience teaches. It is just like a drug and you are addicted. Shrek, when he is with this person is happy and enjoys life and when he is without her he is sad and depressed, um, hello, this is similar to withdrawls. The pain so bad that he wants to end it and the saddness he endures is excrusciating (sp). Shrek, you got to kick this habit, unfortunately cold-turkey. You are making some good choices such as seeking professional help is a start, but you have to continue with those good choices. Cigarettes is a good similarity, when you quit smoking, most people throw the pack away, did you delete her phone number, email address, etc.? Also, think about a move and fresh start somewhere new i.e. change your environment. Find a hobby that other friends can do with you, take a drawing class, join a club, etc. Occupy your mind with other things and the pain will go away eventually. Hey, I went through it with a woman who hurt me real bad, I lost my house, my convertable, my career and myself. I'm a 3 year survivor, trust me the pain goes away.
Good luck to Shrek. | |
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| They Say It Is A Mans World, How Can It Be When The Likes Of This Happens?
Posted: 8/30/2008 9:26:57 AM | yesterday
when life was young
the taste of life was sweet like raindrops on my tongue
I laughed at life and played thou it was a game.
yesterday
when I was young
author unknown
These right of passage we all address as some point along lifes highway
if you have been lying to yourself along the way ~~ you have little except disappointment for company.
The truth will make you whole and set you free ~ of such thoughts of forlorn.
Dance | |
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