| How do i get men to see my brain instead of my body?
Posted: 6/23/2005 12:25:31 AM | | I agree with you. One needs to display intelligence in order to have that aspect of yourself respected. Yes, we men are at first visually oriented maybe more so than women. (Although I'm not all too sure about that after working in an office full of women and listening well). But we (at least I) quickly will be bored at a lack of substance. | |
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| How do i get men to see my brain instead of my body?
Posted: 6/23/2005 3:31:34 PM | myaright- that was uncalled for.
I did not ever once say i sunbmitted to these beliefs- but apparently its whats on the surface that counts eh?....
likewise, i dont know how to upload photos on this thing..and YES i have maybe three on my comp, rather i dont have the innitiative to actually find the capacity to sit down and figure how to upload a "browsed" image that needs to be "shrunk down" in order to put it on here. Who cares..you know who i am from reading my profile, far better than any picture could suffice. I dont doubt that you after actually reading it know what im saying,but i do doubt youll admit it.
I care about appearance, i dont deny it, but i also dont hide behind it or the stability one gets from being with someone whos "hot" <------that is the kind of materialism that i do loath. It is far better to me if the person im sharing time with can actually use the same level of intellect as i can.Great i can sit there and stare at how pretty you are...but whats the good of that if everything i say goes in one ear and out the other...substance is FAR more important than image.
regardless of all this- i really do hate to argue, and pass time that way so ill apologize....im sorry mother of two..you DO make a very valid point and i do accept your view. Perhaps i did make a call in the dark that was....well....in the dark to be short. | |
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| How do i get men to see my brain instead of my body?
Posted: 6/23/2005 3:35:54 PM | Do the ladies really fall for a lot of the touchy feely stuff I see from some of the netsters? I see the same guys over and over being supportive and sweet on a lot of forums. Its like a recorded pickup line.
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| How do i get men to see my brain instead of my body?
Posted: 6/23/2005 10:56:15 PM | | Well, a lot of men are shallow. None of my pics are the least bit provocative, yet about half the email I get is of a sexual nature. If a man writes something you don't like, just ignore him. If he keeps on writing, block him. | |
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| How do i get men to see my brain instead of my body?
Posted: 6/26/2005 4:16:08 PM | ooommaadoll does that really get them to look at your brain? or just look down to see where the thong ought to have been? lmao
O.T. Intelligence is noticed by most men. In fact the lack there of, is usually a turn off...that being said... we can appreciate all your attributes, it's when the appreciation is limited to strictly to that area, then there's a problem... perhaps the problem is the other way round, maybe you're meeting men who have no brains? Or perhaps you're over sensitive to the fact that a man can be attracted to your intellect, as well as your other attributes? The reason I say most men notice your mind is that, there are 24 hrs in a day, 7 days in a week, 365 days in a year, and out of the average week...how many of those hours are spent in physical gratification? Leaves on heck of alot of hours in a day to fill...with someone who you don't find mentally stimulating... I've dated some beautiful women, who left me totally incapacitated mentally, and were a true challenge to keep up with, which made it interesting, and I've some that really had not a lot to say...needless to say...that didn't last very long.
Hope it helps!
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| How do i get men to see my brain instead of my body?
Posted: 6/26/2005 5:21:03 PM | I honestly dont know what to tell you about that.
First sight of attraction is physical.
Though if he doesn't show interest in your brain, then he never will. If he show's a lot of interest in your brain, I would still leave especially if he is a neuro surgen.
Other than that, see how well he can look at you, rather then your body when he speaks to you. Other then that, common interest, find out what he likes. Usually it's cars, and building things that explode.
Though, makes me wonder what you have to say that could spark interest in your mind. Cause so far I haven't seen or heard alot to make me interested in your mind. | |
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| How do i get men to see my brain instead of my body?
Posted: 6/26/2005 9:44:00 PM | | Hi Blastkist and other girls (most of the guys on this forum are trying to defend themselves), How many guys have you had wanting to know, more about your job or chosen career? The only ones I get who are interested, are the mature males. Discussing each other's life's calling is a wonderful talking point...it can lead to so many other things--like eventually endulging in my favorite relaxation. Sincerely Suzzanne | |
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