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Posted: 9/7/2008 1:59:06 PM | You want to be with your kids.
You need air, water, food - and clothing/shelter.
Words have meanings, learn them and apply them properly.
Inability to support your self is worse than not being with your kids.
Losing your self - as you put it, is worse than losing your children.
By the way, we don't 'lose our self' - we let our self go, it was a choice.
Go back to your values and rebuild.
When you have your self together, you can work towards anything, not until then.
Been there, and working toward same.
Best wishes to you. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2008 7:01:35 PM | | thanks repair guy, i wish the best for you aswell in your ventures. Bit by Bit things will always turn for the best. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2008 7:55:30 PM | I fully agree with gonebatty. I left Chicago and gave up my profession, my friends, my family to be with my husband in Toronto. And at that time, I had a more stable career than him but being separated for several months and more was not our idea of marriage.
I think the wife has made up her mind and may already have found a replacement. I don't believe any devoted wife who really loves her hubby would be so self-centered to make him sacrifice for the whole family knowing he would be unable to support them if he follows her dictates. One has to be willing to compromise to make a marriage work. It is a two-way street but there are times when at least one of you have to remember that it is not a me situation but a we issue to keep the family intact. | |
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