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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 11/14/2008 3:54:21 PM | I'd have it 24/7 right now.
I wasn't always like this and from what I understand, I'll get to the point that I don't want it anymore, so that frustrates me even more!!!
Whatever that chemical release is you get from it... it is so relaxing.
Makes me a much happier person.
(Haven't been too happy lately  ) | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 11/14/2008 4:13:58 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.....................................................
UH-HUH!!!
Mediumfoot.. you had a method for your madness!!!
Now.. I see why you said the things you did!
You are a bad boy! Or.. one smart cookie!
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
I believe.. for you sir.. that would be a.. YES! | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 11/14/2008 6:31:00 PM | Sex is great as long as you don't think it's more important then really loving and caring about someone!
I totally agree with this. If you are with somebody you are not happy with the sex is going to be wham bam thank you mam, but if you really care about the other person and are really into them, the sex is going to be hot.
To answer the ? For me it isn't half as important as it used to be. The older I get I am looking for that female companionship to go out for drinks or dinner, sit on the couch and chat, make dinner. You name it. If we have all that , later that evening is going to be even better. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 11/14/2008 10:52:31 PM | In my age range, I find it so sad all the men that tell me about how awful of lacking that area was with theirex-wife :roll eyes:
but on that note, I can relate, sadly But life's only gotten better after 30 - he he.
But Sex has never been more important that the person I'm with, but is always a great way to express oneself. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 11/15/2008 6:36:53 AM | Sex: Do I even rem? Yep! Still rem;still important;two people helps the process Not man vs. woman or the other way. Two equals on the same page and of the opposite gender is the way I will always remember | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 11/15/2008 9:00:42 AM | | Sex used to be important because sex is what life demands us to do in order for life to continue. It is a powerful instinct. Now that I am old and sexually defunct I have the luxury of hatching crackpot theories to explain why nobody wants me in their pants anymore. I have been let go by sex, released from its reproductive imperative. I am no longer a slave to the next generation. That next generation is here and it and it's mothers do not want me anywhere near it or them. You all are welcome to your own views. Mine suit me. I am in sexual retirement. I have resigned from the madness that is courtship and romance. I seek companionship that is about good will and pleasure. Sex is the least of it. But women my age tend to be horny, finally, and they want young men who can perform and elevate their own self-esteem. So not only has sex become unimportant, women have too, and relationships and what's left is the few years remaining of solitary amusements. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 11/15/2008 10:16:19 AM | The post above mine is so sad!!And he's only 49? I'm sad for all who feel so hopeless like that. I'll never get to that point. Good will and "pleasure"? Guess he never found pleasure in sex. So sad!  | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/4/2008 6:44:49 PM | | It's more important, now that having kids is out of the way and fear of pregnancy is gone it is really fun. When my kids were younger I could never relax and the Ex was rarely interested in me. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/4/2008 7:08:51 PM | | Yes, it is important and probably more so than before. I agree with someone else who said that now we don't have the concern about getting pregnant when we didn't want to. Although we do have to take care about disease. Unfortunately, it became an obligation instead of a show of love. It's difficult to want to share intimacies when you've been dismissed, demeaned, etc. under the guise of humor and then being told I was too sensitive and/or had no sense of humor. I've had a couple of longish-term relationships since my divorce and the intimacies were wonderful and sometimes couldn't get enough. But, that was because the rest of the relationship was going well. Some people need to understand that foreplay includes EVERYTHING that comes before hitting the sack each day. Being kind, considerate, respectful, accepting, and loving to each other is imperative. For me anyway! | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/4/2008 7:40:28 PM |
It's more important, now that having kids is out of the way and fear of pregnancy is gone it is really fun. When my kids were younger I could never relax and the Ex was rarely interested in me.
Yes, I know what you mean, the kids... the ex not being interested...but all that's behind me now.... but I do know now what it's like to be in a very passionate relationship, I truly found out what I had been missing all those years...but as fate would have it...we were not destined to be together...and now that I have all those freedoms.... I'm not in a relationship....aargh
...maeflowers | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/4/2008 7:51:18 PM | When I was young and foolish I equated satisfying sex with true love. Now I know the two don't necessarily go hand and hand, but it sure is worth it when it does.
I think I savor it more now and appreciate it for the gift it is. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/4/2008 8:48:22 PM | I have been in a sexless relationship before, so yes, I could do it, if I really loved the guy, and he was affectionate in every other way. In the case I'm talking about, he was very affectionate, very attentive, and he still 'turned me on' very much, so it was much more than 'just friends'.
Now I am in a relationship where sex plays a very important part and there is no way I would 'want' to be without....but....if something were to happen where he could no longer perform....we would get around it. It sure wouldn't break us up.
~DC~ | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/4/2008 9:11:04 PM | | Sex is very important and I couldn't be in a relationship without it. I have a lot of platonic friends, I don't want my bf to be platonic too. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/5/2008 11:38:31 AM | readyforsomespice
Hell I want to be like your mama when I grow up. I would not want a sexless relationship but if my longtime partner developed a condition that precluded sex or lowered his libedo I would not leave him.On the other hand I would not inter into a relationship with someone who was not on the same page with me sexually . Sex is not the end all or be all but it is for me an expression of the overall love that I have for my partner in my relationship. We all have different sexual appetites and needs and there is usually a fit for each of us. Sex for the sake of sex or because my partner wants it is not as important to me but sex as an expression of my love and commitment is. Your mama rocks!!!!! | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/5/2008 11:45:46 AM | Yes and no!!!
Yes-I am a man. Enough said
No- It isn't the only thing like it used to be when I was younger. Now I enjoy the companionship, conversation. All the important stuff that makes the sex even better. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/5/2008 6:20:45 PM | Yes! sex is just as important now as when i was 20 (quality and quantity)
Like other posters have said, if something happened to a long term relationship that caused a reduction in frequency that may be ok. But not for a new relationship... | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/5/2008 6:32:35 PM | I agree with "read only". The older we get, sex isn't #1. We have learned that there are so many other aspects to a relationship. Sex is just the icing on the cake. And then things REALLY change after menopause.....sex?? Hmmmm  | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/6/2008 7:05:12 AM | surely sex is sex it always has been and always will, do you think anybody
in the roman forum ever asked the same question, how they would have all laughed. | |
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