| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/13/2008 3:36:06 PM | "I don't think there would be all the "why can't I get a date" threads. "
I doubt seriously he'll have any problems getting dates.... he has a wonderful profile too... | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/13/2008 8:04:02 PM | is sex as important? i can't remember!
sex is always important in any relationship whether you are young or old. you know us old folks have "dem dare pills now". i have those three day jobs. just got them not long ago i have taken them on 3 different occasions when i was out chasing "lil rascal scooters and walkers" didn't hook up. wasted some money. would probably be better off investing the money in a pump up doll. wouldn't have to take her out to dinner and meet her family. and for sure once you get her pumped up she is ready to go and won't be yelling, "ain't you got that damn thing up yet?"!
gotta go for now.
need to look up the word sex and see what it means. i could be missing something. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/13/2008 8:59:48 PM |
It doesn't have be every day as long as the quality is there at the occurrance. The passion can and should be expressed in other ways as well to make the romance and belonging complete. Sometimes a kiss on the cheek or a touch can make me glow as much as sex! Love to me is not about the frequency as much but the longing and the passion knowing that this is the woman I love and who loves me!
...Nice....I liked that.
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/13/2008 9:14:53 PM | I don't know why but sex after 45 has been wonderful. I don't know why but maybe I just didn't know my body when I was married. Or maybe it was my husband but it has been one of the most enlighting sexual experiances I have ever had. Sex after 45 has been great. Ya Hoo..............
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/13/2008 9:29:37 PM |
It's VERY important. Anything that occurs that rarely is important... you know... like Haley's comet...
Awwww come on...! Haley's Comet??????
That's what you're calling it? | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/13/2008 9:32:37 PM |
don't matter to me one bit!...after I got fixed, I just started chasin cars!
...Ahhh... but I bet you still like to lay on you're back and have you're belly rubbed haha | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/13/2008 9:34:30 PM |
It's VERY important. Anything that occurs that rarely is important... you know... like Haley's comet
...Well if you keep walking around with no shirt on it's going to happen a lot sooner than you think
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/13/2008 9:49:53 PM | | I have got out of the swing of sex for about 15 years. Now, it is not as important as it was when I stopped. I was one hot tamale...well, back then. Life took a big turn for me and by choice I became celebate. And there is nothing wrong with that. There is times though that I miss that kind of intimacy, but when the situation arrives where I am in the position of having that kind of life again. I run like a cat on the hot tin roof. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/15/2008 5:48:19 PM | | Looking for a man's views? In my case the answer is yes. Having said that maybe you don;t hear from more men in here is that if we speak up and say yes to the question, as I just did, we risk being ostracized by 90% of the women in here. If we are open to intimacy, from what I read in the profiles, we don't meet the criteria for a response. Though I understand that you ladies don;t want to be drowned in messages from horny guys just looking for a little extra spice. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/15/2008 7:11:47 PM | | Doesn't make a lot of difference HOW important it is these days . . . since I can't seem to find anyone I am interested in having it with . . . The older we (women, at least) get, the more difficult it is to find a desireable, interesting man to connect with--sexually and in other ways as well. That is the main issue, most of us are in a place where we want more than just a roll in the hay--other qualities must be there, and that's a challenge to find. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/16/2008 8:38:27 PM | | I totally agree that "Sex is just the icing on the cake" I'm sure that if you are in LOVE for all the right reasons then it is plausible to "have your cake and eat it too." Sorry I just couldn't resist. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/17/2008 12:27:56 AM | [Is sex as important to you as it once was?]
YES, YES, YES  .........but NOT exclusively without; a heart, brain, humor and conscience included  . | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/17/2008 7:48:00 AM | | More important, actually. We've reached the age of realism, folks. Frankly, I know that no one's going to want me for my looks, wealth-generating ability, procreative capability, intellectual achievement or hot smelling pheramones anymore, if they ever did. A shoulder to lean on, a pretty good sense of humor, kind and generous spirit, playful attitude and great fun in the sack are what I have to offer and pretty much what I want in a friend. That, and someone who'll tell me when I have schmutz in my beard. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/17/2008 2:34:23 PM | I hope posting links is OK here...
http://www.webmd.com/healthy-aging/guide/sex-aging
There seem to be two parts to this question. One is "Do i think about sex much". The other is "Am I able to be happy without it."
Biologically, drive in men... errr...ummm.... "wains" as they age, having hit their physical peak and drive in their early 20's. Women on the other hand... err.. umm... "peak" just prior to menopause. There is actually a lot of research on these topics too. Play with google a bit and you'll find lots more data.
But all that aside, don't you think we all want it all? Money, power, sex, fame, experience, love, acceptence, wisdom, eternal life, etc.
The reality is that most people have to pick 2 or 4 of these things and do not get them all. Maybe the question could be asked "Is sex one of your top three picks?".
Oh. And I wanna Pony, an' a Dolly, an' a GI Joe with the Kung Foo grip, an' a...
So does Santa hand out "mature" relationships?
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/17/2008 3:00:06 PM | Not so far as I've seen....they all seem to want the sex...or rather to TALK about the sex.....'mature' doesn't seem to enter into it. 
Well from this side of the looking glass anyway. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/17/2008 4:03:33 PM | | Yes, it is just as important as it used to be. Maybe more so. I no longer have the urgency to procreate, so there is more time to spend on making love, rather than just having sex! | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/17/2008 4:39:02 PM | Agreed, so much more ready and willing that other times in my life.
Problem is that men are not as able as they used to be......life is not fair.
Having said that, I consider that a man who is still able to please me is important, just don't really know how to please him if he is not as willing or able.
Sex is an important factor but there are so many others as well. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/21/2008 9:03:30 AM | I had to respond to this one....
Sex is more important now than ever. No worries, no restrictions, no fears about contraception or kids walking in. Geez, it should have been this good years ago. The problem now is finding a suitable partner. At this age, they either drink too much, which effects performance, or feel they are more deserving of a younger woman. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 12/21/2008 1:31:51 PM | | ^^^I have to agree without the kids and the stress of school and establishing a career, the sex is much better now. Weekend trips and romantic dinners are possible where they never were before... | |
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