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 Calientecutie
Joined: 4/5/2009
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kpooks...you have a point
i am glad a man agrees with the same idea like mine
we mature and sex becomes different when we get older
 prettypictures
Joined: 1/29/2010
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Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/28/2010 6:18:40 AM


Oh come on - if a couple are in a relationship they wont be talking about it they will be getting on with it like all married couples, his birthday her birthday and their anniversary. Dating couples, every time they can get it together at the same time and place. Single Hopefuls will as and when they can!!
 dancindeny
Joined: 11/4/2007
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Posted: 2/28/2010 11:31:48 AM
i like your answers to Is sex as important to you as it once was.i think it is very important to a good relationship. i believe foreplay is the important thing.i am a Scorpio so i love sex and more important is the closeness. i look forward to hearing from you.
Denny
 farcal hollis
Joined: 1/14/2010
Msg: 678
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/28/2010 5:04:51 PM
sex....hmmmm, that word rings a bell.

Something to do with that boy-girl thing I heard about long ago?
If ya ain't got it, guess ya better not classify it as important, 'cause yer gonna be deeply disappointed!
 Harleygirl269
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 679
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/28/2010 6:26:48 PM
I think that sex is more important to me now then it once was! I am a late bloomer or should I say I finally had a partner who woke me up to what I was missing! Plus with grown children I have more time for it! For me though I need to be in a trusting relationship to really let go!
 widowsdesire
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 680
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/28/2010 9:38:10 PM
I think it is more important to me now than it was when I was younger. The purpose though has changed for me.

When I was younger it was all about "feeling good" and sex for sex sake.

Now that I am older its all about bonding, and emotional connection. Of course I still love the "feel" and get pleasure physically, but the emotions make it so meaningful.

The "best" sex is not about the mechanics of the act, it is about the emotional intimacy that the act creates between my partner and I. In the absense of the physical I feel something is missing in that emotional connection. When the physical expressions are there it makes the emotional connection all the more intense.

The memory lingers for longer periods after contact, and the longing for the next time is more intense. Sex begins with that first passionate open mouth kiss, continues with the cuddling after skin against skin, sleeping with an arm draped over my partner and my head on his chest, and does not end until we get out of bed and dressed. Each part is equally important to the penetration, and what is important about the coupling is feeling "one in the flesh". My attitude about oral has changed too, in that now I relish the thought that when he cums in my mouth and I swallow his ejaculate, a part of him,
permanently becomes a part of me.

Yes the mechanics are different, and the emotions are different than when I was younger, but the overall experience for me has gotten better with age.
 plyter
Joined: 10/6/2009
Msg: 681
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/28/2010 10:39:25 PM
I'm forty , about to turn forty one and sex is still enjoyable ,even more so, because I've learned to really enjoy a woman's body and not just get my rocks off.
At the age of forty sex has become more sensual than just physical
 DR_RUTHLESS
Joined: 11/2/2009
Msg: 682
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Posted: 3/1/2010 2:29:12 PM
Absolutely not!

There is zero change to the downside if the person is healthy.

Duration increases with more talent although the session's frequency decreases....it is actually way better when quality outweighs quantity to this degree
 American Gal
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 683
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 3/1/2010 5:03:55 PM
I love sex and I think it brings you closer to the person you care about. There is nothing like that special tenderness with the right guy..
 charlie_girl_2
Joined: 1/2/2010
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Posted: 3/2/2010 7:42:26 AM
ABSOLUTELY!


Excuse me, but in my view, that is a very dumb question for any healthy and consenting age group. Is it everything in a relationship? No. But without it, most relationships are doomed to fail.
I hope I never tire of it. That's making love with someone I care about -- not just for the sake of having sex, or with just anyone.

Charliegirl
 sweetpeas44
Joined: 2/20/2010
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Posted: 3/3/2010 11:31:09 AM
Plyter,

I'm with you. I relax a lot more now and enjoy the sex so much more. I hope it only gets better with age!
 celadon100
Joined: 2/18/2010
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Posted: 3/7/2010 9:03:55 AM
I guess everyone is different. Personally at 54 sex is just as important to me maybe more so...
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