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 Lil Brooker

Joined: 6/17/2008
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Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/1/2008 8:35:37 PM

Wow, only one response from a man. I wonder what all the older men who are unable to function

Nasty. It must be disheartening and devastating, when one's body doesn't respond, due to aging. There's almost a nyah nyah cackle to your post.
 RanRan18

Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 102
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/1/2008 9:23:48 PM
I think at times people think the other sex want games and some may in fact want to play.
I don't. I'll take a straight-talking female any day. The kind of woman who will tell me what she wants. A communicator not a game player wrapped up in some teenage rerun. i.e. An Adult.
 angel6218

Joined: 2/16/2008
Msg: 103
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Posted: 9/2/2008 2:21:16 AM
I think a healthy active sex life is as important now as ever , throw in a bit of adventurous sex & hey im in heaven...
Angel
 twobob au

Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 104
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Posted: 9/2/2008 5:45:06 AM
As my mate (I am Aussie) Lord Chesterson, once said

SEX
The position is ridiculus
The pleasure is momentary
BUT
The cost is damnable
 spacebabe9849

Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 105
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Posted: 9/2/2008 9:53:02 AM
I'm a very sexual woman. Sex is important to me. I know from my personal experience and being married to a man that had a bad stroke; I chose to stay by his side. I was satisfied enough to snuggle up with him and hold his hand. This taught me that love is more important than sex. I would love to once again have a healthy sex life. I also realize at our age, there are many attractive, interesting men that may not be able to perform as they once did. If he has the will, I'm sure we will find the way to satisfy each other sexually and emotionally.....
 dating_sucks

Joined: 8/14/2008
Msg: 106
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/2/2008 9:59:17 AM
I LOVE sex. I am not willing to spend the money to date or jump through the hoops I used to when i was young .

And as i get older, the women are not as attractive.

If a 20 year old hit on me and just want s to screw, great. But dating sucks. Not again.
 spacebabe9849

Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 107
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Posted: 9/2/2008 10:06:52 AM
^^^^^takes all kinds
 JGirlinSD

Joined: 7/16/2008
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Posted: 9/2/2008 10:16:39 AM
I am so sorry you feel that way..Dating Sucks...you are missing out on so many wonderful women and wonderful times by having a negative attitude.
 rob1nyc

Joined: 6/7/2008
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Posted: 9/2/2008 10:59:37 AM
to me, it's still just as important, and a successful ingredient to a strong, successful healthy relationship. I don't think sexual priorities and wants should ever diminish no matter how old you get. I'm hoping the desires that i'm feelin are still there when i'm 100...lol
 jsphn11

Joined: 12/24/2007
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Posted: 9/2/2008 11:19:51 AM

Get a sex-buddy!

It doesn't work for everyone. I tried, and didn't like it. I feel empty after the fun is over.
 scbaileyblue

Joined: 4/23/2007
Msg: 111
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Posted: 9/2/2008 11:22:41 AM
Oh I think it's still pretty important. It still pops up in my mind quite often... Perhaps not as often as it did when I was a teen, but that was about every other minute back then
 *buzz*

Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 9/2/2008 11:33:08 AM
Yes & no. Depending on action
 frankd53

Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 113
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Posted: 9/2/2008 11:49:03 AM
between naps, i do enjoy sex, why not i am only 57, not dead yet, no viagra needed just yet but what an invention, a sexy woman, a warm bed, a caress here and a caress there, sharing love or at least lust, sex dam right it is important, i hear their is more than one way to do it, no excusses sex is great, okay now all i need to do is find her.
 RanRan18

Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 114
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Posted: 9/2/2008 12:25:35 PM

It doesn't work for everyone. I tried, and didn't like it. I feel empty after the fun is over.

Me too, but I'm not asking my buddy to fix that. We all want the moon. For now, I'll settle for a little tenderness. It is an imperfect situation, I will grant you that.
 dignity85

Joined: 6/1/2008
Msg: 115
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Posted: 9/2/2008 1:34:36 PM
well having read the comments it seems that older guys over your side are not up to scratch!! let me say I still have strong desire (more selective now tho!!) dont need pick me up pills either,but I also think this is due to fitness weight + overall good health as well,these days tho dont want to qualify as stud(marathon) would rather my partner felt all my attention is focused on making sure all her needs are my priority!! also if the person you are with is a strong attraction dont tink it becomes hard work!! like everything else in life if you enjoy something you will always enjoy the benefits as long as you work at it
 kane stays

Joined: 6/8/2008
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Posted: 9/4/2008 3:12:12 AM
I don't remember how important sex once was but I do know I must have had sex . If I didn't I want those two boys to stop calling me momma and asking for money. Seriously I think I might be a virgin.
 GreenEyesBlondeHair

Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 117
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Posted: 9/4/2008 3:31:40 AM
in some ways yes...cuz the clock is ticking & I hope to have it while I can & no because my physical drive is less. So I can say emotionally my drive has increased & physically decreased. I do miss a REGULAR PARTNER who is available in the middle of the night. The last 2 years,it's like making an appointment, not much spontaneity at all.

I still fantasize about going out one night, maybe to a club or a bar & locking eyes w/ a stranger & hooking up that night...a throwback to youth (not that I did that all that often) where you just were spontaneous & went w/ your feelings rather than using your head
 duckling

Joined: 2/28/2006
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Posted: 9/4/2008 9:04:32 AM
Sex is just as important as it always was. The only difference is that things that weren't too important when I was young (communication, interests and values) are of equal importance.
 romance and laughter

Joined: 11/4/2007
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Posted: 9/4/2008 9:41:34 PM
YES YES YES========my new years resolution =was to get laid this ! ha====but its now sept and i'm a PRUDE and often wish my morals would GO AWAY at least for a few days- one of those who just dont get into casual sex= been there= it just doesnt do anything for me but i REALLY wish i'd meet mr right since my ''stupid brain' wont let me have mr right NOW= and have some good S E X---------- i LOVE LOVE SEX-but have to really like the guy= most of the time i like being this way= BUT sometimes======= i sure wish those morals would go away=(just for a while( ha============
 rocksteadyy

Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 120
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Posted: 9/5/2008 5:27:40 PM
I do not have the pounding desire to have sex like I used to. Now my true needs are more important. In my youth i was involved with some women that wanted sex four times a day, then that was awsome! Now I could only manage three times a day

I find just being with a woman, truely knowing her, feeling her warmth, talking, to have a true friend that cares is really what I miss!

Do not get me wrong, I do enjoy sex but really it only lasts for three hours or so.
truely knowing her lasts forever!

And now will never come again.
 barra57

Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 121
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/5/2008 5:47:32 PM
Stay on here long enough ,,,,,,,,, and the feeling will pass
 julie_do

Joined: 9/3/2008
Msg: 122
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Posted: 9/6/2008 1:23:08 PM
It is probably more important. Maybe not something that I want as often but now I want it often but I want it to be excellent!
 breath~

Joined: 1/13/2008
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Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/6/2008 2:54:56 PM

I don't remember how important sex once was but I do know I must have had sex . If I didn't I want those two boys to stop calling me momma and asking for money. Seriously I think I might be a virgin.
^^ ^^
 PionCavalier

Joined: 12/16/2007
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Posted: 9/6/2008 3:23:10 PM
I beg your pardon no more sex till death do us part?
I too would definitely have trouble with a sexless relationship. It would be depressing to realise, if I'm faithful to this person, I may never experience sex again. But then I couldn't be with someone who never touched or hugged either.
 Phoebe48

Joined: 12/5/2007
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Posted: 9/6/2008 3:53:48 PM
sex is important, love is important, lust is important, cuddling and a host of other related things

geewiz...........right on!!!!!

Oh baby! If I ever find the guy " that fits" .....I'm going to rock his world! I'm a lady in the diningroom and a vamp in the bedroom. I'm going to make up for lost time. I just hope I don't kill him. Does that answer your question?
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