| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/6/2008 5:23:40 PM | Oh baby! If I ever find the guy " that fits" .....I'm going to rock his world! I'm a lady in the diningroom and a vamp in the bedroom. I'm going to make up for lost time. I just hope I don't kill him. Does that answer your question?
what was my question??? ice cubes..., please..., more ice cubes.
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/7/2008 8:18:11 AM | Sex is as important to me as ever as well.... maybe more so.
Start with the obvious reason.... it's still the most enjoyable type of exercise and who the hell needs less of that?
If you learn anything about sex as you get older, you realize that it's about what's between your ears, not what's between your legs that ultimately matters. I'm widowed, but I was married to someone who really understood that ... it never got stale. There's was always a new wrinkle (lol) to explore.
Maybe because I was married young ( I missed my twenties), spent almost thirty five years with just two women, and then finally got out there and had a number of mini-adventures, I am totally convinced that the best sex starts with a monogamous relationship...how it evolves from there is either going to bring you closer or tear you apart. Being on the same basic page from the start is important... it's fun to read the book together.
We're getting older - I'm looking for someone who is watching the clock, can cut to the chase, open up quickly, take advantage of all they've learned, and enjoy it for what it's worth as often as they can for as long as they can.... Someone who loves sex but also understands what real intimacy is. It used to be that sex was the culmination of intimacy - today it's more of a gateway (or better yet a highway) into that deeper level of intimacy we all ultimately want. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/7/2008 8:26:41 AM |
We're getting older - I'm looking for someone who is watching the clock, can cut to the chase, open up quickly, take advantage of all they've learned, and enjoy it for what it's worth as often as they can for as long as they can.... Someone who loves sex but also understands what real intimacy is. It used to be that sex was the culmination of intimacy - today it's more of a gateway (or better yet a highway) into that deeper level of intimacy we all ultimately want.
...lol...its funny you should mention that...I posted something on another site just yesterday that I was on the highway of life waiting trying to hitch a ride
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/9/2008 1:12:14 PM | | I couldn't have said it better myself space babe. I don't have sex, I make love. IF the man can't have it as often, that is alright.It is the love we share with each other that counts. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/30/2008 1:43:18 PM | i read many post on this blog,i just turned 71 and sex is just as important as ever,
but rember they tried to impeach a fellow who said he didnt have sex,i agree with him
by the dictionary is coital,he had oral ,well if it cant get one for whatever i want the other. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/30/2008 2:03:26 PM | Sex is even more important now than ever. Attitude and enthusiasm is much more important now than it was when I was young.What has really changed however is the need for physical beauty. There has to be some physical attraction but it is not the end all be all it once was. Am I getting older and wiser? I think I just looked in the mirror one Christmas morning and Gasped! | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/30/2008 2:58:53 PM | I would not consider a sexless or lower quality sex life. I enjoy sex alot and see no reason to settle for something less when everything works quite well as it is.
I've always had a strong libido and look for that in a woman.
When weighing the value of a relationship though, if you adore the woman, it would change things. I wouldn't ditch my wife/girlfriend just because she wasn't able to have sex. Something else would have to be figured out. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/30/2008 5:17:29 PM | | Sure it is. As a man, it is the primary reason for having a relationship with a woman. That is why it is called mating. If sex is not part of it we are just friends, that is all. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/30/2008 5:40:19 PM | | Although it is not the ultimate thing i am looking for by a long shot...it is important - maybe moreso than it has been at any time in my life. Absense makes the heart grow fonder...but Abstinance does some serious things to the loins... Oh well, like Scarlet said, "..tomorrow IS another day" | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/30/2008 5:49:36 PM | Sex is more important to me now than ever. Probably because I have never been in a deeply satisfying, loving relationship. I have been in many relationships but there was something wrong with each one of them. I'm determined to find the real thing and when I do, LOOK OUT. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/30/2008 6:07:24 PM | hi,
yes, sex is very important to me. I'm divorced and single so it's really great when you find that special someone to be with. And even flings can be too. I love having the freedom to be with who I want to. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/30/2008 6:08:55 PM | | From my standpoint sex life is very important in a relationship. I don't mean just mechanics of it, but more of affection and caring. Even with ED adults can find some work around, as long as they create a comfortable and loving emotional atmosphere. However, I don’t see a point for sexless “relationship”. To me, that would be more of a friendship, and in that case I wouldn’t want to live together. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/30/2008 6:29:04 PM |
I would not consider a sexless or lower quality sex life.
...hey, I've been single for years and have been doing without....it can't get any lower quality than that
...maeflowers | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 9/30/2008 8:52:37 PM | | It's even MORE important now! Especially after years at a time of celibacy, when I do have the opportunity I want to really make it count, be totally in the moment, and want it to last forever. You never know when your last time is really going to be your last time. :) I'm not seeking validation, acceptance or have the hang ups I had when I was younger. Without those distractions it's so much more fulfilling and I want it for the right reasons now. I know I would be a lot thinner if a lover were available to me whenever I wanted them. Now if the fear of getting knocked up would just go away. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/3/2008 12:08:15 AM | Intimacy, loyalty, and trust are the most important to me, because without these three being present, sex doesn't flourish for me.
I'm uninterested in the casual, feel-good flings for the moment. I've had my share of good times and have sown enough wild oats to be able to relax with who I am. I've got nothing to prove to anyone or myself in this regard; so it's now more about compatibility, acceptance, tolerance, and finding a genuine friend/partner that I find I want to share the rest of my life with. I have no doubt that finding this will bring about all the sex I can handle and more.
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/3/2008 5:28:16 AM | In my opinion sex as you grow older is less important as your partner itself! But..... here is my analogy of a relationship.
You meet someone, and build a foundation of friendship, just like building a site built house! Upon that foundation you build walls, which are love, respect, honesty, and communication. Once those walls are build, you put on a roof. This roof being PASSION! If you let the passion dwindle, you start feeling unloved, or question whether or not your partner might be having an affair. You start loosing trust, stop talking, loose respect, etc..... so the roof becomes weak because the passion is not like it used to be. The walls become saturated and can't withstand the weight of the roof, and tumbles down on your foundation that started the whole relationship. Your house is now ruined! You only have two choices! Rebuild your house with your partner, which is very difficult because you have to both want to put the work involved to rebuild the trust, etc............ OR, you have to move out, and start building a NEW house with someone else.
Passion is important in a relationship. Even if it's just daily compliments, holding hands, snuggling, or whatever. If you loose that.........watch out.......your house will start crumbling. Keep the passion alive, and your relationship will survive through good and bad. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/3/2008 7:12:43 AM | | Yes, I am just damm picky about who I do it with. I actually enjoy sex more now than I did in my younger years and I know a lot more now than I did then. Sex is not the most important part of a relationship but it is one of the most enjoyable parts. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/3/2008 7:24:41 AM | I am just sitting here wondering about how things have progressed.
Here I am, mid life, with more drive than ever, yet I am single. God, what did I do to deserve this? Then again, if I was still married, wouldn't be gettin it either.   | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/3/2008 7:34:58 AM | Well, Ms Moon, you could try dating....:)
Of course, the phenomenon of pre-menopausal women experiencing a peak of sexual desire is known to use older males, and we tend to tread softly there, as while sex is certainly a pleasure, more than once is month leaves us little energy for the other things we need to do in life.
Perhaps the plethora of offers from the under 20 set that the ladies here claim to receive should be viewed with more interest than you currently show? | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/3/2008 7:42:38 AM | ^^^Sheesh Mr. R! Is the solution really that simple? Who knew? lol
Yes, I agree, one should date in order to proceed with the finer things in life.
*takes pencil out and marks her calendar*! | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/3/2008 8:09:08 AM |
*takes pencil out and marks her calendar*!
Who'duh ever thunk it was as easy as that? I must be oversexed, cuz I have lots of dates on my calendar still left this year!!!
I better get busy!!!  | |
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