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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/8/2008 9:00:06 PM | the short answer. no.
don't have to have sex to have a peaceful dinner party or a nice time with friends..don't have to pretend that pretzel moves really are fun. don't have to listen to complicated instructions while drunk.
don't know what an enjoyable sex life is like -so until those times come along the libido is there but the 'have to' because good wives do- is thankfully over.
and as an old friend said...it's not soap, so it won't run out.
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heb59
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/8/2008 9:08:15 PM | | Yes absolutely it is. What is different is recognizing its importance and not trying to create feeling where there is none or when/where its not right. It's NOT soap ... you won't run out. At the same time, the experience doesn't wash off. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/9/2008 12:56:33 AM | As I'm getting older I find that I'm looking at the whole body not just a body part.In other words,I'm looking for the whole woman, not just sex. Sex is important, but it takes more to excite me and I can wait till it is right with the right person.Then when love and lust combined along with experience comes into play,it should the best for both parties.Love making is more important than sex | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/9/2008 3:52:48 AM | katsback, MissMew, libby, and truckingpopeye, along with many others in this thread, really get it!
Love, lust, desire...and commitment....all add to the pleasure found in connecting physically with someone who loves you as much as you love them. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/9/2008 6:03:58 AM | | Sex is a important part of our lives. I feel it is a part of love making, but it must be what we both want. As far as it once was no. I like to look into her eyes now and see the love. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/9/2008 8:41:55 AM | When your young,its seems to be a sport,,wanting to do some cute guy, lol.,or girl if your a guy..as time goes on and you mature you realize its so much more....THE SPORT IDEA FADES..becomes lovemaking...and oh how much better!   | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/9/2008 8:52:54 AM | ^^^ OK... but some of us were into "love-making" from the start... both guys and girls. Not everyone starts out in their "sports" phase. Mine came later in life.  | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/9/2008 9:31:10 AM | ^^I have to agree with you on the first part of your answer Pete. It's always been about the incredible journey of the experience with me too.
I can remember thinking when it first happened: "So THIS is what they are talking about!" | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/9/2008 11:16:59 AM | ...Geez....I hate to say this, but to begin with I really wondered myself what all the hoopla was about... my opinion for years was that sex was either very overrated or I had a big problem....I was convinced of the latter though. As it turned out, I was wrong in both cases, my second husband literally "turned me on" .....I never knew it could be like that....
Now I realize sexual intimacy is an important part of a relationship, and I want that again...but with the right person.
...maeflowers | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/9/2008 11:24:26 AM | | I think, from a personal point of view, that sex is as important more so as i have got older, i never took my past partners feelings or needs into account when i was younger, just took what i wanted and then it was done. i have found it more fun and more forfulling, ensuring my partner is fully satisfied before myself, basicaly i like to get silver, whilst they get gold, in the bedroom olympics. yes there are times when things are so hot it gets out of control for both parties and its over before its began, but these days i truly enjoy the look of my partners face when they are satisfied first, now all i need is a partner, lol,.. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/9/2008 4:03:12 PM | I guess i always have enjoyed sex,even as a late teen,getting married at 17 ,stayed married for 16 yrs,sex life was always good, so i thought. years later having a good partner b/f ,i found out sometimes its the person your with who puts more into it,that makes it better,,they say orgasm was discovered in the 70's,well mine was really way after that,and theres other things i didnt know a woman could do either till i hit 40.... quotes movie"a river runs thru it" FOR THOSE WHO ARE UP ON IT.... THEN BLUSHES.... | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/9/2008 4:30:52 PM | | Sex is very important and part of live with healthy men and women. As we get older we know more of what we want. Yes, sex is very important to me more than it use to be. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/10/2008 2:04:34 PM | | In my late 40's and sex is even more important in a relationship to me than it has been in the past. I enjoy sex more at this age than I did in my 20's, know what I want, and am not afraid to let my partner know. I couldn't imagine doing that in my 20's. I've been in relationships with men around my current age whose sex drive was not the same as mine, or whose equipment wasn't working as well anymore, and the relationships were doomed even though the men treated me like gold in every other way. If you're saying sex isn't important, you (or your partner) aren't doing it right. | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/10/2008 2:17:29 PM | Sex with the right person = words cant describe
Sex with the wrong person = words cant describe it either :P
So yea, sex is more important to me cause I know the difference between the two. Now all I need to do is find the right person..dang! | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/10/2008 2:27:09 PM | It is not "sex" with the right person, but much more the "right person" with sex.....
Most of us know that getting laid is easy, but getting laid by the right person, oh so much harder to find, do, and maintain.........so, sex is very important with that person that makes you want to come back over and over, for more and more.......
We are all searching for that right person, and until then.....practice, practice, practice........... 
Just my opinion.......   | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/10/2008 3:10:35 PM |
Now that I'm older I can only perform 3-4 times/night ...but I still enjoy it immensely nonetheless
...After this post, I think your mailbox is gonna get full
...maeflowers | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/10/2008 3:16:34 PM | So.....That is what gets our mailbox filled is it????........
OT.......I know that there is a song somewhere in this....... 
Just my opinion...... | |
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| Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 10/10/2008 3:35:50 PM |
If that's true, it won't be the only box getting filled
...ooooh....not gonna touch that one ....*as she slowly backs away from the thread*
...maeflowers | |
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