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| If you meet someone who claims to have been cheated on by thier last few partners..
Posted: 9/7/2008 12:51:29 PM | well this is a verry good one now,,ok letts see here cheeting, well to say it the way it is, i have bean on both sides of this one,,well if you piss off a woman real bad,ow yes and prob with your best frend or a famely member real fast , and there is the sluts that will do it with every one that moves , some men thats all thay get,sad but true,, now to b real here most of us know it or not have did this,cheeting is a 50/50 thing, it is true that is the way it is, at lest one time,,now im paying for a kid and it is not mi x wifs, but she got even,and it is over 7 years now and you are wored about him,,look at your self frist. | |
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| If you meet someone who claims to have been cheated on by thier last few partners..
Posted: 9/7/2008 1:19:25 PM | | gatekeeper: I'm sorry but I have having trouble following your train of thought here. Can you try to explain your thoughts to me 1 more time. I do apologize, but I have read it 3 times and still all I can figure is you must have cheated on your wife and and are paying for a kid that is not hers?? Then I should look at myself first??? hmmmmm If I'm wrong, please enlighten me. | |
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| If you meet someone who claims to have been cheated on by thier last few partners..
Posted: 9/8/2008 5:38:09 AM | | well that is ez cheeting is a one out of every two pep have don it,,if it is not you well,,do i have to say it? it is true,, got it now,, and yes i cheeted on mi x,,big time.. | |
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| If you meet someone who claims to have been cheated on by thier last few partners..
Posted: 9/8/2008 6:19:16 AM | No. Two ex's ago, I was in a two-year relationship. She had two children and seemed pretty stable (at first). We had good sex..not great, but good. One day, several skeletons started rolling out of her closet. Drinking addictions, previous arrests, etc.
I grew concerned, and sat her down to talk about my discomfort. She instantly burst into tears...informing she'd been in two relationships where her past sins made them come to an end. Each ending in her cheating on them.
She didn't cheat on me. I believe that she was making a real effort to grow from her past sins. But, she pushed me away with further antics, and threatened my life one night.
About three months later, I called her to see how she and her children were doing. She'd apparently gotten off the phone with her new boyfriend; but a familiar refrain came from her as she answered the phone. That told me that nothing had changed for her personally, and that the relationship was headed where mine went. | |
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| If you meet someone who claims to have been cheated on by thier last few partners..
Posted: 10/2/2008 3:48:14 PM | If someone talks about their ex prior to date 5 I run screaming. If someone mentions their ex cheating on them prior to the 5th wedding anniversary….
Just kidding on the 5th wedding anniversary comment, but I am not sure why you would sit around divulging how people had disrespected you in the past. I have never had it happen to me, but that would be something I would want to learn from and then get on with my life. Talking about it says to me at least one of the following:
1. I am not over losing that person. (shouldn’t be dating)
2. I want pity love/sex. (needs counseling)
3. I have a victim mentality. (shouldn’t be dating)
4. I am not over the hurt caused to me. (shouldn’t be dating)
5. I am very confused and haven’t figured out how to figure it out yet. (Needs counseling and shouldn’t be dating)
Just a big huge blood red flag waving to me when I hear any of that anytime too soon. | |
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