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| He left and I never heard from him again
Posted: 9/5/2008 11:54:19 PM | | You deserve someone that appreciates you and respects you.... I think just ask him to pick his things and Move on with your life. You can do better than that..... | |
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Kari1
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Joined: 7/15/2007
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| He left and I never heard from him again
Posted: 9/6/2008 12:03:32 AM | | Sounds like you guys took off to fast. That is dangerous because its like enjoying the fruits of a relationship without ever growing the roots for one. When the winds of difficulty blow against your relationship it doesnt last. Besides, this is the actions of desperate people. This is not how a deep respect grows for another person - it takes time to get to know a person, you cant just jump into it. Whatever starts fast, usually ends just as fast. ONE more thing.. if anyone doesnt have respect for themselves, they sure cant respect another. Start dating! | |
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| He left and I never heard from him again
Posted: 9/6/2008 12:21:33 AM | OMGOSH What a fukn dikhead!!!! You are obviously a nice girl who is way to gullible to what ashole guys like this tell you. MOVE ON!!! Never allow this asssshole in your life ever again, throw his stuff in the garbage and dont look back..
My wife of 11 years walked out on me one night and without even a note. It hurt.....a LOT, but I decided to move on and it was not easy, I was truly in love with her, I never abused her, nor cheated on her, I was there for her when nobody else would be. She had severe mental problems, I found out afterward that her alternate persona took over and she did not even remember who I was!! And since her parents hated me from the start, well anyway, my advice and you should take it....dont ever answer his calls and move forward!!!
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| He left and I never heard from him again
Posted: 9/6/2008 12:36:39 AM | He comes and goes
No contact from one week to another
anyone else seeing a pattern here? I sure can, he is swinging between two of you, when he is with you he is in love, when he is with her he is in love, when he is drunk he is in love with you again.
1. Give yourself a break,
2. Change your phone,
3. Give his kit to the charity shop,
and get on with finding a man with a back bone, you dont honestly believe he loves you do you?????? If he loved you he would be with you. | |
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| He left and I never heard from him again
Posted: 9/6/2008 2:01:43 AM |  He's history. Try working on your self esteem. #1 go back to school, even a 2 year degree will land you a great job. Then work on self image#2, exercise and diet. Build a great body, you will never be depressed again if you exercise. # 3 Find a hair and make-up that is right for you. Get some professional help. #4, do a wardrobe makeover. Get a few current magazines to get some ideas. Outlet stores are O.K., but keep it simple. Stay away from trendy, and buy basics and classics. Put your money into assesseries. #5 read self help articles or books. Knowledge is impowering. Everything from Dr. Phil to Suzie Orman.  This sounds drastic but it's pretty close to what I have done with my own life. It works! Someday you might meet up with this guy, you will wonder what you ever saw in him. There will be no emotion, just a good sense of who you are and maybe a little sweet revenge. You will see the look on his face and know what he's thinking. And you,  Just be cool and subtle about it! | |
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| He left and I never heard from him again
Posted: 9/6/2008 2:56:48 AM | You say you met him at a party ! NOT on a website? Oh that's good anyway, it means not ALL of the**** are on here LOL Yes I have been in your position and still cannot understand WHY anybody (notice I didn't specify man or woman - good and bad in BOTH) says bye and see you tomorrow - then completely ignore texts/emails/phone calls..... Happened to me LOADS - sometimes not even got to the meeting stage.... Gave up trying to understand - they are not worth the hassle. Still waiting for that one genuine to come along There MUST be a few left - surely :)  | |
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| me to nickilou
Posted: 9/6/2008 3:37:42 AM | hiya,yep almost word for word,telling me im wonderfull things goin great,he walks out the door telling me he loves me an never comes back.it knocked the wind out ma sails,and consumed my mind,how could someone be so cruel and cowardly.
i dont know if there is anything i could say to make you feel better,but simply its his problem not yours.i decided not to contact appart from the initial y txt,which he was too cowardly to answer.as much as it has knocked me,am better,i wouldnt see him in my road lou.we dont need men like these in our lives,an if he is treating you like an idiot lou you need to not wait around for the loser.wait no more,blank him.he is a coward who wants to play mind games,have his cake an eat it.love yourself girl,the best revenge is to ignore,move on,an do good for yourself.men are ten a penny.we all want that perfect one that is everything to us,they are hard to come by,remember when your dateing,dont give all of yourself,men are hunter/gatherers,keep them hunting for the elusive you,it keeps them wanting and intrested,never reveal all of yourself sista.chin up,no more waiting,delete him off your fone as i did.when he does contact,tell him youve moved on even if you havent,it will help you to do so.he is with someone else messin theire head up.do you realy want that back.NO.good luck am thinkin about you.your not alone okay | |
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