| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/18/2008 11:56:13 AM | I'll put my red longjohns back on in a minute. But 1st, here is another favorite profile to visit. FireGirl~ The Angelfish: dont tell th Virgin why yr at th Volcano
City Onacock California I tried looking up the city..... | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/18/2008 12:00:19 PM | I have received some messages from some older men who are at my dad's age. I am wondering why older men think I need to look for a dad. I am successful enough and enjoy supporting my parents...  | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/18/2008 1:21:07 PM | Hey Perhaps Snow, the POF photo police took my boxer shorts picture down!
They were just jealous, unless someone complained, because there are worse pictures on here than mine both male and female. Canadians are such wonderful people! | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/20/2008 9:09:35 AM | Well you get what you pay for OP. I haven't had any of what anyone describes..(DANG, what am i doing wrong??? just joking!!!  )..except for one who was fine in emails, phone and even a first meeting....then something came out from him that was a dealbreaker for me and it ended on our second date.....no stalking, no ugly words....we just went our separate ways and i appreciate that from him. Personally, I think if you project yourself as a lady, then you will be treated as such.....if not, then say no, thank you to future contact.
But gotta agree that the red longjohns are HOT!!  | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/20/2008 9:37:10 AM | I see your profile is still up and running.
But to answer your question... If you don't want to attrack those type of men, then why not post a picture that isn't showing so much cleavage? Open invitation... | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/20/2008 2:58:11 PM | I think her pic is fine...
BUT...when one says...I don't want lewd messages...guess what happens? Correct...the lewd messages will come rollin' in like wave upon wave.
Omit that part and see what transpires, OP.....Good luck! :) | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/20/2008 3:19:42 PM | | u know there r some women who do the same .Its not just a guy thing ,its a people whom have no class thing that reaches all ages,race, gender.block them an move on.funny i read alot of good comments from guys.As a former,long time ago bad boy ,got a lo more dates back then ,less when i turnedd into mister respectful,but i feel good about myself and that is all that matters .B a trooper an dont give up | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/20/2008 3:23:59 PM | | common now real man can have some control .i got to button my shirt up too .nothin wrong with showin some skin,hadnt looked at sitebut if 1 is sexy should say that and not b rude about it.i like to dress sexy sometimes for the ladys ,see nothing wrong with it, | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/20/2008 3:24:11 PM | Rewrite your profile and see what happens..
.."Well handsome how about you message me "
Say something else like Hi! as it sounds a little less Mae West to me
..."will not respond to lewd messages, messages without pictures,"
well how about
I might respond to those lewd messages, but just let me see ya head
--"not fair sorry"--replaced with .....I know its not fair!
or "messages from married men looking to cheat on their wives." with just might not get a look in....added on the end.
And last but not least
"Single and emotionally available men need only apply. :-D"
Now who are we kidding here, .....you want to get one response don't you
Stay positive and don't be afraid to use spellchecker | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/20/2008 3:38:21 PM | In all honesty she forgot to ad some things to her profile and to all those goodies(usually not so attractive)people,just showin ease up on the cleavage ,her boobs are not sticken out ,u peps whom say that should move to the middle
east and show no skin as a woman,get over it just a little cleavage.not a sin to show skin ,if guys want to get nasty there are plenty of sites just for that.she didnt write hey yo im a slut ,come an get meFor the sticks in the mud ,go join a christian site . | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/20/2008 3:54:53 PM | Sunset Rosie,
You,too? I've pretty much come to that same conclusion. It's like finding a needle in a haystack. The problem is I am allergic to the hay.
Most of these dudes needs need to go to fling.com | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/20/2008 4:34:31 PM | | It's been a few days since you said you were going to delete your profile but you haven't done it. Has your luck changed? I really hope so. I don't think there is anything wrong with your profile but you are a pretty girl and unfortunately that on it's own, can cause problems with unwanted attention. Good luck. | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:30:54 AM | I saw your ad on a fetish site same pics and there you said no men. Whats up with that? Maybe if you stop showing so much clevage, oh and on there you are in kentucky, not canada. So either the picture isn't of you, or someone stole your photo. I was rather suprised actualy when I saw your photo there and you were a self proclaimed lesbian.
How rather odd. This thread is still going on and yet you are still here, is it the drama you thrive on? 
Just wondering. | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:53:36 AM | | just wanted to mention...you did know this is a FREE dating site right? prime retail space for idiots, perverts, crazies, etc. just think about that...i think it goes with the territory. just have to over look it. | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/22/2008 6:59:07 AM | Excuse me???
Did you say you were looking up fetish sites and found my picture and I wrote that I was a lesbian.
First off, what were you doing looking up fetish sites??? Odd.
Second, that is crazy and a lie.
It's women like you who are single handedly responsible for the lack of strength we have in sisterhood.
And finally, I will not read nor respond to any more of the drama on this forum.
Have a nice life. | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 9/22/2008 8:39:57 AM | I always write them back lol.
Let them know your not interested in that u can mark it on your profile. I finally added it.
That's why I don't like bars they didn't even care if I had a wedding ring on when I was married. We would each hang with freinds u know spread out but I'd show them nicely didn't matter.
Same thing here. Only no ring just tell them u r looking for more and good luck to them. There's nothing wrong with it we all are looking for different things at different points in our life. The trick is to find someone u like who is looking for what u r that's what makes it hard.
But I do think some men on her say they r serious but r rally looking to date different women. That's been my experience so far.
Beth | |
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| Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men
Posted: 10/3/2008 12:44:29 PM | I try to answer the messages I get. If I don't, it is not always because I don't like what they have to say, most of my messages have been just fine. And some of those, after messaging for a few times just have to stick their 'little innuendos' into them after being very nice otherwise.... why????
The messaging feature is a good way to get to know a person better, and going slowly as I and other women request, just doesn't seem to register in some men's minds. If they have one thing on their mind in getting to know a woman better, it comes out sooner than later.
I don't see anything wrong with the original poster's pic... have seen much more seductive poses on here. Your profile leaves a little to be desired, but I think you may just be a private type of person who wants to get to know someone a little better before divulging all about yourself. But... a little more info would be a good thing too... it is hard to judge a book by it's cover, just as it is a person by their pic... and you leave a little too much to the imagination in your profile words.
Just my opinion, I think some have been harsh in their words, comments and criticism...
Take care, and all the best to you and everyone here... maybe you can start over with a fresh profile and find what you are looking for... make a man comfortable in approaching you in the right way. There are always going to be those 'cruelians' who will want to bring you down, or try to, to thier own level.
Respect goes a long way, guys... and girls. Let's try to practice this on this site and in more importantly in our lives.
Even tho' I am deleting my own profile soon for some of the same reasons, and some of my own... I have enjoyed the site for the most part. Too bad there are always some stinky fish  everywhere that just have to spoil it for the rest.
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