| | Are you intimidated by pretty people?Page 8 of 16 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16) | | Krissy you are beautiful no one is better then you pretty people have the same insecurities as every one else there nose is too big their teeth arent white enough their arms are hairy | |
|
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/21/2005 9:24:55 AM | sweetkristine:
Imagine that guy you saw at the store was physically blind and could not see you were looking at him? Would you be able to talk to him then?
Now imagine that was the reality but he wasn't wearing those dark glasses blind ppl often wear cause he forget them at home and his eyes happened to be looking in your direction yet you still KNEW he was blind. Would you be able to talk to him then?
Imagine he looked into your eyes and HE saw the beauty that you knew you had within you, would you be able to talk to him then?
Now imagine every attractive guy notices your beauty right away and looks into your eyes directly to see that beauty more and more grow stronger and they keep looking cause you are that beautiful to them, would you be able to talk to them then?
Some things to think about....  | |
|
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/21/2005 10:36:52 AM | | I am only intimidated by people that jump out at me from places, people wearing hockey masks, and people with disfigured faces.I actually find myself getting chatted up quite a bit wherever I am and I do find it uncomfortable sometimes..I do not like attracting attention in RL (real life), though it is fine on here. | |
|
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/21/2005 11:20:20 AM | Now imagine every attractive guy notices your beauty right away and looks into your eyes directly to see that beauty more and more grow stronger and they keep looking cause you are that beautiful to them, would you be able to talk to them then?
^^^thats something i work on all the time...seems like i get a lil bit of self-esteem built up then i let someone take it away from me....i wish guys were like that...but lets face it we live in a shallow society...guys and chicks look at the outside beauty before the inside beauty...9 times outta 10 im gonna get looked over b/c im not "barbie". its just how our society is...we glamorize the pretty people...we envy them...we want to be like them...i mwish more guys would see my inner beauty..i wish more people would see everyone's inner beauty..but alas they dont...its sad but true..as much as I wish your words were true..i know guys out there arnt like that... | |
|
| |
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/21/2005 11:32:49 AM | If I feel someone is out of my league (and going by the massive list of qualities being looked for in many of the profiles on here it happens a lot), I'm still not "intimidated" by them. I just treat them as I would anyone else I wasn't interested in. Laugh, smile, talk to them but I wouldn't flirt. In my line of work being intimidated is pretty much a non-factor. lol
 | |
|
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/21/2005 11:49:58 AM | see....i thought i had some qualities listed that are required to contact me...like a brain...some common sense...and perhaps a soul. but..apparently...my phrasing was lost on most. thinkin' about putting a giant tag at the bottom of my profile: evolution must apply
really, folks....use the ol' noggin. spell out your words...and if you're gonna use one line...make it a good one.
OT: being intimidated by someone doesn't mean you think they're better than you are (i often use the defense mechanism of 'yeah...she's prettier...but can she spell?'). but knowing that everyone is on the same level doesn't help the stuttering that seems to happen... | |
|
| |
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/22/2005 4:52:25 PM |
Carribeanking7 says:cristine (yep got that spelt right) - just mentally undress them...it does wonders for your confidence
I did that the other day while getting job applications and it worked!!!! I felt so much better!!!!!!!!
THANK YOU. | |
|
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/22/2005 7:05:27 PM |
^^^thats something i work on all the time...seems like i get a lil bit of self-esteem built up then i let someone take it away from me....i wish guys were like that...but lets face it we live in a shallow society...guys and chicks look at the outside beauty before the inside beauty...9 times outta 10 im gonna get looked over b/c im not "barbie". its just how our society is...we glamorize the pretty people...we envy them...we want to be like them...i mwish more guys would see my inner beauty..i wish more people would see everyone's inner beauty..but alas they dont...its sad but true..as much as I wish your words were true..i know guys out there arnt like that...
meh, you didn't get my post:
Imagine every attractive guy NOTICES your beauty...(right away)
Your mind is telling you all that junk not society. You can't change society but you CAN change yourself. Especially how you think.
Your homework is to read that phrase or say it to yourself 50 times. Then go do it. | |
|
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/23/2005 4:20:21 AM | It all goes back to junior high and being picked on.
I don't know if I would say I'm intimidated, it is more like wow, you are gorgeous, how can I compete.
I try to stay away from pretty boys though as most of the ones I've talked to only seem to be out for some ass. | |
|
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 7/31/2005 7:44:08 PM | I'm only intimidated by the fact the mother ****ers get paid so ****in much! Stop that ya dumb ****, I'm trying to make a connection here! | |
|
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 7/31/2005 7:58:56 PM | | Yes indeed I am. I will always ignore a pretty woman on the bus if she sits next to me. I am painfully shy thats the biggest reason. | |
|
Kaal
| | Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 189 | |
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 7/31/2005 8:46:24 PM | | I find that with most "pretty" people I don't have problems with, I can be all smooth. However as soon as I realise I actually have a chance, then I screw it up by trying to think. | |
|
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 7/31/2005 8:47:49 PM | Here's something to think about:
Every time there's a study on what people find attractive where the test subjects are shown pictures of people they consistently rate the pictures of people with smiles higher than those with pictures of people who didn't smile. In other words, a smile goes a ways in making you more attractive whether you're male or female.
A smile makes you appear more open to be approached. On that note, just think about it and ask yourself whether you are really intimidated by people that are pretty or people that are pretty who don't invite attention in some way.
Oh, and Sweetchristine, while I have no good reason to feel that you'd feel intimidated by me, if I see you on the word games, I'll boost your ego. Cheers. | |
|
| Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 7/31/2005 8:59:09 PM | ^^^ agree...a smile does make you more approachable..........
another thing is.......being friendly
I can start a coversation with just about anybody..............
No problem with the ladies........but some guys felt intimidated & suspicious..
maybe they thought I was Gay....
I thought so too.....until I was 10 or so , then I found out ..it didnt mean happy anymore | |
|
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
bayguy
| | Joined: 7/1/2005
Msg: 200 | |
| |
Home
login 
