| where are the good women
Posted: 9/8/2008 8:55:01 AM | | thanks for all the insightful opinions...this site also keeps me laughing, especially when faceless ppl have so much too add...i know there are good women...even on here | |
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| where are the good women
Posted: 9/8/2008 9:45:53 AM | good women ARE everywhere!! the fact that people cant see pass the physical appearance instead of the inner beauty instead.
People are just darn too picky and superficial.
stop looking so damn hard and she'll find you when the time is right.
change pics by the way it does make you looked a bit conceited. | |
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Pers14
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Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 53 | |
| where are the good women
Posted: 9/8/2008 9:49:11 AM | I call troll on you sir!
You post a thread, and when a lady gives you positive advice written in a kind way, and you say that she has no business giving you advice! The forum is called "ASK A GIRL". *bonk* | |
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TrinB
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Joined: 4/27/2008
Msg: 55 | |
| where are the good women
Posted: 9/8/2008 10:24:29 AM | i am pretty certain that ASK A GIRL...means that the following should occur:
1. A man posts a question or dilemma
2. Women/Girls (haha) respond with their insight and/or advice
It is called ask a girl.....not post a question for women to answer and a bunch of dudes get on here and ramble to the male poster....wow
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| where are the good women
Posted: 9/8/2008 10:26:20 AM | They say that if you keep getting in horrible relationships that fail then the problem ultimately lies with you. Fair enough.
What do you do to stop attracting the wrong type of girl?
For some reason I keep attracting or getting involved with the same type of girl. Women that seem caring and loving and all that jazz on the outside...but on the inside are actually not that caring at all, women with no hearts that will cut you off in a second.
I understand that everyone puts up a front, I do too. Like most people i'm polite and good mannered but I also have a cynical/negative side....but that's just a small part of me. Even then I'm still believe in Love, and If I have a GF I will genuinely care about her. My feelings are real.
The girls I meet seem real on the outside, but the more I get to know them the more I realize these girls are incapable of love. This doesn't apply to every girl end up with, but the last 3 fit the bill. | |
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TrinB
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Joined: 4/27/2008
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| where are the good women
Posted: 9/8/2008 10:37:19 AM | OP- so glad you are keeping up-to-date with your thread
Now for my opinion - there are a lot of good guys and good girls out there, just gotta know how to find them. It all starts when either male or female sends an e-mail. The good guys and girls will send you an e-mail based on what they have read in your profile.
Others (bad) will just send a "paste note" that gets sent to a bunch of people. (see ya )
A good man or woman will keep their obligations. If they say they want to meet you, then they should. I could go on and on but I might end up writing a book. One thing I do know, all the good ones are in another state lol
I hope I've helped in answering your question
Good luck to you | |
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| where are the good women
Posted: 9/8/2008 12:16:15 PM | | all the different opinions are useful...even the antagonistic ones...keep um commin guys...i'm determined too understand why we humans have so many relationship problems...the more you guys add on too this thread the closer we get too understanding each other...that's rite folks, each other...i am not in this alone | |
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| where are the good women
Posted: 9/8/2008 12:29:18 PM | | Try “The Villages” in Florida. Lots of single old-fashioned nice ladies there. And free golf for the rest of your life. | |
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| where are the good women
Posted: 9/8/2008 1:16:10 PM | | if the world were full to the brim with good women and men, we wouldn't need POF or any other place to complain otherwise ;) | |
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| where are the good women
Posted: 9/8/2008 3:49:04 PM | you cant expect to just meet some girl thats exactly everything u want. You have to the good with the bad.
Attraction a big thing nowadays.
That aside. People grow together. And in that it only gets better. If both people want it to..
The more people are together in a relationship, the more they learn about eachother, They more they understand what the other really wants in a partner.. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 3:55:55 PM | | Some of us are still raising our boys, helping them to become Men! My focus is on them, not on the dating scene. Yes, I'm on POF, and yes, I'm looking. But, I figure it'll take awhile to get to know each other well enough to become a cohesive "one". So, in the meantime, I'll keep raising my boys and hope Mr. Right doesn't mind my slow hand! | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 4:11:30 PM | Very true, Many people actually do advanced searches, to see what would be good matches.
And can have a conversation with someone without a picture.
Because they are a person with interests just like you.
From what I've seen on other threads, Girls dont show pics anymore, due to obscene messages. And the others who knows.. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 4:47:29 PM | | observations well noted...but seeing that we are physical beings it only seems logical that physical attraction is first and foremost...no matter how intelligent, sincere and good-hearted a person is...our nature dictates that physical prowess comes first...when we are not on these computers we look to physical attraction first...no sits at bar, club or whatever and says...dam he/she has an incredible heart, mind or soul...but rather, dam he/she has a nice smile,body or the like | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 6:21:24 PM | Since I'm feeling kinda lazy right now...I just copied my own answer again. If you can answer these questions then that will help those of us who might be "good women" figure you out.........
Melladasia
OK I'll bite. But I have some questions for you, if you don't mind...
1) define "good woman" please. Be as specific as you need to be--any and everything that would be a "good woman" in your mind
2) explain what you, as a "good man", bring to the table of love, if you will, that will entice me to become your good woman
So...please answer those 2 questions. And take your time. I don't want half-assed answers. Then I'll think that you do everything half-assed and that will be my answer to you. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 6:30:26 PM |
Doesn't he know how rude it is to keep a lady waiting....
Ha Mizq...perhaps I'm not "good enough" for him... | |
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Posted: 9/11/2008 8:30:27 PM | Sure I give it a little thought..
1) In my mind, good can mean alot of things. Different in every guy..For starters, a girl you would feel happy, and comfortable bringing around your parents, and other family.
-one that doesn't only look for sex.
-has her sights set in life, and is working towards them..
-equal effort in a relationship.
2) check my profile for starters. Other than that;
- I bring honesty,
- understanding,
- willingness to be there no matter what.
- adventure
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| where are the good women
Posted: 9/12/2008 2:51:51 AM | | ^ Funny you mention that. It seems like every time a profile catches my eye on here, she lives somewhere in Ontario. | |
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