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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/8/2009 5:01:11 PM | coooooome on...are you seriously in the dark on the answer to this hun?! ask any younger guy and they will tell you its the fact we know what we want, we dont play games like the 20 yr olds and well lets face it..the sex is probably a helluva lot better since we have experience.. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/9/2009 12:05:31 PM | | dregz you are so wrong...its not the main reason..get your facts straight and survey a young male population.....there are some older desperate women out there..that would take anyone, anytime anyplace BUT that would include any age man..not just younger ones..so male chauvenistic of you.. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/9/2009 6:47:02 PM | | sun: Kind of hypocritical to whine about someone generalizing about older women when you did the exact same thing to younger women a few posts up isn't it? Someone touched a nerve I think. Besides that, almost every older woman in here has no problem generalizing about older men non stop in these threads. It's pathetic how women create these stupid scenarios about older guys to make up excuses about why they want to rob the cradle instead of just admitting that they're the exact same as the so called male jerks they constantly complain about. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out why a lot of older men don't want to date women their own age when they're so emotionally abusive and negative towards them all the time. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/9/2009 7:36:05 PM | OH PLease RoadRanger....and you know all this because??? What you are saying is a load of S.......Dont make judgement calls on something you dont know anything about..If a younger guy likes an older woman it can be for any number of reasons, for years and years it has been acceptable behaviour for an older guy to get with a younger woman, so now the tables are turned and I think some people have a problem with it...If I choose to be with a younger guy..its my choice..not because he gives me a few compliments, sorry that doesnt work...u know coz Im "older" and I know better by now. My vanity doesnt need any help at all I am very happy and comfortable in my skin...and If I feel the need to "Mommy" I'll go talk to my kids...So my question to you is..do u have a problem with it????
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/9/2009 9:06:19 PM | | I am 60 very comfortable iin my skin as some of you ladies are saying. Confident, independent, I have been married twice and for as long as 23 years, BUT now i am single and i have found younger men to be most attentive and pleasing. I have always enjoyed sex my entire adult life. I have a 32 year old man who loves to please me in the sack. However I am not looking to him for a LTR. He keeps talking about being together but i know that time span is just too great to work that way, besides i just like the sex it is fantastic. So I see him now and then but still am looking for some one close to my age for a LTR. When I get that, Mr 32 will just be another story of my past. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/9/2009 9:21:59 PM | Ive ofen wondered that myself.
I find myself attracted to older women too. With me its the way younger women handle themselves. These days you see alot of the younger women do some kind of gesture with their fingers that's suppose to mean west side, or some kind of what they call gangster sign, I dont quite understand it, to me its very inmature.
I find alot of older women more in shape, it seems they care more about their body's and their appearence, and I find that very sexy!
Older women know more what they want, and they dont play mind games to get it!
That's my two cents worth! ;) | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/19/2009 4:28:08 PM | well first of all it starts off as a fantasy, then after the flirt it starts to become a reality
younger men, like older women, because we feel more secure ...there like a mother figure, but you can have sex with them ..lol ...as corny as that sounds
older women are more affectionate , understanding, they notice all the details & a man doesn't feel like an idiot if he needs abit of guidance
then the male ego kicks in & a man starts to think ... this women has been with so many guys ...older men cant be keeping up with her ...she must be so bored ! ...she's seen & heard it all ...so now its a mission ..an adventure !!!
from there on, its just the sweet sounds of her orgasm(s) ...she's getting what she has probably been waiting for, for years & the young guy is getting his fantasy fulfilled
so everything is paradise
& if the older women rejects him, then its no prob ...it was just a fantasy ! life goes on
but if a younger guy, gets rejected by a younger women ...then its the end of the world !!!
the young dude immediately feels like an idiot & there is something now wrong with him ...panic starts ! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/19/2009 5:08:54 PM | whooops i almost forgot .....older women know how to cook also !
iam sure most young guys would agree ...a naked older women cooking is another fantasy
the smell of nicely cooked food & the smell of her perfume ....will drive any young guy wild !
its different than just seeing a young girl ..sitting on the couch texting her friends, not paying attention too 50 % of what your saying | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/19/2009 5:35:12 PM | I just turned 30 so I can state the following:
1) Older women are more mature, tend to be a lot more stable (i.e I don't have to take her to the hottest clubs, bars and stores to keep her happy) and have higher sex drives (women are supposed to peak at 35 I believe).
2) Younger women do tend to play a lot of emotional games.
3) Older women are no nonsense when it comes to their wants and desires, and tend to know how to please a man.
Its funny, but there are no questions as to why young women want older men!! Historically, it wasn't even conceivable that a young women would marry a man her own age! Older people provide guidance, stability and education to young people that are in a period of their lives when they are just starting out.
I was very lucky to have to older women in my life. The first I lost my virginity too, the second a few years later took the time to teach me what women like (and I was a VERY god student ). I found both to be very, very attractive, and to be honest, the biggest difference I have ever heard or experinced was the things that interested us was a bit different. I was 16 with a 35 year old, and while i listened to rap and rock, she listened to R&B... it was very fun to learn about the music she listened to when she was my age, and I was like a little puppy when I could find a song she liked.
and I really don't need to hear comments about being abused by her! I knew EXACTLY what I was getting into, and if I could I would do it again. My best friend at the time had a 39 year old boyfriend! You should have seen the looks he got from the guys in my school when he showed up in his BMW to pick her up! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/19/2009 8:29:12 PM | Oh gawd....Some of these replies made me laugh...
Not sure I can answer the question as I am female but being GASP 42 (kidding as I LOVE life at this age) I can agree there are a heck of alot of younger men out there who are attracted to older women.
I know I am alot different now than I was when I was younger. For sure more confident sexually. I also think we are alot more independent than we were when we were younger and that is an attraction too.
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/19/2009 8:49:04 PM | | My ex husband was younger than me and had no clue what it took to please me and; unfortunately, kept me from enjoying, experiencing, and exploring the joys of sex. So now it's MY turn and MY rules, no games, no b-u-l-l-s-h-i-t!!! I've learned a lot about myself and my sexuality and I know what pleases me. However, if a young man only wants an older woman to learn from or experiment with and has the sex drive to match; more power to ya! It's about time the WOMEN take charge!!! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/19/2009 8:52:23 PM | | Have not read all 24 pages ....but this one is easy, it's all about confidence. Younger men are not secure with their sexuality and seem to think that an older woman will guide them with her knowledge. Just wish younger men would understand that not all older women desire to be a cougar. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/20/2009 12:39:58 AM | I don't know why but Ive been seeing one for over two months now and we go out for dinner, drinks, and occassionaly watch movies at his place. He pays every time we go out, Ive offered numerous times but he won't any. He treats me with the uttermost respect and vice versa.
Its not something that I'm wanting forever but we enjoy one another's company and have a great time together and thats all that matters.
Why question it..... enjoy  | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/20/2009 12:49:25 AM | Its also interesting how Road Ranger, Dregz and a few other members can bash the older ladies every chance they get and yet they cant even put there own picture up of what they look like and yet don't mind putting others down.
Why so bitter may I ask? | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/20/2009 7:14:04 AM |
Why question it.....
Exactly. Lotsa folks in this pool are either drowning or getting really tired of treading water. When some kind soul offers a hand, to help you out, take it, don't question it. And ignore the guy next to you who, most probably jealous, questions it "for you", even shouts at you, and expects you to listen. Misery loves company abounds, here, and where ever else.
There's nothing wrong with the younger man reaching out for an "older woman". Life just burns a little brighter in those who breach boundaries to close with another human.
There is waaay to much energy spent on searching for, and priding upon the discovery of, reasons why not to do something, when success only happens when we find the how to accomplish it. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/20/2009 7:44:40 AM | Good for you Lori! Older women are for the most part more secure with themselves and know what they want. Older men are just too old and have little energy to keep up with us. We live longer now than men so dating a younger man keeps us young and they are more appreciative. I and many of my women friends from 40 to 70 are with much younger men and loving it! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/20/2009 7:50:38 AM |
Older men are just too old and have little energy to keep up with us. We live longer now than men so dating a younger man keeps us young and they are more appreciative.
Would never hang you for rustling the yearlings (see prior post), but wish y'all wouldn't be so stupidly narrow-minded about it. | |
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