| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/23/2009 6:40:05 PM | fifi47:
I find that many men seem to prefer women who have a lot of baggage,
Please PLEASE come to NYC! Hurry! Geddy up! If you believe that one, come to NYC, I have 3 bridges to sell you, the Brooklyn, Manhattan and Williamsburgh Bridges. Give you a great deal. If you get here by tomorrow, I will even throw in the 59th Street Bridge to sweeten the deal!
Hmm...and to think I was about to say that I prefer younger women who have a lot of baggage? Thank goodness I've got my thinking cap on!
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/23/2009 7:26:23 PM | Actually I dont really think about someones "age" as long as they are legal LOL.
Now that I am in my 40's, I am at the mindset that its about pleasing myself (no not referring to THAT but hey thats good too) and not worrying what others think of the choices I make.
I am not a jealous chic who will blow up the phone trying to find him...heck I will be out enjoying life too.....
I dont "need" a man beside me to make me feel good about myself but if there is one beside me all the better....
I dont complain that you have friends that you want to spend time with..heck I have friends too and I really dont need you there beside me 24/7....
I dont "need" you to buy me_____ or pay for everything for me...thats why I have a job.....
BUT...when you are there our time will be spent on pleasurable things...not fussing about all the things above...And better eat your wheaties cause I enjoy sex 100 times more than I ever did when I was younger...
Melody
PS....sorry the above was just some thoughts from this "older" 42 yr old chic LOL. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/23/2009 7:42:43 PM | Now that I am in my 40's, I am at the mindset that its about pleasing myself (no not referring to THAT but hey thats good too) and not worrying what others think of the choices I make.
I am not a jealous chic who will blow up the phone trying to find him...heck I will be out enjoying life too.....
I dont "need" a man beside me to make me feel good about myself but if there is one beside me all the better....
I dont complain that you have friends that you want to spend time with..heck I have friends too and I really dont need you there beside me 24/7....
I dont "need" you to buy me_____ or pay for everything for me...thats why I have a job.....
BUT...when you are there our time will be spent on pleasurable things...not fussing about all the things above...And better eat your wheaties cause I enjoy sex 100 times more than I ever did when I was younger...
Melody,
I love all the reasons you stated above!
They all apply to me 100%
I am 41 and look alot younger. Maybe that's how it all started in the first place.
However too young is not my thing either. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/23/2009 8:29:44 PM | | We all have our own experiences and where I live it seems as if men love drama queens and women who have a lot of negative and troublesome lives and baggage. Sarcasm does not make me wrong or someone else right, nor does making fun of posters who have different experiences. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/23/2009 11:10:11 PM | | I met a woman about 20 years my senior tonight at a party. She is a wealthy lawyer and I approached about career advice. She proceeded to talk about how handsome I was and called me a young stud about 10 times. I would certainly want some of her money. Otherwise I like women much closer to my age...preferably a few years younger. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/12/2009 7:21:15 AM | You Got It!!! Goodman Greg,
My comfort zone is 44-55 and I have gone younger, but it sure works for me. Look after yourself and your "Tiger" will have a nasty bite for a long time. You are how you have lived!! The "Toy" boys eventually get discarded over the long term.
Yi-Ha!!!!!! Ain't life grand???  | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 7/13/2009 4:03:06 PM | | Im 23 years old and very interested in having sex with an older woman. I just want to see the difference between a woman my age compared to an experienced woman who knows what she is doing and has been around for some time. Older woman seem very sexy to me in different ways. I am looking for that one | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 7/13/2009 4:25:35 PM |
Because younger women aren't giving it up to them? Yep.
A young man can work on an older woman's vanity and use his "mommy pleasing" behaviors. The older woman gets a drink from the fountain of youth and has a partner she can handle with ease. The young man gets sex with a woman who actually appreciates it and without jumping through the hoops that young women set out.
wow it seems bad to say but I think this is true also, it appears that the older ladies usually are more secured with their sexuality and more likely to have sex sooner than with a younger lady.
which brings up this point, the older ladies may also be more stable and "treat" for dinner, pick up some tabs, or provide for herself, and the younger ladies still have to be wined and dined.
Rob
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 12:06:07 AM | | My goodness, isn't anyone going to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth? NO FEAR AND FREEDOM! At seventeen, my fifteen yr. old girl friend was already talking about marriage after we slept together once. Everyday after, all I heard was " I think I'm pregnant" maybe we should have used two condoms. That lovelorn sacrificial look on her face during penetration didn't help much and those mousey (I think pretend) orgasms didn't exactly rock my world either. I quickly learned that sex came with a high price...UNLESS...the woman you slept with would be ashamed to be seen with you in public as a couple...like a much older woman.....Ahhhhh, freedom! Later that year, I got lucky and actually had a 44 yr. old woman try to seduce me...she didn't have to try hard....took all of 40 seconds. That night, I learned what sex was meant to be. The roller coaster at the fair had nothing on this gal...except seat belts. Her orgasms were making dogs howl, and there were bunches of them. She was teaching and doing things to me I didn't think was legal in a civilized society. When the carnage was over and my dehydrated remains crawled out the door....I didn't have to worry about someone 27 yrs. my senior wanting to marry me or scaring me to death with pregnancy issues. It was a great experience that got me started off right in the sex department and I'm thankful for the lesson. So grannies.....the next time that bag boy at the grocery store totes your bags to the SUV....push his skinny little ass in and slam the hatch......he'll never forget you and his future wife will get the benifit of what you taught him. All's well that ends well! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 12:31:35 AM | This is certainly a thing happening around here. My daughter is 18, and her friends are all in that same age range. It drives my daughter crazy, but several of her guy buddies hit on me every time they see me. I get called a MILF all the time, and a couple of them im me when I'm online just to stay in touch. We have tons of kids this age around the house all the time, and my boyfriend takes it all with a laugh and a grain of salt. One of the teens even congratulated him, high-fived him on hooking me.
Talk about an ego-boost! I could never hook up with one of them, Not now, Never Never Never.
But it is nice to know that I still got 'it' LOL
I'll stick to my ADULT boyfriend.
Thanks!
Beth | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 12:43:09 AM | I am not at all surprised, Beth.
I'll bet you are known by them as "the cool mom". 
Though I don't think you would cross that line, I'll bet you have curisoities on
what it would be like to hook up with one of them.
I have heard this before, but what is your opinion on this:
Male's sexual prime is in their late teens to mid 20's
Female sexual prime is early 30's to mid 40's | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 1:06:07 AM | LOL, yeah I am the cool mom. I guess because I accept them all as individuals, no matter what they wear, what is pierced, or tattoed, or what color their hair happens to be. And they seem to find my house the place to gather, it's always been this way.
As for being curious about the young guys, no, not really. I don't think they have much to offer me that I don't already have in abundance.
As to the differences in the drives of male vs. female, I think it sucks. But it makes me wonder, if I had known at 18 what I liked, didn't like, and how to get myself to relax and enjoy it like I do now, and I had had a great lover, maybe my peak would have started then and continued for 20 years!!!! Wow, what a thought!
Beth | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 1:11:43 AM | I think the whole theory that women are in their sexual prime later than men is
because they are less inhibited and like you said, can relax and enjoy it more.
And I guess the thing for men, is that they tend to slow down a little when they
get older. Hence, the reason why their sexual prime is in their youth... | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 1:23:43 AM | | goodwitchbeth, of course you've still got it....you're not old enough to have lost it yet....if you are speaking of looks. You are still to young to be serious MILF material....you are still in those "could have a baby years".....scary. Not only that, you are not as good in bed as you will be some day....I know, you think you are. At about 45 you will begin to realize your full potential. I've slept with all age ranges and every one of them thought they were as hot as it gets. Wait until you pass that 45 mark and see how many young men will want to jump your bones. From seventeen until the time I got married, I only looked at a women your age for eye candy and flirt practise. When it came to the nitty gritty...nothing under 45 really held any serious interest to me. I would have taken a fair looking 45 yr. old over a drop dead gorgeous younger woman anyday. My friends that had experienced women in their mid forties to early fifties felt the same way. BTW dear....never say never. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 1:46:02 AM | | Seeks advice, that sexual prime for males in the twenties is a myth. Just because we get an erection every time we pass a manniquin at Sears doesn't mean we have mastered the control of that anxious tool. Neither have we learned to savor the touch of flesh throughout the entire body as we do later on. The best all night sex I've ever had was in my late forties and early fifties. The woman involved was also my age. It just gets better until you just can't do it anymore from what I hear. My experience so far tends to suggest that might be true. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 1:54:23 AM |
because we get an erection every time we pass a manniquin at Sears...
LMAO
Well I am 39, and I haven't noticed a decrease in interest...but have noticed it takes
longer to cum than it did when I was younger. I was thinking that maybe I am the
exception because I have heard of this myth in the past.... | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 2:21:00 AM | | Seeks-advice, That taking longer to cum is what makes it better as you get older....but that isn't happening due to physical decay. It's happening due to experience, because of the variation in time it take for different women to orgasm. You will built you hang time to accommodate even the slowest. Most women don't become multiple orgasmic until they reach their thirties, so after you experience this....your desire to see how many they can reach will cause your hang time to increase dramatically. Their full orgasmic abilities will peak in the mid forties to early fifties and your hang time will start to extend until smoke starts coming from the pubic area....have a fire extinguisher handy. The amusment of them having orgasms every ten strokes will keep you excited enough to see it to the end.....should you both live that long. Usually somebody is going to pass out.....hopefully her! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 2:40:25 AM | | Some of us older women are not grannies, we still could possibly get pregant, we are not looking for a casual fling, and we want to get married. Younger men should not paint all older women with the same brush or make assumptions. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 7:43:01 AM | There was an older woman (an engineer) in my town who dated a much younger, male assistant from the same company. They both tried to convince themselves that no one in the workplace knew about it; but it turned out that everyone at that company pretty much knew what was going on. It made her look ridiculous and made him look like a boy-toy.
Finally, an associate of hers (another engineer) made an innocuous joke about older/younger relationships (not specifically about the woman in question), and this woman flipped out. She assumed that the comments were aimed at her directly, which apparently, they were not. This older woman tried to have her associate fired; but, of course, that fell through. She looked ridiculous and had to leave the company herself because of her overreaction.
These "relationships" are cartoonish. They are serious jokes. Obviously, people are free to do what they want and it's their choice; but I've never seen a relationship (where the woman was older by more than a couple of years) that wasn't a complete fiasco. It's something for anyone considering a connection like that to think about.  | |
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