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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 11:11:16 AM | Spitefire, sounds like you missed the boat. There are exceptions to every rule due to personalities, but for the most part, these encounters work out just fine for both parties. I see that you said "relationship"......there isn't any relationship in these arrangements...and that's just the point. We are talking about "sex" with older women, not relationships with them. When a teenage young man gets hit with that load of hormones....he is a serious preditor.... snakes were afraid to come in my yard. Those silly giggling little teenage girls with their heads full of romance were a real pain. Walking around with a heat seeking missile in your pants and having to compliment some little teeny bopper ten times on her toe nail polish before she would let you get her bra off, just wasn't a productive use of time.....the panties...OMG...another hour of " do you really love me"?.....then the condom...yuk. My hayday was before AIDS and other serious STDS were around, so pregnancy was the major issue. The older women that would accomodate a young man usually were fixed and couldn't get pregnant. The bareback ride with no worries, was winning the lottery.....God, how I miss the good old days. Today, it's a different story....there is stuff out there that would desolve a stainless steel condom. For this reason, older women don't offer the main benifit of the bareback ride anymore, because they are just as risky or more so than the young girls. They can still offer experience, but way back when....that was very nice, but not the main attraction. How sex is viewed, has much to do with the time period in which we speak....so what was then, holds no water today. You young guys have a whole new set of rules to deal with. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 2:13:42 PM | When I was about 16, my ultimate fantasy was to have sex with Raquel Welch! I never realized that fantasy but when I was in my 30s, I dated women who were about a decade my senior, usually just coming out of marriages and yes, horny. In those days, it was fun! All they wanted was a good time and I was happy to be part of it.
Fast forward to right now. Recently at a Christmas in July party, I met a woman whom I thought was about 55. Turned out she was 69! At least she flattered me when she told me I looked too young to be at this event! She thought I was 40!
At this point in my life, women from 40 to 55 are potential relationship candidates. I no longer wish to date older women.
BTW, Raquel Welch is about 69 now and she looks just fine! OK, she's probably been fixed a few times. Raquel Welch was recently in TV commercials for Foster Grant sunglasses and I'm sure their sales didn't go down! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 8:11:31 PM | BECAUSE IT IS FORBIDDEN/TABOO etc etc etc.
When I was 19 I met a woman 35 and she was totally hot. In my thinking I believed she was a woman who "knew it all when it came to sex" (and she did) she rocked my world and now I still remember and treasure her.
You also got to figure there's tons of guys who see movies like "My tutor" and fantasize about being with their teacher or other woman. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 8:23:37 PM | I doubt my young students fantasize about being with me, although I did know a parent of a student who told me he dreamed about me. ( creepy), as he was married and was talking about it when his wife was with him at a meeting regarding their child. 35 to a 19 year old is ancient, at 51 I would not attract a 19 year old unless he possibly had a grandmother obsession....  | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 8:39:11 PM | I think the answer is the same for men and women. People tend to sex people alot older then them because of the olders persons experience. I also think alot of the times its just a physical attraction -age is but a number. Also theres a certain attention young people seek out from older people and vice versa. Someone much older feeling needed by someone that much younger-could be a tremendous ego booster-makes em feel young again. Someone younger is gonna know that the older person can spare a gem or two-drop some knowledge about certail life experiences. The lust factor always plays a part feeling wanted and desirable is one of the main ingredients of sex. No matter what condition the relatinship both people are gonna wanna feel wanted and desired. A younger person can get turned on sexually just from feeling wanted so much by a older person. A older person will be turned on at the site of a much younger body in front of em waited to be pleased by them.
I cant lie-i've been thinking about older women in that way that are in need of affection and attention. I guess i think about em because of the kind of energy they could bring into the bedroom-being experienced and hungry for sexual attention. Im naturally hungry for sex all the time-if i get it everday or not. Im curious to how intense the situation could be between me an a older female. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 9:05:58 PM |
Spitfire, sounds like you missed the boat. There are exceptions to every rule due to personalities, but for the most part, these encounters work out just fine for both parties.
Nope, I was in one or two of those things in my early twenties. I didn't have a bad experience; but with other people, I've seen many more of these things end up being comical rather than fulfilling. It's overrated. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/26/2009 3:08:24 PM |
I am not offended if someone refers to me as a "Cougar".
Meh, me, neither. In my circle, it's not a derogatory term at all. In fact, I have a friend in her mid-thirties who says she can't wait to be a cougar!! LOL
There are puh-lenty of young men who are "Couger feed"... lol | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/26/2009 3:39:01 PM |
LMFFAO!!!! Most guys think a hot dinner is a trip to Mc Donald's via the drive through window-----omg, I think I just cracked a rib laughing!! It's nice to see some folks have a GOOD sense of humor!!
Happy Meals are cheap and the younger man gets to keep the toy...LOL!!
Thanks for making my day!!!
O. M. G. You are just frickin' hilarious, Mary. Actually, I'm dealing with this right now. There's this hot little young'un been messaging me...it's tempting, and flattering, and fun....but it's not something some women take lightly, given all the taboos and stereotypes surrounding the issue. To say it's caused an internal debate would not be missing the mark. Oy | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/26/2009 5:42:29 PM | Wow-you dug this out of the archives!!
I had almost forgotten about this because I started it such a long time ago!
For the young man above...not all older women are easy, You'd be surprised how many young men get turned down!
But, I must admit it is sometimes flattering to receive a nice compliment from a younger man from time to time  | |
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