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| | Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?Page 27 of 35 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35) | Spitefire, sounds like you missed the boat. There are exceptions to every rule due to personalities, but for the most part, these encounters work out just fine for both parties. I see that you said "relationship"......there isn't any relationship in these arrangements...and that's just the point. We are talking about "sex" with older women, not relationships with them. When a teenage young man gets hit with that load of hormones....he is a serious preditor.... snakes were afraid to come in my yard. Those silly giggling little teenage girls with their heads full of romance were a real pain. Walking around with a heat seeking missile in your pants and having to compliment some little teeny bopper ten times on her toe nail polish before she would let you get her bra off, just wasn't a productive use of time.....the panties...OMG...another hour of " do you really love me"?.....then the condom...yuk. My hayday was before AIDS and other serious STDS were around, so pregnancy was the major issue. The older women that would accomodate a young man usually were fixed and couldn't get pregnant. The bareback ride with no worries, was winning the lottery.....God, how I miss the good old days. Today, it's a different story....there is stuff out there that would desolve a stainless steel condom. For this reason, older women don't offer the main benifit of the bareback ride anymore, because they are just as risky or more so than the young girls. They can still offer experience, but way back when....that was very nice, but not the main attraction. How sex is viewed, has much to do with the time period in which we speak....so what was then, holds no water today. You young guys have a whole new set of rules to deal with. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 2:13:42 PM | When I was about 16, my ultimate fantasy was to have sex with Raquel Welch! I never realized that fantasy but when I was in my 30s, I dated women who were about a decade my senior, usually just coming out of marriages and yes, horny. In those days, it was fun! All they wanted was a good time and I was happy to be part of it.
Fast forward to right now. Recently at a Christmas in July party, I met a woman whom I thought was about 55. Turned out she was 69! At least she flattered me when she told me I looked too young to be at this event! She thought I was 40!
At this point in my life, women from 40 to 55 are potential relationship candidates. I no longer wish to date older women.
BTW, Raquel Welch is about 69 now and she looks just fine! OK, she's probably been fixed a few times. Raquel Welch was recently in TV commercials for Foster Grant sunglasses and I'm sure their sales didn't go down! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 8:11:31 PM | BECAUSE IT IS FORBIDDEN/TABOO etc etc etc.
When I was 19 I met a woman 35 and she was totally hot. In my thinking I believed she was a woman who "knew it all when it came to sex" (and she did) she rocked my world and now I still remember and treasure her.
You also got to figure there's tons of guys who see movies like "My tutor" and fantasize about being with their teacher or other woman. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 8:23:37 PM | I doubt my young students fantasize about being with me, although I did know a parent of a student who told me he dreamed about me. ( creepy), as he was married and was talking about it when his wife was with him at a meeting regarding their child. 35 to a 19 year old is ancient, at 51 I would not attract a 19 year old unless he possibly had a grandmother obsession....  | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 8:39:11 PM | I think the answer is the same for men and women. People tend to sex people alot older then them because of the olders persons experience. I also think alot of the times its just a physical attraction -age is but a number. Also theres a certain attention young people seek out from older people and vice versa. Someone much older feeling needed by someone that much younger-could be a tremendous ego booster-makes em feel young again. Someone younger is gonna know that the older person can spare a gem or two-drop some knowledge about certail life experiences. The lust factor always plays a part feeling wanted and desirable is one of the main ingredients of sex. No matter what condition the relatinship both people are gonna wanna feel wanted and desired. A younger person can get turned on sexually just from feeling wanted so much by a older person. A older person will be turned on at the site of a much younger body in front of em waited to be pleased by them.
I cant lie-i've been thinking about older women in that way that are in need of affection and attention. I guess i think about em because of the kind of energy they could bring into the bedroom-being experienced and hungry for sexual attention. Im naturally hungry for sex all the time-if i get it everday or not. Im curious to how intense the situation could be between me an a older female. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/3/2009 9:05:58 PM |
Spitfire, sounds like you missed the boat. There are exceptions to every rule due to personalities, but for the most part, these encounters work out just fine for both parties.
Nope, I was in one or two of those things in my early twenties. I didn't have a bad experience; but with other people, I've seen many more of these things end up being comical rather than fulfilling. It's overrated. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/26/2009 3:08:24 PM |
I am not offended if someone refers to me as a "Cougar".
Meh, me, neither. In my circle, it's not a derogatory term at all. In fact, I have a friend in her mid-thirties who says she can't wait to be a cougar!! LOL
There are puh-lenty of young men who are "Couger feed"... lol | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/26/2009 3:39:01 PM |
LMFFAO!!!! Most guys think a hot dinner is a trip to Mc Donald's via the drive through window-----omg, I think I just cracked a rib laughing!! It's nice to see some folks have a GOOD sense of humor!!
Happy Meals are cheap and the younger man gets to keep the toy...LOL!!
Thanks for making my day!!!
O. M. G. You are just frickin' hilarious, Mary. Actually, I'm dealing with this right now. There's this hot little young'un been messaging me...it's tempting, and flattering, and fun....but it's not something some women take lightly, given all the taboos and stereotypes surrounding the issue. To say it's caused an internal debate would not be missing the mark. Oy | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/26/2009 5:42:29 PM | Wow-you dug this out of the archives!!
I had almost forgotten about this because I started it such a long time ago!
For the young man above...not all older women are easy, You'd be surprised how many young men get turned down!
But, I must admit it is sometimes flattering to receive a nice compliment from a younger man from time to time  | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/3/2012 4:38:10 PM | | Being almost 48, I've had 2 experiences dating younger men. one was 27 to my then 46, and one 35 to my 45. Basically I think younger men find older women to be more comfortable with ourselves, both sexually and emotionally, and when a woman is confidant with herself, that is a HUGE turn on for anyone of any age.We don't have alot of drama ( some of us lol ) we know what we like, and we are not afraid to say so.We like ourselves, and are not out to prove anything to anyone.I myself, have always had an air of calm,cool and sexy without even trying.That sexy little saunter that just comes naturally.That's just how I am.It's not always just about sex,,, it's about attitude..And at 48.. I still have it :) Hats off to all the over 40 gals out there, and the men that love us !! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/3/2012 5:37:20 PM | | Not sure what the attraction is these days, but when I was younger my acquaintance's attraction to older women, women desperately attempting to cling to their fading youth, were the fact they were easy. I never had the attraction. I always found them pathetically easy. | |
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Posted: 4/4/2012 10:28:13 AM | | The age group I get hit in by far are the guys in there twenties! Seriously. About 4 times a day. I'm starting to think they all have "mommy issues" lol. Its tempting but I have to pass, I have always dated men younger than myself but that's too young. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/4/2012 1:11:16 PM | | I've been having a 23 year old trying to get into my panties for the last month. I am 35. He claims that he's into older chicks. It's very tempting due to the fact that he is a good looking guy, but I just cant't seem to allow it to happen. I want to but I don't want to. If only he was a few years older. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/4/2012 1:39:39 PM | Damn this thread got pulled out of mothballs.
I have said it over and over. My best past relationships were with women 10-20 years older than myself (most closer to 20). Older women know what they want and aren't afraid to tell a guy what they want and how they want it. To top it all off.... they love sex, are uninhibited, and will teach a young guy the true meaning of how a woman's body is a playground" .
One of the biggest issues guys complain about right up to their mid thirties with women..... "what am I supposed to be an effin mind reader?"
Never gonna happen with a 40 something year old talking to a 20 something year old guy. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/4/2012 1:47:09 PM | Not to doubt anyone's attractiveness to younger men......you all adorable, I'm sure. However, I think some of this (at least online) relates to the simple law of supply and demand.
The fact of the matter is many online sites contain SO many more men than women. The sites don't acknowlege this statistic because it would reflect poorly on the site. The men don't harp on it because it comes across as sour grapes or an indictment of their ability to attract. The women don't realize it......they just know they are getting bombarded with solicitations with little effort, including from much younger men who having experienced limited response from their own age group, start wondering up the age ladder in order to get acknowledged.
In fact, many women get addicted to the false, surreal attention they receive online. The problem is online is not the real world, and eventually there is personal interaction.....which inevitably brings all parties down to earth and doesn't last if age and/or attractiveness are not eveningly balanced. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/4/2012 9:04:46 PM | tennisman2388
You are so right! The numbers are skewed in favour of women and the statistics about the percentage that men can expect with contacts, just not true and then they get disappointed when they dont have success. If they are not doing well in real life, being on a dating site lessens their chances even more. IMO.
It is easy to get addicted to the false attention online and all the pretty words but after a while a sane woman realises it is just cyberspace and often bullshit. So much illusion and disillusion. Women do realise after a while that they are outnumbered and that a lot of men just random hit and it is obvious when they are not anywhere near the criteria women post on their profiles. Some people see online as the real world and therein lies the problem.
In my experience I get contacts from a certain ethnicity who are half my age and I am sure are not "all that."
They are trying the older woman as a last resort, no matter what they say. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/4/2012 9:14:17 PM | mtn lover
I dont know how old you are but STD's have always been an issue and spread by those who do not use protection, such as older mature women and it is epidemic. As well as men who thought that a mature woman was the answer because she couldnt get pregnant. You are remembering the good old days through rose coloured glasses I suspect.
Too bad about not using the condom mate. NO BALLOON NO PARTY.
I dont think sexual morays have changed all that much and females still want connection and relationship when they have sex, in the main and men still tell them lies to get into their pants. Age old. | |
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Posted: 4/4/2012 9:16:56 PM | sweet lady lori
I think he is talking about a fit, botoxed and had the work done, older woman. Wrinkles and grey hair are never sexy on a woman. As long as they dont look their age, that is fine and I guess he is referring to a woman around 45 at the most??? | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/4/2012 10:05:32 PM | | Im not saying it happens alot but I occasionally do find older women very attractive. (50+) But that generally assumes they are in very good shape. So its not the fact that they are old that appeals to me.. just the fact that they got it going on! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/5/2012 8:52:03 AM | | Its always about the sex. I liked older women cause they dont date as much as younger women do. Just read the forums on here and you see that women over 40 have hard time meeting people to date. But they still wanted sex. There was no reason to worry that she might want more as she was older then you. They also liked the idea that a younger guy would chase them. Even if they knew that its for sex they still liked the idea they have what it takes.. I understand and seen some guys that do want an older woman cause they have the mommy issues. But 99.9% its all about the sex. | |
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